Does it mean I’m not a “STRAIGHT GAY”:?::?::?:

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    Jan 07, 2008 8:33 AM GMT
    I was drunk yesterday that I ended up having sex with a chick?

    Does it mean I’m not a “STRAIGHT GAY”icon_question.gif

    Confused... very confused...
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    Jan 07, 2008 10:08 AM GMT
    perhaps you just relaxed enough to realise that sex is sex and it doesn't matter if its a man or a women but as long as your into the person your umm in and enjoying the physical experience.

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    Love the tat on your lower calf/ankle area!
  • GQjock

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    Jan 07, 2008 11:46 AM GMT
    I just wanna say that...
    sex is sex
    are you str8? are you gay?
    I dunno...
    only you can answer that...and does it really matter?
    do you like having sex with men?
    That's not what a str8 man wants
    and if you need to get drunk to have sex with someone that also says something too
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    Jan 07, 2008 12:10 PM GMT
    Hey man, I might have an alternative oppinion about this topic in specific because I have strugled with it allot in the past. I lost my virginity a very long time ago, my first experience was with a guy. I was about seven and so was he. We both stayed very close friends and both had several girlfriends after that. In highschool I started dating a girl whom I lost my (straight)virginity with. Since then I have had several girlfriends and several boyfirends. Sleeping with a girl does not make you straight. I stoped sleeping with girls because they kept on falling in love with me and I got tired of continuously explaining to them that I was gay and simply liked sex with pussy every now and again. The point is that there is a very big difference between straight and gay sex... as you would know. I personaly find both quite pleasing in their own way (so the one cannot simply be substituted with the other). I do not see myself as Bi because I would like to spend my life with a guy. But let's face it sex is only sex. It's what you feel inside that makes the difference. This is something you have to figure out for yourself though.
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    Jan 07, 2008 12:50 PM GMT
    MrVenturu said Sleeping with a girl does not make you gay.


    icon_eek.gif Oh, really?

    Sorry... just could not help myself...
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    Jan 07, 2008 3:07 PM GMT
    I think there needs to be a completely separate Forum for the sexual identity crises. See a post just made by BioMatty: My Sexual Identity Crisis and a million others just like it.

    You're bi. Just call it a day.
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    Jan 07, 2008 3:53 PM GMT
    Years back i worked in a gay bar and i realy had a great connection with one of my female lesbian colleague's..... Figure that out, we both had partners and still we happend to end up one night at the start of kissing.... We really didn't know how or why.

    We didn't kiss, but we both found it strange there was a urge to do so, we where atracted to eachother... It was a good experience, but it didn't make me doubt my sexuality
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    Jan 07, 2008 5:45 PM GMT
    Sex is sex is sex. I think it is more on the deeper emotional level that defines whether you are gay/bi/straight.

    More importantly, it is up for you to decide who you are and how you wish to define yourself. Not what others may think or feel.



  • SoDakGuy

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    Jan 07, 2008 6:49 PM GMT
    Eh ... you were horny. She was there. You had chemistry w/ her.

    You had fun.

    Big deal!
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    Jan 07, 2008 7:42 PM GMT
    I hope you all wash well afterwards. ... icon_confused.gif

    The whole idea shocks me to the core! ... icon_eek.gif
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    Jan 07, 2008 7:48 PM GMT
    Which orifice did you use? Because if it was her ass, you are not a G0y.
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    Jan 07, 2008 8:01 PM GMT
    hmmm. I guess it depends on your sexuality spectrum.

    I came out at 15 and had plenty of great old gay man on man sex throughout my teens. Plentyicon_lol.gif

    I came home from college and threw a party where there was a mixed crowd. At 20, I found myself in the bedroom with this hot guy who was very gay, but had yet to discover a man and some cute girl, who I kinda forgot was there. Well the guy and I started messing around and the girl somehow got involved. She was there for him, I thought. That's until the fucking began and I noticed how high the guys moans were. Damn enough if I wasn't pounding this girl like I thought it was my cutie closet boy. I was a wee bit drunk and figured I would finish the deed.

    I had no regrets other than the teasing from all my friends. I also did not doubt my sexuality. When you gert to a certan point, its about pleasure, no? That said, I am not going back for any of the pink anytime soon.
  • mcwclewis

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    Jan 07, 2008 9:00 PM GMT
    Sexuality is fluid. Nothing is set in stone.... some people just find themselves turned off by certain body parts. I dont think that I, personally, could ever sleep with a girl. I dont know, I dont really believe in gay and straight, its an awkward spectrum. You shouldn't be concerned with how it affects your status as far as gay/straight whatever goes.
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    Jan 07, 2008 9:04 PM GMT
    Depends on what your religion tells you. Ask your priest to tell you the rules on which acts are sinful. Religions love to compartmentalize sex acts into acts that are pure and acts that are evil. Based on these compartments, there is corresponding baggage you can acquire so that you spend more time thinking instead of enjoying, and thats really the goal now, isn't it?
  • BlackJock79

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    Jan 07, 2008 9:07 PM GMT
    I fucked a girl when I was in college. My friends were there, I think I did it just to prove I was straight... I was drunk as hell and I enjoyed it. But I'm still way too much of a fan of man on man sex and sucking dick to be straight. lol
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    Jan 07, 2008 9:13 PM GMT
    Caslon saidI hope you all wash well afterwards. ... icon_confused.gif

    The whole idea shocks me to the core! ... icon_eek.gif


    That, Caslon, is because you and I are one of the few purebreds on this site! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 07, 2008 9:14 PM GMT
    for me there is a very simple test.

    when you are alone, and you are jacking off, what are you fantasizing about?

    something tells me it's not pussy. icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 07, 2008 9:40 PM GMT
    I figure I now have a point of reference.

    Not that it took me fucking a girl to realize I was built for man on man action....
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    Jan 07, 2008 9:42 PM GMT
    Isn't there some law of nature that says the difference between a straight man and a gay man is six beers?

    So maybe this is just one data point in the grand experiment that is life.
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    Jan 07, 2008 9:48 PM GMT
    sometimes people just fuck holes and not people.

    I wouldn't worry about it.
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    Jan 07, 2008 9:57 PM GMT
    ya beat me to it munchin twas exactly what I was going to say. You had sex with a woman big deal it probably gave yuor hand a rest icon_lol.gif People get too hung up on labels
  • justjk

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    Jan 07, 2008 10:09 PM GMT
    When i was a very young boy of 18 i was very drunk in bermuda and my best girlfriend put me up against the wall and we ahd a decent kissing session, but i knew even drunk that i had no desire for it to go any further than that, i am one of those pure breads myself and being old school i guess i still have that often looked down upon attitude that no sex will be had unless i truely love the person and will be spending a long time with them, so it confuses me when people have these problems! don't know what the whole bi thing is about!? pick 1 gender and stick wiht it
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    Jan 07, 2008 10:14 PM GMT
    Why do people feel the need for others to conform to what they believe is acceptable practices or sexuality.

    As gay people seeking rights and acceptance I think its more than a tad hypocritical and just shows ignorance
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    Jan 07, 2008 10:46 PM GMT
    All these guys saying sex is sex.
    So I guess it's also ok for you to be in an open relationship, right? cause sex is sex. it's just a hole.
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    Jan 08, 2008 8:24 AM GMT
    I think it depends on whether that is the type of relationship you are in or not. When I'm not in a relationship sex is simply sex. When I am in a relationship the scene changes because there is only one person. I don't see the need however to be in a relationship simply to fuck though.