Having to cancel plans, with a valid reason

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    Jan 17, 2010 4:24 AM GMT
    So earlier today i made plans with the b/f to hang out. i work until like 6 and he was watching football till whenever it ends.

    The plans we just for him to come over to my place after his games where over. We never discussed what we were gonna do, while he was over, most likely we would have just went and gotten a movie and watch it. and then go to bed.
    then about an hour ago i got a call asking if i could work tonight at a club where i have an on-call position. Since my hours got cut i am in need of money, so i had to cancel the plans because i need to work.

    I don't feel like i did anything wrong, just because he knows i have an on-call position. i told him i need the money so i needed to change our plans.

    so i go and get ready and come back to my room and he hasn't responded to me yet, so i text him asking if he's mad at me and if i can come over afterwords so we can at least sleep together. then he responds with, "yeah i am, i'm going out and don't know when i'm gonna be home, so no" (meaning he doesn't want me to come over after)

    I'm just like whatever, he know i need to work whenever i can and i need to so that i can support myself.

    o and the position is just a cashier taking cover at the door . . .
  • Webster666

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    Jan 17, 2010 5:37 AM GMT
    Uh oh, there's trouble in paradise.
    And, you're not going to change this guy.
    Go out and find someone who deserves you.
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    Jan 17, 2010 5:44 AM GMT
    meh, he knows your job, he accepted that, time for him to get over it.