Why are most muscle/beefy guys bottoms?

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    Jan 19, 2010 7:56 AM GMT
    in miami specifically south beach this is the case. Its wierd. They all have small d1cks too. Its crazy, when i was younger i thought muscle guys were total dom tops icon_eek.gif Any of u guys see this? Is all that muscle to compensate for the d1ck or? idk i'm just curious.
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    Jan 19, 2010 9:33 AM GMT
    I don't think that's it.


    At all. lol
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    Jan 19, 2010 11:15 AM GMT
    It's not what you got but how you use it; but then try to tell that to a size queen. Clap your hands; if you know what i mean.icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 19, 2010 11:41 AM GMT
    Soulasphyxi saidI don't think that's it.


    At all. lol
    I KNOOWW SHIT!! Where the hell are they? Im not having luck finding them in Miami thats for sure!icon_mad.gif
  • zakariahzol

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    Jan 19, 2010 12:28 PM GMT
    Are you sure. Most muscle guys I know is top.
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    Jan 19, 2010 12:56 PM GMT
    Something about southern Florida, I guess... I dunno.
    If you want the butch muscle tops you have to go to New York.
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    Jan 19, 2010 1:09 PM GMT
    I love a good stereotype in the morning!
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    Jan 19, 2010 1:12 PM GMT
    danielryan saidI love a good stereotype in the morning!


    Goes well with coffee, doesn't it? icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 19, 2010 1:14 PM GMT
    This cliche makes me so happy.


    I also seem to give off a pheromone that attracts these guys. ah happiness...
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    Jan 19, 2010 1:48 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 said
    danielryan saidI love a good stereotype in the morning!


    Goes well with coffee, doesn't it? icon_lol.gif


    And a doughnut cause didn't you know allllll. Muscle boys with small cocks love them? :-P
  • natsimjac1988

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    Jan 19, 2010 1:49 PM GMT
    i dont know too much about the guys in Miami, but here in nc i seem to meet nothing BUT tops, i dont know if its the area or i give off a bottom vibe or what... maybe ur giving off a top vibe?? icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 19, 2010 1:53 PM GMT
    The more alcohol and drug use...= bottoms....that is true in South Florida. I haven't dated in 7 years...but the bigger the guns, the faster the feet go to Jesus

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    Jan 19, 2010 1:58 PM GMT
    Well, I live in South Beach, am muscular/beefy and a bottom. But I don't have a small dick.
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    Jan 19, 2010 2:16 PM GMT
    A pretty simplistic analysis, but once I checked out your age all was clear icon_wink.gif
  • rnch

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    Jan 19, 2010 2:46 PM GMT
    ah yes, the "shrinking dick" syndrone...seems like the longer i lift, the bigger i get, the smaller "it" looks by comparisom! icon_lol.gif
  • rdberg1957

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    Jan 19, 2010 3:27 PM GMT
    Absolutely. The guys who have the "biggest" are thinner, smaller guys, because of relativity and the amount of dick that is exposed.
  • rnch

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    Jan 19, 2010 3:30 PM GMT
    i've long since given up on trying to figure out who is a "top" or who is a "bottom"...too often i have been amazed and delighted by the truth! icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 19, 2010 3:37 PM GMT
    KeepsGettingBetter saidin miami specifically south beach this is the case. Its wierd. They all have small d1cks too. Its crazy, when i was younger i thought muscle guys were total dom tops icon_eek.gif Any of u guys see this? Is all that muscle to compensate for the d1ck or? idk i'm just curious.


    i've noticed this as well. i think it only becomes a shock because we are predisposed to associate such big guys with being dominant and with big dicks, and when the opposite proves to be true (in my experience)... well it's sorta just incongruous.

    I’ve often wondered if they’ve gotten so big to compensate for some sorta lack…

    but i'm not complaining mind you... the more bottoms there are-the better it is for us tops...

    i mean it's sorta like that song:

    "it's raining bottoms, halleujah
    it's raining bottoms, amen..."
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    Jan 19, 2010 3:38 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 saidSomething about southern Florida, I guess... I dunno.
    If you want the butch muscle tops you have to go to New York.


    eh no! i'm in nyc and they are just as much bottoms!
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    Jan 19, 2010 3:58 PM GMT
    KeepsGettingBetter saidin miami specifically south beach this is the case. Its wierd. They all have small d1cks too. Its crazy, when i was younger i thought muscle guys were total dom tops icon_eek.gif Any of u guys see this? Is all that muscle to compensate for the d1ck or? idk i'm just curious.



    So whats the problem....enjoy the muscle and beefy asses icon_smile.gif and enjoy something new each nite ;)

    HMMMMMMMMMM"what do you feel like tonite - latino muscle bottom - nnnnooooo had that yesterday - hmmmm how about a ....." hehehe
  • Celticmusl

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    Jan 19, 2010 4:14 PM GMT
    Ugh. I'm a top, but it irritates the crap outta me to hear this kind of nonsense, especially in regards to some of my friends that just happen to be handsome and muscular while at the same time a bottom. Why a certain body type would dictate someone's choice of sexual position is beyond me.

    For someone to assume just because a guy is beefy or muscular he is a top, is pretty much stereotyping.

    To the OP, are you a stereotypical gay guy that wears pink, has a lisp, goes shopping and is a drug and alcohol abuser? Stereotyping is ugly and it comes from ignorance and bigotry.
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    Jan 19, 2010 4:19 PM GMT
    Celticmusl saidUgh. I'm a top, but it irritates the crap outta me to hear this kind of nonsense, especially in regards to some of my friends that just happen to be handsome and muscular while at the same time a bottom. Why a certain body type would dictate someone's choice of sexual position is beyond me.

    For someone to assume just because a guy is beefy or muscular he is a top, is pretty much stereotyping.

    To the OP, are you a stereotypical gay guy that wears pink, has a lisp, goes shopping and is a drug and alcohol abuser? Stereotyping is ugly and it comes from ignorance and bigotry.


    Well said.
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    Jan 19, 2010 4:20 PM GMT
    I had an experience like this years ago in Miami. Went home with a huge guy. Got to his house, he had a pic at the beach of him flexing both biceps with a girl sitting on each one. I thought I was going to be really in for something, but his legs popped up in the air as soon as his pants came off. He was a lot of fun, he just couldn't rest his legs on my shoulders, haha. Takes the saying, "wanna fuck a sissy" to a whole new level.

    The next morning, I was thrown onto the back of his motorcycle and taken back to my friends place. ah, good times.
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    Jan 19, 2010 4:52 PM GMT
    A gay man is the free to express himself sexually in any way he wants without stereotyping himself or the guy he is with.

    Associating sexual positions with body types and concepts of masculinity, dominance, submissivness, etc doesn't seem like freedom to me.

    It can be difficult to find guys who are free from all those labels and assumptions but when I do, its all about mutual respect and maximum pleasure. Its enlightening to see some guys here on RJ who've progressed past those useless damaging , pseudo intelectual ideas. Many gay men desperately cling to cliches about positions in order to define their degree of manliness. Thankfully, many don't have to and that big beefy "bottom" guy who is secure in his masculinity is a true example of power and confidence.



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    Jan 19, 2010 4:57 PM GMT
    ....one last thing - been with a few HUGE muscled bottoms...they are in no way less masculine - to me they were even more masculine / manly because they were aware of what THEY wanted and enjoyed.

    Top or bottom - thats what makes a man truly hot - self awareness and a ability to show it and express it.