muscles4muscles saidI just noticed I've hotlisted 290 guys on here. Wow! This site is overrun with hot guys. However, whenever I go out to the bars and clubs, I very rarely find anybody I'm attracted to. And I live in South Beach! The place where everybody's supposed to be hot! Are all the hot guys just on the internet? If someone were to judge by RJ, they'd say most gay guys are hot. If they were to judge by the local gay bar, they'd say most gay guys aren't. Problem is, most of the guys on the internet live so far away. I just find the disparity between sites like RJ and real life kind of strange.
Did the drugs get em all strung out? It seems here in Az there are so many who drink way to much and want to party even more. This takes a toll on the body....If I know someone who over endulges I am not going to be to friendly anymore. It seems that these harmful substances are more important to them...so guess what...They can have it, but not me!
I totally agree with this statement! A gay bar is yet another subgroup, just like RJ, that is not indicative of the Gay Population as a whole. A heavy lean towards smoking, drugs, and alcohol is pervasive in this type of group. Not too many guys that take care of themselves can go out night after night after night. The real guys with careers, family obligations, boyfriends, and a different value system, might not be going to the bar very often.
I can say, however, that the local guys that I do know from this site are honestly some of the best looking guys in this area. They are far from being average looking and their looks should be considered an anomaly rather than the norm.