I'm shocked

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    Jan 08, 2010 3:47 PM GMT
    So wasting time this morning, decided for the first time to do a seach for guys who have hot listed me (never used that search feature before) probably 70% were in the 19-26yo range,,,,,,This is happening more and more, for some reason younger guys are hitting on me all the time, even out in public I get the "eye contact" from younger men, yes some are attractive but I tend to go for guys my age or older, this sux, I don't wana be a daddy lol
    Anyone else in there mid 40's go thru this? This is all so new to me and I get part of why they are attracted to me, I don't consider myself VGL or hott or any of that, so I've started asking them why they are attracted to me and I get this "sexy handsome" comment which I never got in my 30's......
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    Jan 08, 2010 3:49 PM GMT
    Young guys like the old danglies dear not much else to say about it
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    Jan 08, 2010 3:53 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidYoung guys like the old danglies dear not much else to say about it

    just had to toss in the "old" word didn't ya.....icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 08, 2010 3:55 PM GMT
    Embrace it. Not much else to do as one day you might find yourself shocked that know one list's you.
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    Jan 08, 2010 3:58 PM GMT
    shortmuscleguy said
    lilTanker saidYoung guys like the old danglies dear not much else to say about it

    just had to toss in the "old" word didn't ya.....icon_smile.gif

    *evil giggle* icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 08, 2010 4:20 PM GMT
    Oh it's all the extra cash you know.

    There is a recession on if you hadn't heard, young people need to earn money somehow.
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    Jan 08, 2010 7:09 PM GMT
    LilTanker is right. Young'uns like old guys. I'm hit on much more by 20 - 30 yr olds than any 30s or 40s and then second to follow are guys older than me. Most actually do not seem to be looking for a free handout either.
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    Jan 08, 2010 7:26 PM GMT
    Our sense of smell is centered around money I suppose...
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    Jan 08, 2010 7:33 PM GMT
    what is there to be shocked about? young guys like old men. don't tell me you weren't attracted to older guys when you were that age...

    there's nothing mysterious or earth shaking about it - an older guy is perceived as being:

    experienced in the art of screwing
    sophisticated
    worldly
    well off
    has his shit together

    it's like a flame to moths... nothing to it really
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    Jan 08, 2010 7:36 PM GMT
    I'm 36, and I don't think younger guys have started hitting on me, I think they never stopped and I'm just now getting freaked out by it.
    I'm often told that I look younger than my 36 years, blah, blah, blah we all hear that. But I'm always perplexed when young guys hit on me, I have to ask the little whipper snappers if they know how old I am. I'm old enough to be their father! It makes me feel dirty in the not good way.
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    Jan 08, 2010 7:37 PM GMT
    Because people like bald heads on strong bodies. Everyone loves Bruce Willis.
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    Jan 08, 2010 7:38 PM GMT
    yep
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    Jan 08, 2010 7:45 PM GMT
    Jasonfest saidBecause people like bald heads on strong bodies. Everyone loves Bruce Willis.
    Oh no... I'm nobody because I really don't love Bruce Willis... *sigh*icon_cry.gif
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    Jan 08, 2010 7:55 PM GMT
    shortmuscleguy saidSo wasting time this morning, decided for the first time to do a seach for guys who have hot listed me (never used that search feature before) probably 70% were in the 19-26yo range,,,,,,


    Maybe 70% of the people on realjock are 19-26 yo. But it's always flattering to get hit on by the young one's. Good for you. And you probably didn't get hit on as much when you were in your 30s because there were not readily accessible forums to the gay community, just crappier hook up sites like gay.com and manhunt or something. The internet has come a long way in the past 10 years to help facilitate communication between gay men and women across America and worldwide. So maybe you were even good looking in your 30s too. ;)
  • Celticmusl

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    Jan 08, 2010 7:58 PM GMT
    It's a new trend for me as well and I'm basically just rolling with it.
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    Jan 08, 2010 7:59 PM GMT
    When does that start to happen?



    ((looks at wall calendar))
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    Jan 08, 2010 8:02 PM GMT
    djdorchester saidWhen does that start to happen?

    ((looks at wall calendar))

    Synchronize your watches.....


    ......NOW!
    "You're hot!" My inner 22 year old tells me so... and I agree.
  • Celticmusl

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    Jan 08, 2010 8:04 PM GMT
    djdorchester saidWhen does that start to happen?



    ((looks at wall calendar))



    For me it is when I decided to start shaving my head.

    Get out the clippers!


    shaved-head.jpg
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    Jan 08, 2010 8:50 PM GMT
    Celticmusl said
    djdorchester saidWhen does that start to happen?



    ((looks at wall calendar))



    For me it is when I decided to start shaving my head.

    Get out the clippers!


    shaved-head.jpg



    Just to clarify, is this a personal story or advice?

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    Jan 08, 2010 9:05 PM GMT
    Yea, I think it is not so much an age thing, as a masculine thing. Bald or shaved men appear more masculine than hair lathered in gel and other products.

    See the difference.

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    Jan 08, 2010 9:07 PM GMT
    djdorchester said
    Celticmusl said
    djdorchester saidWhen does that start to happen?



    ((looks at wall calendar))



    For me it is when I decided to start shaving my head.

    Get out the clippers!


    shaved-head.jpg



    Just to clarify, is this a personal story or advice?



    It is a personal story, but I am a big proponent of shaved heads on guys. That is just my personal preference.
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    Jan 08, 2010 9:20 PM GMT
    Also consider the fact that if 70% are younger, only 30% are older (I'm pretty damn good at this math stuff). Most older guys (there are obviously exceptions, see this thread) tend to go for younger folk rather than their same age, at least in my experience.
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    Jan 08, 2010 9:35 PM GMT
    Jasonfest saidYea, I think it is not so much an age thing, as a masculine thing. Bald or shaved men appear more masculine than hair lathered in gel and other products.

    See the difference.

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    Ugh please... the difference between these two has VERY LITTLE to do with the fact that one is shaved and the other is not.

  • Koaa2

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    Jan 08, 2010 9:40 PM GMT
    It is older money, don't kid yourselves.
  • tbeaux

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    Jan 08, 2010 9:47 PM GMT
    I eye a lot of older guys, the ones I think are attractive of course, haha. I can't remember who said it earlier in this forum post, but it's very true.

    ..the art of screwing (I have had experiences with guys my age and older, and will always prefer older, I felt like I was being ripped a new one with kids my age)...stability and sophistication is very attractive to younger guys.. (i love a guy who is stable, doesn't have many problems unlike the younger guys such as myself who have a long ass way of finding who we are and what not. We have to deal with our problems, most don't want to deal with their own and someone else's.

    Also, gay men have this daddy complex, most do atleast. You can even see it in pornography. When you go onto those websites and look at the videos, alot of this hits are when the title is "daddy f***s son" or "son takes it for daddy"

    Some guys are in it for the money.. ehh not so much for me I can make my own way.

    and as for as physique, a lot of older men are more grown into their skin than younger men.