Pretty messed up or should I blame the alcohol?

  • TallSoCal

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    Jan 10, 2010 11:25 AM GMT
    I pick up this guy I've been talking to, and we go back to my house. We're hanging out in my room, and I introduce him to my family. They like him. We can't find anything to do, so we drive around for a bit. We decide we wanna do something "gay", so we go to a nearby gay bar. We pre-drink when we park. He gets pretty buzzed before we get out of the car. We dance some, and we take 1 shot of patron each. After that, he gets FUCKED up. He met this couple who wanted to hook up with us. He was letting them jerk him off and kiss him and shit right in front of me. When we were leaving, he kept throwing up and punching and biting me and screaming "LOVE ME! DON'T LEAVE ME!" He couldn't remember where he lived. I knocked on some random person's door asking if they knew him. He couldn't even stand up. I carried him to his house like 3 houses down, and his grandma was like, "I got him. Go home". We were outside for like an hour. WTF! That's the 4th asshole in a row? What to do?
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    Jan 10, 2010 11:32 AM GMT
    ahahahahahaa. don't let your dates drink
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    Jan 10, 2010 11:44 AM GMT
    well there's a story to tell the kiddies
  • drypin

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    Jan 10, 2010 11:52 AM GMT
    Okay, now... be honest. Did you find him here on RJ?
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    Jan 10, 2010 12:29 PM GMT
    I say pretty messed up lol... the truth speaks when one is drunk
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    Jan 10, 2010 12:31 PM GMT
    Oh and stay away from assholes that's oneicon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 1:09 PM GMT
    Why is he the asshole? You both got bored and decided to pre-drink in a parking lot before going into the bar. If you realized your date was at his limit before going into the bar maybe you should have evaluated the situation and done something constructive and not had that last shot of patron. Since you were the one driving you had to maintain your consumption more so than he. Bad judgement on both your parts. next time go see a movie.

    P.s. avoid putting the blame on your date and take some responsibility for your participation in the events of the night.

    Just sayin
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    Jan 10, 2010 1:25 PM GMT
    ""We're hanging out in my room, We can't find anything to do, so we drive around for a bit. We decide we wanna do something "gay", so we go to a nearby gay bar. We pre-drink when we park. He gets pretty buzzed before we get out of the car""
    I just love this....what did you expect?......long hot steamy sex after getting buzzed and wasted...guys wana do something gay, so they goto a bar,.....hum HIV, DUI, STD, you might think I'm being a little harsh but I call it the way I see it...your tired of meeting assholes, well it starts with you and your decisions...
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    Jan 10, 2010 3:51 PM GMT
    Umm,

    like attracts like?
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    Jan 10, 2010 4:27 PM GMT
    Are some of your guys kidding me with this continual shit?

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    Jan 10, 2010 5:19 PM GMT
    Blondizgd saidAre some of your guys kidding me with this continual shit?



    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! Right?!?!?!?!?!?!? Ugh!
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:24 PM GMT
    Date the grandma...icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:39 PM GMT
    LMAO....I must say this was the best story of the day.. how random... I am missing on so much fun . Everything seemed to have been fine until you two were left to decide for yourselves. All the shit went down between your parents and his grandma. Classic.

    (only difference, parents happy, grandma not so happy)
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:43 PM GMT
    BiGymGuy saidDate the grandma...icon_confused.gif

    "I got him, go home" ..........sounds like she's uttered this a few times
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:44 PM GMT
    I always operate that you won't learn what a guy is truly like until you've seen him drunk/wasted.

    Are you planning on further contact?
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:53 PM GMT
    Hot_dog saidI pick up this guy I've been talking to, and we go back to my house. We're hanging out in my room, and I introduce him to my family. They like him. We can't find anything to do, so we drive around for a bit. We decide we wanna do something "gay", so we go to a nearby gay bar. We pre-drink when we park. He gets pretty buzzed before we get out of the car. We dance some, and we take 1 shot of patron each. After that, he gets FUCKED up. He met this couple who wanted to hook up with us. He was letting them jerk him off and kiss him and shit right in front of me. When we were leaving, he kept throwing up and punching and biting me and screaming "LOVE ME! DON'T LEAVE ME!" He couldn't remember where he lived. I knocked on some random person's door asking if they knew him. He couldn't even stand up. I carried him to his house like 3 houses down, and his grandma was like, "I got him. Go home". We were outside for like an hour. WTF! That's the 4th asshole in a row? What to do?



    These drunks need to be with the buds on skid row....no more chances!
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:58 PM GMT
    Hillie saidWhy is he the asshole? You both got bored and decided to pre-drink in a parking lot before going into the bar. If you realized your date was at his limit before going into the bar maybe you should have evaluated the situation and done something constructive and not had that last shot of patron. Since you were the one driving you had to maintain your consumption more so than he. Bad judgement on both your parts. next time go see a movie.

    P.s. avoid putting the blame on your date and take some responsibility for your participation in the events of the night.

    Just sayin


    I agree, anyone who's ever gotten extremely hammered when they were young, is thinking: I could have ended up like that (ie like the date)

    that's what I'm thinking anyway icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
    stop going for little queens who can't hold their booze.
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    Jan 10, 2010 6:44 PM GMT
    What do all 4 of these encounters have in common, though?


    Something to think about. icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 7:57 PM GMT
    Gotta love Ron howard!

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  • Neon_Dreams

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    Jan 10, 2010 9:53 PM GMT
    To the original poster:

    Sounds like your date is a great catch! Don't let that one slip away...

    He had a bit too much to drink... We've all been there.

    Give him a second chance! He's every man's dream.

    LOL, jk


    Joe
  • jrs1

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    Jan 10, 2010 10:29 PM GMT
    sorry if it's been done ... I'm being rather immature:

  • jrs1

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    Jan 10, 2010 10:31 PM GMT
    Hillie saidGotta love Ron howard!


    damn you, Hillie ... you clever munT. you got the jump first. ha.
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    Jan 10, 2010 10:46 PM GMT
    The mirror doesn't lie and it doesn't look too flattering right now....in the future you might want to consider a different type of activity when you are bored. You need to apologize to Grandma and your date and then yourself. Learn the lesson that the evening offered and try again.....
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    Jan 10, 2010 11:05 PM GMT
    cronker saidUmm,

    like attracts like?


    I agree, lifes about choices, you learn from every experience. Why did you choose this guy? Cuz he was nice? or because he was hot?