THE GIFT.

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    Jan 07, 2010 5:52 AM GMT



    This is real. I just cannot believe it. I am currently watching this movie for the first time now. Its so eye opening, and sad.


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    Jan 07, 2010 1:18 PM GMT
    I remember seeing an episode of Queer As Folk that dealt with this issue. It's really sad and raises the question: if these guys are so enthusiastic about getting HIV, can they be expected to be responsible sex partners after they get it?
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    Jan 07, 2010 1:49 PM GMT
    My God! This is so sad! I have difficulty with the concept of anyone intentionally wanting to get a disease that does not have a cure. It was equally disturbing with the one guy who made a comment about now being able to have LOTS or promiscuous sex! He has the disease now so he wants to be careless and spread it around??? This whole concept of bug chasers is just so disturbing and sad. icon_cry.gif
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    Jan 07, 2010 2:12 PM GMT
    This is so disturbing to me. icon_sad.gif I AM HIV+ and it is the worst thing I have to put on my Real Jock profile. I got it from a boyfriend in 1995. Even though I am healthy due to new drugs and practicing safe sex, my life will never be the same. I still live with the fear of getting sick and dying. The new medication reeks havoc on your body. Most guys will do not date a person with HIV. It can be a very lonely world. All Bug Chaser need mental help. PLEASE PRACTICE SAFE SEX and stay HIV Negative.
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    Jan 07, 2010 2:21 PM GMT
    Suicide ....thats all I can say
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    Oct 01, 2010 7:34 AM GMT
    Scary. It's just scary.
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    Oct 01, 2010 7:40 AM GMT
    Already posted this twice, but its relevant here so... promoting safe sex people..

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    Oct 01, 2010 7:43 AM GMT
    scary shit, heard about bug chasers from a dude in SF 3 years ago, who was one


    some comic relief, i guess



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    Oct 03, 2010 5:16 AM GMT
    I first heard about bug chasers in the mid 90's. Back then it was called "the blessing."
    I also never went back to Oklahoma City to party. That scared the fuck out of me. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 03, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    There is a feeling in the gay community that people with HIV have this wonderful support community... and you can tell.. locally the gay & lesbian community center has 44 programs for infected and addicted gays....and TWO for non addicted non infected (HIV and/or Hep C and Herpes)... so for some this is a way of finding community. we have failed in providing support to staying negative.

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    Oct 05, 2010 8:03 AM GMT
    The scary thing is is that I've been approached by a bug chaser and he told me all about how the hottest sex of his life was when the "poz guy shot in his neg hole". It's a mental health issue to say the least. A lot of the one's infected nowadays actually know they're doing it... and that to me is just sad. I have no idea what drives or motivates these people to go to parties where 3-4 negative bottoms will willfully bend over and have a positive guy shoot in them, but it's deplorable to say the least. One thing that makes me sad about our community is that yes, we're very very sexual...but that a lot of us do not take the precaution with new people so it spreads easier and faster without notice.
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    Oct 05, 2010 9:35 AM GMT
    This not only scared the living shit out of me, it really just makes me really want go into a cave all by myself and leave all of the people who try to intentionally harm others by simply giving them a ticking time bomb for their lives. I can't imagine how I would react to someone who is willing to spread a disease around because they don't have a care in the world. Yes, promiscuity is high among gay men. After that video, I think that a lot of guys can't function without another dick and some type of sect to belong to. That just made me want to have as little sex as possible now. I thought I was a prude before this video, but damn I have reached a new level and all because of the few people who want to cause harm to others.
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    Nov 05, 2010 6:23 PM GMT
    ja89 saidThis not only scared the living shit out of me, it really just makes me really want go into a cave all by myself and leave all of the people who try to intentionally harm others by simply giving them a ticking time bomb for their lives. I can't imagine how I would react to someone who is willing to spread a disease around because they don't have a care in the world. Yes, promiscuity is high among gay men. After that video, I think that a lot of guys can't function without another dick and some type of sect to belong to. That just made me want to have as little sex as possible now. I thought I was a prude before this video, but damn I have reached a new level and all because of the few people who want to cause harm to others.


    It is really sad that in our community promiscuity is glorified and that it is so difficult to ever settle down with people. It really sucks to be gay.
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    Nov 05, 2010 6:45 PM GMT
    It doesn't suck to be gay. It sucks to be you.
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    Nov 05, 2010 6:48 PM GMT
    McGay saidIt doesn't suck to be gay. It sucks to be you.


    rofl that lame attempt at a comeback did make me literally lol.
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    Nov 05, 2010 6:49 PM GMT
    That video made me sick to my stomach.
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    Nov 05, 2010 6:51 PM GMT
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    ja89 saidThis not only scared the living shit out of me, it really just makes me really want go into a cave all by myself and leave all of the people who try to intentionally harm others by simply giving them a ticking time bomb for their lives. I can't imagine how I would react to someone who is willing to spread a disease around because they don't have a care in the world. Yes, promiscuity is high among gay men. After that video, I think that a lot of guys can't function without another dick and some type of sect to belong to. That just made me want to have as little sex as possible now. I thought I was a prude before this video, but damn I have reached a new level and all because of the few people who want to cause harm to others.


    It is really sad that in our community promiscuity is glorified and that it is so difficult to ever settle down with people. It really sucks to be gay.


    You must not know much of the world.
    Sorry, but promiscuity is just as glorified in the straight world as the gay one. Maybe, you should live outside of your little 'gay' bubble. icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 05, 2010 6:59 PM GMT
    OptionsTrader

    What makes you come on a gay site and say something like: "It really sucks to be gay?"
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    Nov 05, 2010 7:03 PM GMT
    n8698u saidOptionsTrader

    What makes you come on a gay site and say something like: "It really sucks to be gay?"


    I am gay myself. I just haven't experienced any benefits of being gay. All the guys I have encountered just wanted hook ups and I have been made fun of before and am not as accepted for being gay. Why is it fantastic to be gay in our society/community? What are the benefits? For me it has sucked. Sorry if it offended you but deal with it. For me it has sucked. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 05, 2010 7:06 PM GMT
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    You must not know much of the world.
    Sorry, but promiscuity is just as glorified in the straight world as the gay one. Maybe, you should live outside of your little 'gay' bubble. icon_lol.gif[/quote]

    You must have not lived in the straight world. Trust me as someone who has dated enough girls to know. They are MUCH MUCH MUCH more likely to be relationship oriented than gay guys. Gay guys are the most promiscuous. If you don't want to accept that then don't. That isn't my problem icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 05, 2010 7:08 PM GMT
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    n8698u saidOptionsTrader

    What makes you come on a gay site and say something like: "It really sucks to be gay?"


    I am gay myself. I just haven't experienced any benefits of being gay. All the guys I have encountered just wanted hook ups and I have been made fun of before and am not as accepted for being gay. Why is it fantastic to be gay in our society/community? What are the benefits? For me it has sucked. Sorry if it offended you but deal with it. For me it has sucked. icon_smile.gif


    So you joined this site yesterday, to, seemingly, celebrate a healthy lifestyle, then ridicule the gay lifestyle.

    Why are you here?

    I suggest you leave.
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    Nov 05, 2010 7:11 PM GMT
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    You must not know much of the world.
    Sorry, but promiscuity is just as glorified in the straight world as the gay one. Maybe, you should live outside of your little 'gay' bubble. icon_lol.gif


    You must have not lived in the straight world. Trust me as someone who has dated enough girls to know. They are MUCH MUCH MUCH more likely to be relationship oriented than gay guys. Gay guys are the most promiscuous. If you don't want to accept that then don't. That isn't my problem icon_smile.gif[/quote]

    As someone who is bisexual I get a little glimpse at both the gay and straight communities.
    Girls are just as flakey as gay guys same with straight guys. That is kind of the reason why 50% of marriages end in divorce.
    Your reasoning makes no sense. Have you ever been to a party? Im kind of thinking that I wasn't kidding when I said to get out of your bubble.
    Straight, gay, bi, or trans everyone wants to get laid. Some just think you should have to go through a whole process of dating to do it. Some people know that bad sex ruins relationships.
    You are negative so of course your views are negative but doesn't mean you have to make shit up.

    LOL, you do live in a bubble! Heated you say... maybe you should go visit a real online forum and see what heated is.
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    Nov 05, 2010 7:11 PM GMT
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    So you joined this site yesterday, to, seemingly, celebrate a healthy lifestyle, then ridicule the gay lifestyle.

    Why are you here?

    I suggest you leave.[/quote]

    Thanks for your suggestion but it wasn't asked for and is being ignored. Don't get so offended by everything. Relax. Online message boards aren't serious enough to get so heated icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 05, 2010 7:12 PM GMT
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    You are negative so of course your views are negative but doesn't mean you have to make shit up. [/quote]

    I've already said if you don't want to accept that then don't. Shouldn't that be the end? Think however you want I don't care........................Now no more responses.
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    Nov 05, 2010 7:16 PM GMT
    OptionsTrader said[quote]
    You are negative so of course your views are negative but doesn't mean you have to make shit up.


    I've already said if you don't want to accept that then don't. Shouldn't that be the end? Think however you want I don't care........................Now no more responses.[/quote]

    Lol your funny. icon_smile.gif