Meeting Gay Friends

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    Jan 08, 2008 3:43 AM GMT
    Looking for suggestions and ideas to meet gay friends and find people to hang or go out with....
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    Jan 08, 2008 7:45 AM GMT
    I can't believe that I am actually answering this. Ha, that's ironic. Three months ago, I was asking the same question. Now, I have gay friends coming out of my ears!

    I joined several gay men's groups which I found online and through my local LGBT center. I just started talking to everyone and coming out to a lot of people. They would tell me that they knew this person or that person who is gay.

    Well, I met a small group of guys through the brother of my office manager, and now one of them is my boyfriend. Everyone is right when they say that when you quit looking for it, it comes (I could make a pun of that, but I'll refrain.

    All you need is to know one gay or lesbian, and they will introduce you to more who will introduce you to even more.

    Polish up smiling and laughing and looking people confidently in the eye. Be interested in them, share your stories and interests.
  • GQjock

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    Jan 08, 2008 11:47 AM GMT
    Well good for you sundown...
    listen to him because thats the way to go about it
    otherwise you're gonna hit the rejection wall all the time
    if someone thinks that you might be interested in them sexually and then you say...
    No lets just be friends. They're gonna hit the next button and you'll never hear from them again
  • BlackJock79

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    Jan 08, 2008 2:26 PM GMT
    I need some gay friends too. I only have 2 and neither one of them is in NC. One is in New York and the other is on the West Coast. icon_cry.gif
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    Jan 08, 2008 2:49 PM GMT
    Amazing sundown - how far you've come in such a short period of time! This is when I say something inspiring like it's never too late to start living or something like that. Instead, I'll just let you get back to it!
  • audiomug

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    Jan 09, 2008 10:24 PM GMT
    Same problem here. Moved in with a couple last year, but they cut ties for some reason still unbeknownst to me. The few gay guys I've met either think I'm trying to pursue them, or are only interested in pursuit. It's pretty frustrating. All I really want is to have some friends to talk dick with; Although from what I remember, the bitchy dishing was pretty fun too. I suppose things would be easier if I enjoyed the company of hags. Unfortunately, I abhor them icon_mad.gif