Jan 08, 2010 5:23 AM GMT
I am not so good with the signals and the 'gaydar.' Anyway my dilemma is that I have a workmate who is a good friend. I sometimes feel that I get signals that he's somehow up for more than 'just friends.' But I can see no obvious signs that he is living a bi- life (he has a girlfriend so he is probably not more than bi-). I certainly don't want to spoil a friendship with an unwanted advance, so I need some help: How can you tell when a guy is interested in more, particularly guys that maybe married and living an outwardly hetero life? Does anyone have any experience or signals to share in this situation?