Celticmusl saidJust like humans, gays don't have to like or appreciate other gay's looks, demeanor, or attitude.
There is a massive difference from disinterest and beating them down because they aren't like your fantasy of what a man should be.
You're right, but in this instance I wonder what "bash" means. Was it just a comment that someone stated on their profile like "I'm only interested in masculine men" or are we talking about physical bashing, etc. From what I've noticed on this site, it is usually the prior rather than the latter.
Intolerance and discrimination is despicable, regardless of who the culprit is.
The thing with that whole "masculine" comment is more often then not, these apparently "masculine" men who are seeking other "masculine" men, are usually anything but "masculine" but anyway, moving on.
when I said beating them down, I mean mentally, physically beating someone down usually has the eventual opposite effect, but the mental stuff starts running a lot deeper when it's constant barrage from so many and so constant and constant little flicks are a lot worse then occasional full on mental abuse..
As much as people would like to say that those little things don't have an effect, when they are so prevalent as they are on RJ, they do..
take a pebble from a pot of a million pebbles and you wont affect anyone, I mean, it's only one pebble right? but when a million people come by with the same idea that pot of a million pebbles is empty..
anyway, I've sorta deviated..
Yes, on RJ, the abuse here is entirely mental and hurts people more often then not, you just don't get to see into peoples heads when it happens.