Yikes! a top finally bottoms...ugh.

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    Jan 05, 2010 10:07 PM GMT
    Ok, I did it. I bottomed for the first time. And I gotta say, I wasn't impressed. I'm not sure what anyone finds even remotely good about the whole thing. I felt awkward and uncomfortable the whole time...like my stomach and intestines were getting poked...and it never did feel good.

    It's not like I've never had a finger or anything up there...though it did take awhile for him to get in.

    It's not that he didn't know what he was doing...I picked him because I know that he does know what he's doing.

    It's not that I don't think he's hot or am not into him....cause I TOTALLY am. The other reason I picked him.

    So...bleh...do you think there are some people who just don't like bottoming and for whom it simply doesn't feel good?
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    Jan 05, 2010 10:23 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidI'm not sure what anyone finds even remotely good about the whole thing.


    of course you don't know what it is because you probably don't have it to begin with. it's all about sensitivity and how you're sensory nerves are wired.



    tommysguns2000 saidSo...bleh...do you think there are some people who just don't like bottoming and for whom it simply doesn't feel good?


    duh icon_razz.gif

    and there are some people who just don't like topping because their equipment just will not work unless they you poke their prostate........hi there icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 05, 2010 10:30 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidOk, I did it. I bottomed for the first time.

    Where's the drooling smiley when I need one!


    tommysguns2000 saidSo...bleh...do you think there are some people who just don't like bottoming and for whom it simply doesn't feel good?

    I'm sure there are many guys who just don't like bottoming. Just as I'm sure there are even more who didn't love it the first time. For many, I'd say it's an acquired taste.
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    Jan 06, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    I guess I'll stick to topping...
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:00 AM GMT
    What, no videos?????
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
    yeah. i agree, ugh. i've tried it. not into it. not even into getting rimmed
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
    Congrats!
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:06 AM GMT
    Not alone, my man. I've done it with a past boyfriend on the rare occasion, but not since, oh, 2002 or so. Honestly, I wish I liked it more, because it sure looks like most bottoms are really into it. BUT, that's just not the case for some of us.
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:06 AM GMT
    I give you props for at least giving it a try, unlike some of these so-called strict power tops who have total complexes about anything anal-related, yet have never even tried it.
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:07 AM GMT
    congratulations bob icon_lol.gif
  • 8Always_Hard8

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    Jan 06, 2010 1:08 AM GMT
    ya well i topped

    and it wasnt anything special... i have no idea how you can get off to it



    I will stick to being a bottom whore icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    I have to disagree a little..

    I think 99% of men can bottom, bottom well and enjoy it...

    There is more to it then the top knowing what he's doing.. You gotta want him in you, when he says he wants to be in you, your head as just gotta scream YES..

    And I think every top can find someone there head will do that for.. you just need to find the ones who push the right buttons, what ever they are.

    On another note, the first time you bottom, you can't really judge it, personally, the first time I bottomed it didn't feel particularly good, it wasn't horrible but it wasn't great either, it was uncomfortable and I felt like peeing the entire time.. now that I'm used to it, it's an entirely different story, now I climb on, slide it in, lean back a little and ride it till my head explodes.. but it took a really really good time and effort to get to that point.


    If it wasn't super uncomfortable for you and this experience hasn't driven you away from it, keep trying it, each time it'll be easier, each time, it'll be less intense, each time you'll start to feel something different and before long your gonna stick your arse out and be screaming to be had ;)

    and no, I don't agree that some guys are just purely tops, baring any medical or funky conditions going on...

    A lot of times it's the guys head (on your shoulders) that stops him from enjoying the experience.
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    8Always_Hard8 saidya well i topped

    and it wasnt anything special... i have no idea how you can get off to it



    I will stick to being a bottom whore icon_twisted.gif


    Yup I know what you mean. EVen when i put a condom on, I go limp and can't see myself ever sticking it in an ass.
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:18 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI have to disagree a little..

    I think 99% of men can bottom, bottom well and enjoy it...

    There is more to it then the top knowing what he's doing.. You gotta want him in you, when he says he wants to be in you, your head as just gotta scream YES..

    And I think every top can find someone there head will do that for.. you just need to find the ones who push the right buttons, what ever they are.

    On another note, the first time you bottom, you can't really judge it, personally, the first time I bottomed it didn't feel particularly good, it wasn't horrible but it wasn't great either, it was uncomfortable and I felt like peeing the entire time.. now that I'm used to it, it's an entirely different story, now I climb on, slide it in, lean back a little and ride it till my head explodes.. but it took a really really good time and effort to get to that point.


    If it wasn't super uncomfortable for you and this experience hasn't driven you away from it, keep trying it, each time it'll be easier, each time, it'll be less intense, each time you'll start to feel something different and before long your gonna stick your arse out and be screaming to be had ;)

    and no, I don't agree that some guys are just purely tops, baring any medical or funky conditions going on...

    A lot of times it's the guys head (on your shoulders) that stops him from enjoying the experience.


    Bravo! Agreed.
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:20 AM GMT
    The second time feels better
  • DCEric

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    Jan 06, 2010 1:21 AM GMT
    Aggieboy said
    Yup I know what you mean. EVen when i put a condom on, I go limp and can't see myself ever sticking it in an ass.


    Seriously? I like that way that feels.
    /Being a bottom has never worked for me. I've tried.
  • 8Always_Hard8

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    Jan 06, 2010 1:22 AM GMT
    Aggieboy said
    8Always_Hard8 saidya well i topped

    and it wasnt anything special... i have no idea how you can get off to it



    I will stick to being a bottom whore icon_twisted.gif


    Yup I know what you mean. EVen when i put a condom on, I go limp and can't see myself ever sticking it in an ass.


    well i can stay hard and it feels good for them... but i just dont get anything out of it icon_sad.gif


    i think it is because i am lazy and i get tired haha well whatever... let the top do the work icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:29 AM GMT
    If at first you don't succeed, try and try again icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:35 AM GMT
    I don't like bottoming, I try so hard to but I don't. But because I am 5'8" 145lbs I will disrupt world order if I don't "assume my role".

    /cranky.
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    DCEric said
    Aggieboy said
    Yup I know what you mean. EVen when i put a condom on, I go limp and can't see myself ever sticking it in an ass.


    Seriously? I like that way that feels.
    /Being a bottom has never worked for me. I've tried.



    Well then that makes us a good match ehicon_twisted.gif
  • Melos

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    Jan 06, 2010 1:41 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI have to disagree a little..

    I think 99% of men can bottom, bottom well and enjoy it...

    There is more to it then the top knowing what he's doing.. You gotta want him in you, when he says he wants to be in you, your head as just gotta scream YES..

    And I think every top can find someone there head will do that for.. you just need to find the ones who push the right buttons, what ever they are.

    On another note, the first time you bottom, you can't really judge it, personally, the first time I bottomed it didn't feel particularly good, it wasn't horrible but it wasn't great either, it was uncomfortable and I felt like peeing the entire time.. now that I'm used to it, it's an entirely different story, now I climb on, slide it in, lean back a little and ride it till my head explodes.. but it took a really really good time and effort to get to that point.


    If it wasn't super uncomfortable for you and this experience hasn't driven you away from it, keep trying it, each time it'll be easier, each time, it'll be less intense, each time you'll start to feel something different and before long your gonna stick your arse out and be screaming to be had ;)

    and no, I don't agree that some guys are just purely tops, baring any medical or funky conditions going on...

    A lot of times it's the guys head (on your shoulders) that stops him from enjoying the experience.



    I completely agree. My boyfriend bottomed twice in the three relationships he had before me (one was for 14 years). Now there are nights where he's dying to bottom. It just takes the right person to get you in the right frame of mind.

    But on the other hand, some people are just wired differently. Some guys have a bit more sensitive dicks and topping fells amazing for them.
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:48 AM GMT
    I'm right there with you...don't like bottoming. Never have. Feels unnatural and uncomfortable and no matter how much 'getting used to it' I've done it's just not for me...so I don't do it anymore. More power to those who enjoy it, tho icon_twisted.gif
  • ajw18

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    Jan 06, 2010 1:51 AM GMT
    It is totally about a state of mind. You need to be comfortable with the person and the fact that you are bottoming or else you just start clenching. I will use my dildo weekly and it feels fantastic. But I have yet to find the right guy to make bottoming with someone else feels good.

    It is an acquired taste.
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    Jan 06, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    You just need to focus on relaxing your sphincter.