Sex... Anal vs Oral?

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    Jan 08, 2010 3:13 PM GMT
    I was responding to another thread and realized that my response was clearly a different topic. First, I hate the sexual labels. There have been many threads here to "label the guy above you" top or bottom. At a glance, its assumed Im a top. Im not. (Im aleady off topic..lol) I find it so funny. I have found the big muscle heads, all jacked up.. bottoms!

    Ok... sexually Im much more oral than anal, and I almost NEVER have anal sex with a guy I barely know. I have personally found that most guys are so limited to who they are, and what they are about sexually. And if you ask me "top or bottom" early on in our first conversation.. I quickly realize we are not a match. It tells me you are stuck in a box.

    My ex (of 4years btw) was a vers bottom. The chemistry we had was intense. I dont think we even realized we were both bottoms (nor cared) for a few days after we started to date. But sex was incredible!

    ME? I can be dominant, submissive, passionate, some roleplay, always verbal... or just me. Its about a mood, a connection, or where Im at at the moment. I enjoy almost every inch of the male body. Its one reason I take very good care of mine. I want to take my time. Time is not measured in seconds, or minutes btw... TIME! icon_lol.gif

    Kissing, hugging, muscle (love the male body), oral, nipple play (huge for me) rimming, blow jobs, 69, hand jobs (slow and steady while you squirm icon_biggrin.gif ), more kissing. Kissing is so underated. ( Id make you moan like a school girl.. promise! ) Kissing lips, lips, more lips. Muscle, and anything you or I find sexy, arrousing. Finding that special spot, that "G" spot we all have that is NOT a sexual organ. Passion.. passion, erotic passion, or kinky wild....

    I was with a guy the other day and found the area between his leg and sack. OMG! I heard a whimper, a cry, a shudder, that drove him wild. Hearing that.. makes me nuts! And needless to say, I spent some time there. And toys, rope, whatever.. bring it! Im really not a huge fan but with right guy, the right moment... Im so open minded sexually.. dont put me in the "he's a bottom" box. It does NOT work for me. Anal sex? Yes, your driving. And when you drive, take your time. Drive slow and steady please! Whats the hurry anyway? icon_rolleyes.gif

    What is my point? Why are so many guys so limited sexually? Why are we so caught up in our stereotyping? And dont shoot me, but its typically a younger or inexperience guy who thinks he's the "Stud" PA LEASE! All they want to do is F___K and be done. BORING! And please, I love younger guys, its typically who I date.

    And if Im giving up anal sex to you... I am either very very very horny OR crazy about you! Just me...just my rant.

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    Jan 08, 2010 3:17 PM GMT
    Y'all need to get a fetish and stop f-ing each other. icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 08, 2010 3:21 PM GMT
    Now your talking! icon_lol.gif

    wrestlervic saidY'all need to get a fetish and stop f-ing each other. icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 08, 2010 4:19 PM GMT
    Wow that's a lot of text to say the emo thing of "I don't like labels" and "bottom or top, who cares?"
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    Jan 09, 2010 1:44 AM GMT
    I agree. I am way more oral. I like being with older guys, mainly because they seem to share the same view. The guy I'm seeing right now spends..I can't even tell how long because it's that great...just caressing my whole BODY. There are so many spots on the body besides my dick that get me going, and I love when guys are discovering them.

    Anal is fun, sometimes, but to me, it's all about the oral icon_smile.gif Plus, shooting into a guys mouth is way hotter than shooting into his ass.. IMO icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 09, 2010 4:30 AM GMT
    Now thats what Im talking bout!

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    GWACpwns saidI agree. I am way more oral. I like being with older guys, mainly because they seem to share the same view. The guy I'm seeing right now spends..I can't even tell how long because it's that great...just caressing my whole BODY. There are so many spots on the body besides my dick that get me going, and I love when guys are discovering them.

    Anal is fun, sometimes, but to me, it's all about the oral icon_smile.gif Plus, shooting into a guys mouth is way hotter than shooting into his ass.. IMO icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 09, 2010 1:22 PM GMT
    I like both. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 16, 2012 2:50 PM GMT
    Ass to mouth! Love it!!!