Am I missing something here.....?

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    Jan 10, 2010 5:00 PM GMT
    This was a brief email exhange I had with a RJ member. Does it make any sense that he would jump on me with his last reply. He asked "what I was looking for and into" and I replied "nothing". Am I missing something?

    -----FROM XXXXX Jan 10, 2010 at 8:50
    I DID NOT SAY A HOOKUP OR CAM SEX

    LOL
    GOOD LUCK

    ---- FROM urbanguy911 Jan 10, 2010 at 8:46 AM
    thanks....not looking for anything at the moment.....

    ---- FROM XXXXXX Jan 10, 2010 at 9:44 AM

    you are smokn

    what looking for? into?

    ---- FROM urbanguy911 Jan 10, 2010 at 8:33 AM
    thanks man...appreciate it...

    ---- FROM XXXXX Jan 10, 2010 at 9:02 AM
    hot man!!
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:03 PM GMT
    and then he IM'd me and called me stud....huh?
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:12 PM GMT
    The email exchanges were to vague. So your nothing remark prob made it seem like you were not intrested in getting to know more and his initial intro was lacking anything of intrest it seems like you were just like bla bla bla. No depth, Or maybe I'm projecting cause when I get those types of mail thats what goes thru my head.
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    Jan 10, 2010 5:12 PM GMT
    No you are not missing anything. You called it correctly
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    Jan 10, 2010 6:16 PM GMT
    This exchange is so vanilla. Why be alarmed about it?
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    Jan 10, 2010 6:17 PM GMT
    Sounds more like he was messaging more than one and got mixed up. or was high...
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    Jan 10, 2010 6:34 PM GMT
    SeaSon saidThis exchange is so vanilla. Why be alarmed about it?


    I'm not alarmed in the least, I simply thought it was curious that someone would get upset and accuse someone else of turning them down for sex or cam, when that is pretty much what they were inquiring about in the first place....
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    Jan 10, 2010 6:40 PM GMT
    urbanguy911 said
    SeaSon saidThis exchange is so vanilla. Why be alarmed about it?


    I'm not alarmed in the least, I simply thought it was curious that someone would get upset and accuse someone else of turning them down for sex or cam, when that is pretty much what they were inquiring about in the first place....
    Have you gotten that more than once?

    I have. I just sorta click on the forums at that point and ignore them. icon_eek.gif
  • Celticmusl

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    Jan 10, 2010 7:05 PM GMT
    Oh no, I don't think he was upset with you at all, he was just trying to explain himself with "not looking for cam etc" and "lol" to ease any tension. "good luck" could be a sarcastic remark, but I think it is sincere that he wishes you good luck in what you are looking for.

    I get this type of exchange ALL the time....I dont ever see it as a slam or anything, just a "hi" and "bye".
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    Jan 10, 2010 7:22 PM GMT
    Celticmusl saidOh no, I don't think he was upset with you at all, he was just trying to explain himself with "not looking for cam etc" and "lol" to ease any tension. "good luck" could be a sarcastic remark, but I think it is sincere that he wishes you good luck in what you are looking for.

    I get this type of exchange ALL the time....I dont ever see it as a slam or anything, just a "hi" and "bye".


    This guy went frm reg type form to using all caps. He felt ignored and wanted to get across a much different sentiment after he felt rejected.

    It would be interesting if he chimed in on this thread... As self defense
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    Jan 10, 2010 7:48 PM GMT
    wow,
    i have to pay people to send me emails. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 7:58 PM GMT
    xassantex saidwow,
    i have to pay people to send me emails. icon_rolleyes.gif

    How much do you pay? ... icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 8:05 PM GMT
    When I see a handsome guy like Urban, I check the profile...He's stated in monogamous relationship of 10 years and not looking.... Why on earth would you contact him and ask him "what you looking for"?

    When I message somebody, it's a Hi or Hello, really liked your profile, great pics or I see your into this or that etc....Very rare for me to even contact other RJ memebers

    Granted the other comments could be taken as looking for online chat, common interest, diet, gardening, basket weaving whatever, but we all know what the intent was...... then toss in the "stud and Your Smokn"......

    Poor thing got her feelings hurt and shot down by a goodlooking married guy, get over it.......Please tell me it wasn't SWicon_eek.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 8:08 PM GMT
    Just completely ignore it. Not even worth your time. You were nice to reply, but if I were in your shoes (someone asking what I'm looking for when it's made clear by your profile) I wouldn't even respond.
  • coolarmydude

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    Jan 10, 2010 8:28 PM GMT
    Some people's children...icon_rolleyes.gif
  • nv7_

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    Jan 10, 2010 8:35 PM GMT
    Hey bro....unlock? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 10, 2010 9:02 PM GMT
    He's a 'tard!