Using a Dildo

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    Jan 18, 2010 11:08 PM GMT
    I have experimented with putting things up my butt before, but I have never had a legit sex toy. I went out and got one the other day and there are a couple issues I feel the need to bring up.

    First of all, the thing smells. It has this intensly strong PVC plasticky smell to it that fills the whole room. The other more important thing, though, is safety. I am pretty, actually very tight, down there and I have not managed to fit it in. I tried for a while and experienced pain and then smartly decided to stop. I am more or less waiting for my butt to heal...but I have some questions about safety. How do you work your way up to something big like the dildo I bought? And is it safe to use: I have read in some sources that sex toys containing PVC contain pthalates which can cause a bunch of bad shit to happen inside your body.


    Any comments and thank you for your time.

  • rnch

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    Jan 18, 2010 11:12 PM GMT
    lube, patience, practice....poppers help also. icon_cool.gif
  • rnch

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    Jan 18, 2010 11:18 PM GMT
    Roquentin said...Any comments and thank you for your time.

    after viewing your profile pics; I suspect more than a few guys here would volunteer to help you adapt to your new toy! icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 19, 2010 12:05 AM GMT
    lube and fingers, one at first, then two, then three if you need it.. the pop that sucker in and bobs your uncle fannies granny

    don't use poppers if you aren't experienced enough yet.. it can cause problems.
  • rnch

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    Jan 19, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    lilTanker said..don't use poppers if you aren't experienced enough yet.. it can cause problems.
    how's he supposed to get experience without using his new toy?

    a good quality popper will allow him to slide that sucker in with no pain. (along with the fingers and lube you mentioned). icon_cool.gif
  • Timbales

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    Jan 19, 2010 12:53 AM GMT
    I'd say give it a good wash to help get rid of the smell. You might also find it a bit more comfortable if you put a condom on it. You might also think about getting a smaller one.
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    Jan 19, 2010 1:10 AM GMT
    Good point, Timberoo. What size dildo are we talking about? Is it a baseball bat size or a cocktail frank size? It is wise to always buy a small size for a first time. Unless you are used to being "fisted"... Christ, that is another issue!
  • rnch

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    Jan 19, 2010 1:26 AM GMT
    markthespot saidGood point, Timberoo. What size dildo are we talking about? Is it a baseball bat size or a cocktail frank size? It is wise to always buy a small size for a first time. Unless you are used to being "fisted"... Christ, that is another issue!
    yes, excellent point! i assumed he started off with a small "pocket rocket", not a porn star replica...
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    Jan 19, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    rnch said
    lilTanker said..don't use poppers if you aren't experienced enough yet.. it can cause problems.
    how's he supposed to get experience without using his new toy?

    a good quality popper will allow him to slide that sucker in with no pain. (along with the fingers and lube you mentioned). icon_cool.gif

    poppers are okay once you gots experience...
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    Jan 19, 2010 6:34 AM GMT
    start with a small one (about as thick as your thumb), lube and GO SLOW. THe first time is the scariest one (slide it in a cm, wait until yo are relaxed, breath out and push it in another cm etc), after that practice 3 times a week and within a month you will be able to bottom without too much problem.

    Wash it in soap and water to help take down the smell. Also consider using a condom on it... depends what it´s made of... but SOME materials can hold bacteria.


    And I would happily help you out in person icon_rolleyes.gif
  • rnch

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    Jan 19, 2010 2:48 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidstart with a small one (about as thick as your thumb), lube and GO SLOW. THe first time is the scariest one (slide it in a cm, wait until yo are relaxed, breath out and push it in another cm etc), after that practice 3 times a week and within a month you will be able to bottom without too much problem.

    Wash it in soap and water to help take down the smell. Also consider using a condom on it... depends what it´s made of... but SOME materials can hold bacteria.


    And I would happily help you out in person icon_rolleyes.gif
    i always use condoms on toys...makes post fun clean-up SO much easier..just rip it off and toss it in the toilet and flush... icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 19, 2010 11:24 PM GMT
    lol it was a porn star replica one! I just wanted my monies worth and i guess i got i!


    oops.!!!!
  • Timbales

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    Jan 20, 2010 12:34 AM GMT
    Roquentin saidlol it was a porn star replica one! I just wanted my monies worth and i guess i got i!


    oops.!!!!


    who did you get?
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    Jan 20, 2010 3:35 AM GMT
    Lol i forgot the name but its from the "Realistic Cock" set..so it was pretty expensive and looks and feels real as shit. its this guy It was molded directly from this guys cock, his name was Jeff Stryker.


    lol
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    Jan 20, 2010 4:12 AM GMT
    Yikes -- I think that's more "varsity" or "pro" than JV. Maybe something a wee bit smaller to start? icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 20, 2010 7:22 AM GMT
    oh yeah, get a little 5 incher, then move up to 7. THen you should be able to start on Jeff... In the mean time you can practice giving head.

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  • Timbales

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    Jan 20, 2010 2:01 PM GMT
    Roquentin saidLol i forgot the name but its from the "Realistic Cock" set..so it was pretty expensive and looks and feels real as shit. its this guy It was molded directly from this guys cock, his name was Jeff Stryker.


    lol


    Jumping right to a Jeff Stryker is probably not the best option, lol.

    There are some smaller plugs out there that are graduated in size. They can help slowly getting you accustomed.
  • Latenight30

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    Jan 20, 2010 5:56 PM GMT
    No wonder it smells. There is 10lbs of PVC on that thing!
    Why do i think this might not be a serious post. Hell if you are adventurous enough to go buy something like that. HOP ON.
    Also, working your way up in a warm bath also helps.
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    Jan 20, 2010 10:01 PM GMT
    oh dear heavens little man... you start with small steps!!!

    Get something smaller!
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    Feb 16, 2010 10:37 PM GMT
    Ok. So I actually fit all of Jeff Stryker up inside me. haha. And it actually didn't hurt, it actually felt really freaking AMAZING and pleasurable. But I had to work up to it.

    Thanks for the advice guys.

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    Apr 12, 2010 8:35 PM GMT
    rnch saidlube, patience, practice....poppers help also. icon_cool.gif


    How sad... needing to use drugs just to have sex.
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    Apr 29, 2010 12:13 AM GMT
    citylife said
    rnch saidlube, patience, practice....poppers help also. icon_cool.gif


    How sad... needing to use drugs just to have sex.


    Who is to judge?