Good Looks Vs. A Good Heart

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    Jan 14, 2010 7:53 AM GMT
    In understand many guys want the perfect guy with the perfect body, face and emotions, but lets be honest, it ain't gonna happen. Its true, there should be a balance in both... but is it that many of the guys expect too much?

    Many of my friends are models and after so many fine guys,they would much rather be with the one that has more of a heart than the looks.

    What do you think?
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    Jan 14, 2010 8:00 AM GMT
    My best relationship was with an overweight man.

    It's really about karma, nothing more.
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    Jan 14, 2010 8:06 AM GMT
    heart, always.. a hot bastard wont be there when you trip, but he'll probably laugh at you.. a man with a heart will help you up, brush you off and tell ya every things alright and if he's really good, he'll put a band aid on ma boo boo and kiss me all bettas
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    Jan 14, 2010 8:16 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidheart, always.. a hot bastard wont be there when you trip, but he'll probably laugh at you.. a man with a heart will help you up, brush you off and tell ya every things alright and if he's really good, he'll put a band aid on ma boo boo and kiss me all bettas


    haha "on ma boo boo"
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    Jan 14, 2010 8:19 AM GMT
    26mileman saidMy best relationship was with an overweight man.

    It's really about karma, nothing more.


    Yeah... it is really all about Karma... i just wish people realize it more.
    I mean its happened to me a lot but it doesn't really affect me as much as it affects some of the guys I know,.. we're talking about some guys going anorexic or pushing their bodies to the extremes and end up hurt both physically and emotionally.

  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 14, 2010 3:15 PM GMT
    A Good Heart......everytime. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 14, 2010 3:18 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidheart, always.. a hot bastard wont be there when you trip, but he'll probably laugh at you.. a man with a heart will help you up, brush you off and tell ya every things alright and if he's really good, he'll put a band aid on ma boo boo and kiss me all bettas
    haha.


    and ask if you need to go boom boom before long road trips.
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    Jan 14, 2010 3:22 PM GMT
    a good heart and a genuine guy go hand in had and should win it every time
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    Jan 14, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    It is a shame that having a good heart is not as apparent as good looks.
  • rnch

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    Jan 14, 2010 3:37 PM GMT
    in the military, there is a term for pretty boys who get by on their surface attractions.

    the term is "grease".

    pretty boys grease there way up the ladder; but often slip on the same grease and slide back down the ladder because there often is nothing to back up the grease.

    im my observations; pretty boys develop little, if any, inner charms because they can get by on their surface attractions.

    when they are in their 40's, and their good looks fade, they can't understand why nobody likes them anymore. icon_rolleyes.gif

    a good heart never ages; indeed it often enlarges and becomes more attractive as it ages. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 14, 2010 3:53 PM GMT
    A good heart, everytime
  • jrs1

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    Jan 14, 2010 5:05 PM GMT
    to Good Looks:



    i.e., pretty eyes tend to wander.

    to a Good Heart:



    i.e., you'll have me in more ways than lust. speak! honey, babe ...

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    Jan 14, 2010 5:09 PM GMT
    turbobilly saidIt is a shame that having a good heart is not as apparent as good looks.


    It is as apparent, really.. it takes very little effort or initiative to appreciate who someone is on the inside, most people just don't do it because they're locked on to the outside.

    At the same time, it's REALLY easy to see who DOESN'T have a 'good heart' in em.. but if they're cute enough, most guys will ignore those signs, too.
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    Jan 14, 2010 5:47 PM GMT
    Go for the good heart..,. and you'll find he gets better lookin every day
  • Anto

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    Jan 14, 2010 6:29 PM GMT
    I think heart is secondary to looks because most gay men, even if they go for heart first, will still only go for the 'heart' that is in a male body vs a female body.
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    Jan 14, 2010 6:34 PM GMT
    Anto saidI think heart is secondary to looks because most gay men, even if they go for heart first, will still only go for the 'heart' that is in a male body vs a female body.



    ppffttt... what the hell are you talking about???? By your reasoning, gay men will also go for male donkeys if the ass has a good heart. Silly man.


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  • Anto

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    Jan 14, 2010 6:41 PM GMT
    No my point is that ultimately it is about looks, otherwise gay men could just as easily find interest in a woman with a good heart as they would a man with a good heart but they don't because women do not have the 'looks' of men physically.

    It won't work with the donkey for the same reason.
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    Jan 14, 2010 6:44 PM GMT
    Anto saidNo my point is that ultimately it is about looks, otherwise gay men could just as easily find interest in a woman with a good heart as they would a man with a good heart but they don't because women do not have the 'looks' of men physically.

    It won't work with the donkey for the same reason.



    My point is that your point is as silly as the donkey. By definition, gay men go for other men. I think when we say "attractive" we are breaking it down well beyond gender. I hope you were joking.

  • Anto

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    Jan 14, 2010 7:21 PM GMT
    How is it meaningful to talk about heart being more important than looks so long as it's limited to people who look male?
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    Jan 14, 2010 7:34 PM GMT
    Anto saidHow is it meaningful to talk about heart being more important than looks so long as it's limited to people who look male?



    Not people who LOOK male. People who ARE male. Gah... forget it, you're lost.


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    Jan 14, 2010 7:49 PM GMT
    26mileman saidMy best relationship was with an overweight man.

    It's really about karma, nothing more.


    OMG you dated a fatty?



    j/k
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    Jan 14, 2010 7:51 PM GMT
    Good looks (to you) make you walk up and say "Hi."

    A good heart (and mind) will make you stay.
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    Jan 14, 2010 7:54 PM GMT
    One of the things in life I have seen many times over, is that most good looking people have a rotten heart, they have no depth, are superficial, and so on. It's a rare thing to find a truly good looking person that has balance; but I was lucky, I did find one.
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    Jan 14, 2010 7:54 PM GMT
    For me, a good heart will win me over everytime.
    It also makes a person that much more attractive to me. icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 14, 2010 7:58 PM GMT
    A good hearted person is very attractive in so many ways. Looks are fleeting and with time can be gone - a good heart lasts a long long time. icon_smile.gif