Seeing all the hot guys out at night...

  • Hunter9

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    Jan 10, 2010 10:14 AM GMT
    pisses me off.

    And I'm not sure why
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    Jan 10, 2010 10:14 AM GMT
    cause you aint got a chance???
  • RSportsguy

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    Jan 10, 2010 12:39 PM GMT
    Wow, I am just the opposite! Why not appreciate the beauty around you? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 12:44 PM GMT
    Well, the alternative is to stay in and and lk at hot guys on the internet. Not to mention you have professional photographer on Rj that keeps posting his fantasy models. and those guys are SMOKIN lol
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    Jan 10, 2010 1:42 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidcause you aint got a chance???

    your so bad
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    Jan 10, 2010 1:50 PM GMT
    theyre not hot. its just the drunk goggles
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    Jan 10, 2010 1:57 PM GMT
    Be warned, they might be hot at night because they wear make up. I know some of NYC boys wear make up. In the day times, they aren't cute
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    Jan 10, 2010 1:59 PM GMT

    I can appreciate that. I wouldn't say it pisses me off. It does however make me feel a little more invisible when "surrounded" by hot guys. On the flip side, it usually helps make it clear who would not have given me the time of day. Brings me back into check and a tad more aware of peoples' stations. Then I usually just settle into people watching, which is just plain fun, no matter where you are. icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 2:01 PM GMT
    u cant really distinguish whos hot for everybody really, i mean id rather take the guy above me instead of some 18 yr old twink with makeup on icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 2:36 PM GMT
    waxon saidu cant really distinguish whos hot for everybody really, i mean id rather take the guy above me instead of some 18 yr old twink with makeup on icon_smile.gif

    I agree with you Waxon! I think that Ncemtobx is hotter than most of the guys that consider themselves hot and does not realize it. I think that even makes him hotter--(if that makes any sense). icon_question.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 2:47 PM GMT
    RSportsguy said
    waxon saidu cant really distinguish whos hot for everybody really, i mean id rather take the guy above me instead of some 18 yr old twink with makeup on icon_smile.gif

    I agree with you Waxon! I think that Ncemtobx is hotter than most of the guys that consider themselves hot and does not realize it. I think that even makes him hotter--(if that makes any sense). icon_question.gif


    lets bone him
  • Celticmusl

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    Jan 10, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    Rodmramer saidBe warned, they might be hot at night because they wear make up. I know some of NYC boys wear make up. In the day times, they aren't cute


    The bar scene does everything it can to make everyone look good. Low, deferred lighting, alcohol, loud disorienting music, and oh yeah, alcohol. One of my favorite places to actually go out, is a patio bbq party every sunday in the summer at one of the local bars. It gets packed, guys take off their shirts, it's outside in fresh air and sunlight, and you actually get to see how people look in the daylight......eek!
  • GQjock

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    Jan 10, 2010 3:00 PM GMT
    Hunter9 saidpisses me off.

    And I'm not sure why


    Well ... is it because they have hot bodies?
    Takes some elbow grease but you could get one too

    Do they wear better clothes?
    Some careful shopping can remedy that

    a better tan?
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    Basically .. . being pissed off about it ain't gonna get you nowhere icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 3:12 PM GMT
    When I am surrounded by good looking intelligent down to earth friendly men, I feel right at home among my peers............content, happy and safe. There's not much nonsense chatting and talking needed.........a quick glance, a knowing smile and body language say everything. These guys quietly got it going on. You just have to know how to spot the good ones vs the snotty ones.

    Of course, some guys think everyone is snotty and they can't relax which is why they should stay home and push needles into a voodoo doll.
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    Jan 10, 2010 3:15 PM GMT
    Hunter9.....WELCOME TO WEST HOLLYWOOD! Hot guys are a dime a dozen here and if you let it get to you it will get under your skin and make you either a) angry b) depressed or c) jaded. Don't let it get to you. Most of them look great but won't give you the time of day if you aren't in their little group. And there are A LOT of groups in LA. There are the boys who only like muscle guys their own age, boys who like goodlooking model boys similar to them, guys who only date guys with money and on and on and on. Just find some good friends who like you for who you are, hang out with them when you go out and eventually you'll connect with someone whose looking for a guy like you and who you connect with and you'll forget about all those other guys.

    Or go to South Africa like I had too, LOL! icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 3:33 PM GMT
    I understand. I don't even go out anymore as seeing "hot" people just makes me angry and jealous and I'm too competitive and shit and I can work out as hard as I want, but it's not going to change my face lol.
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    Jan 10, 2010 3:44 PM GMT
    ....well there's some wasted energy!
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    Jan 10, 2010 4:08 PM GMT
    It helps when am in a mood for eye candy show icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 4:16 PM GMT
    I say wait for your 30th birthday. For some reason, it brings a certain level of self-acceptance and calm.

    It's been my experience that we all get a "pie" that totals 100%. It's just divided up differently. One guy may be hot, but have no talent. Another may be relatively unattractive, but well endowed. Somehow, everyone's got something they don't like and a different quality that compensates.

    So, when you're feeling down about not looking a certain way, try to remind yourself of the other qualities that make you special.
  • Hunter9

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    Jan 10, 2010 4:27 PM GMT
    waxon saidtheyre not hot. its just the drunk goggles


    hmm, yeah, very possible
  • Hunter9

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    Jan 10, 2010 4:28 PM GMT
    Celticmusl said
    Rodmramer saidBe warned, they might be hot at night because they wear make up. I know some of NYC boys wear make up. In the day times, they aren't cute


    The bar scene does everything it can to make everyone look good. Low, deferred lighting, alcohol, loud disorienting music, and oh yeah, alcohol. One of my favorite places to actually go out, is a patio bbq party every sunday in the summer at one of the local bars. It gets packed, guys take off their shirts, it's outside in fresh air and sunlight, and you actually get to see how people look in the daylight......eek!


    Reminds me of when they turned the lights on at the end of the NYE party I attended... not a pretty picture... and yet everybody was so beautiful just moments earlier!!!
  • Hunter9

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    Jan 10, 2010 4:30 PM GMT
    GQjock said
    Hunter9 saidpisses me off.

    And I'm not sure why


    Well ... is it because they have hot bodies?
    Takes some elbow grease but you could get one too

    Do they wear better clothes?
    Some careful shopping can remedy that

    a better tan?
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    Basically .. . being pissed off about it ain't gonna get you nowhere icon_wink.gif


    you are making the assumption that i think they have something that i dont... this is not a correct assumption

    (granted i didn't give you much to work with in my original post)
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    Jan 10, 2010 4:35 PM GMT
    When it happens to me, I press the whatever button and go dance next to them. There was one party (at a beach mansion with a big pool) where there was a "core" of shirtless tanned ripped beefy guys dancing next to the DJ. I went there because that was the best spot to dance, but all I know is that a few moments later one of those beefy guys was deliberately stroking me, then he grabbed my arm and said something in my ears I couldn't hear (it was very loud there), he gave me a tender smile and left the dance floor with one of his friends. I too left it a few moments later because I couldn't stand the smell of sweat, fart and marijuana.

    So, when I see a bunch of these tanned, buffed, ripped guys, I think like an entrepreneur: I'm offering a niche "product", I'm not really competing with them, I'm in a different category.
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    Jan 10, 2010 4:51 PM GMT
    Have we discovered some novel form of body dysmorphia?

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    GHew saidI understand. I don't even go out anymore as seeing "hot" people just makes me angry and jealous and I'm too competitive and shit and I can work out as hard as I want, but it's not going to change my face lol.

    There is nothing at all wrong with your cute face, monsieur.
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:13 PM GMT
    Rodmramer saidBe warned, they might be hot at night because they wear make up. I know some of NYC boys wear make up. In the day times, they aren't cute


    LOL- you are kidding!icon_exclaim.gificon_biggrin.gif