He who angers you, controls you!!!!!!!

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    Jan 21, 2010 11:00 PM GMT
    With that thought I must be one of the most powerful influential people here at RJ!icon_wink.gif

    I don't recall ever getting angry with anyone here, may not of agreed with them, but never got angry! Talked back to them yes, yet still never got angry; just playful.

    I have never blocked another for having an opinion seemingly diffrent to mine, as opinions are that, opinions. So another has never had that power over me either, yet it seems a power I have over others; and that make me one of the most strongest powerful people here; wow Maybe I should get involved in politics....

    But hate is nothing more than a prolonged suicide too, and the best remedy for anger is delay.
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    Jan 21, 2010 11:42 PM GMT
    Albeit there have been many people here countless of times, who have gone out of their way to be hatful, and say hurtful things to me, Started a number of threads just to attack me. yet I have never once givern them that power over me, to hurt me, as they hurt themselves. I do the same out here to!

    The thing that gets me about people who claim to accept all things, or advocate acceptance, is that they more times than not are the least accepting people on this earthicon_exclaim.gif

    Why is this soicon_question.gif
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    Jan 21, 2010 11:42 PM GMT
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    Jan 21, 2010 11:44 PM GMT
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    Just a thought.
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    Jan 21, 2010 11:52 PM GMT
    Pattison said
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    Just a thought.


    People are never really who they say they are …for the most stuff in life we are fooling ourselves. So to sound more appealing to other, they would say, they are open minded, accepting and so on

    A guy wrote on a previous forum that “When it comes to profiles.. You can attract more flies with honey than with vinegar “ ……….

    So True
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    Jan 22, 2010 12:14 AM GMT
    DarkSeduction said
    Pattison said
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    Just a thought.


    People are never really who they say they are …for the most stuff in life we are fooling ourselves. So to sound more appealing to other, they would say, they are open minded, accepting and so on

    A guy wrote on a previous forum that “When it comes to profiles.. You can attract more flies with honey than with vinegar “ ……….

    So True


    Yes it is true, and he also stated "he ran out of honey"; lol.
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    Jan 22, 2010 3:06 AM GMT
    Anger blows out the lamp of the mind.
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    Jan 22, 2010 3:25 AM GMT
    Pattison saidAnger blows out the lamp of the mind.





    What about bitterness? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 22, 2010 7:33 AM GMT
    Mostwant3d said
    Pattison saidAnger blows out the lamp of the mind.





    What about bitterness? icon_biggrin.gif


    Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to bitterness and suffering.

    I thank God I am neither feaful, angry, hatful, thus neither bitter or suffering.
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    Jan 22, 2010 8:34 AM GMT
    And this is what I would say to anybody who immerses himself in bitterness: "towards the end of your life, the person your hurting is yourself."

    When our heart is too bitter it places us below those we hate, and bitterness imprisons life, love releases it.

    Strong and bitter words indicate weak cause.,
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    Jan 22, 2010 5:03 PM GMT
    Pattison said
    Mostwant3d said
    Pattison saidAnger blows out the lamp of the mind.





    What about bitterness? icon_biggrin.gif


    Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to bitterness and suffering.

    I thank God I am neither feaful, angry, hatful, thus neither bitter or suffering.




    I agree, is like a cycle... Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to bitterness, bitterness leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to bitterness...icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 22, 2010 5:06 PM GMT
    Understand something, Pattison... What you say pisses me off, but I give very little time or thought to it because I have a life. You rent no space in my head. Get over yourself.

    Even so.... I agree with the concept. Having a resentment against someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
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    Jan 22, 2010 5:10 PM GMT
    He who angers me... will die horribly sometime in the future. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 22, 2010 5:22 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 said

    Having a resentment against someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.


    Wow! How true SAHEM!

    My 2 cents on anger and controlling people…

    Some people like to goad others to anger by posting inflammatory comments. You do it consistently Pattison. You can be condescending and insulting.

    If there is any control factor in the anger people feel, then I think you love controlling people by the anger you induce. Deep down, you love it. It makes you feel powerful.
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    Jan 22, 2010 6:21 PM GMT
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    Could you be any bigger of a cunty whore?

    You are beyond obvious to most of us, except for perhaps Red Vespa.
    Bless your heart, but you are an epic fail.
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    Jan 22, 2010 6:41 PM GMT
    n8698u said
    SAHEM62896 said

    Having a resentment against someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.


    Wow! How true SAHEM!

    My 2 cents on anger and controlling people…

    Some people like to goad others to anger by posting inflammatory comments. You do it consistently Pattison. You can be condescending and insulting.

    If there is any control factor in the anger people feel, then I think you love controlling people by the anger you induce. Deep down, you love it. It makes you feel powerful.


    People need to own their own anger, and feelings, If they have deep love and respect for themselves no-one can hurt or anger them, if their thoughts are strong and true, no-one can dent them or challenge them. I'm secure in my self, thats my power.

    I'm also Aussie too, true blue.

    But you are also ptting word in my mouth by saying how I feel, only I know that here.
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    Jan 22, 2010 6:46 PM GMT
    hmmm....
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    Jan 22, 2010 6:46 PM GMT
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    Could you be any bigger of a cunty whore?

    You are beyond obvious to most of us, except for perhaps Red Vespa.
    Bless your heart, but you are an epic fail.


    Now you say that as if it's a bad thing, was that meant to hurt. I know I've had Gods love shine down on me and I'm strong and secure in the truth of that.

    But look at all the hate and name calling, and spite that comes from what I thought was the gay left, but after all the American news I seen yesterday, I now know it's just the left.

    So you can all wallow in you brief madness of anger. You need you own it, because it belongs to you!
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    Jan 22, 2010 6:49 PM GMT
    Sedative saidHe who angers me... will die horribly sometime in the future. icon_twisted.gif


    Death will only take but a moment, and thats an appointment we both have to keep. life in hell is for an eternity.
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    Jan 22, 2010 6:51 PM GMT
    Pattison saidWith that thought I must be one of the most powerful influential people here at RJ!icon_wink.gif

    I don't recall ever getting angry with anyone here, may not of agreed with them, but never got angry! Talked back to them yes, yet still never got angry; just playful.

    I have never blocked another for having an opinion seemingly diffrent to mine, as opinions are that, opinions. So another has never had that power over me either, yet it seems a power I have over others; and that make me one of the most strongest powerful people here; wow Maybe I should get involved in politics....

    But hate is nothing more than a prolonged suicide too, and the best remedy for anger is delay.
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    Jan 22, 2010 8:16 PM GMT
    Pattison saidThe thing that gets me about people who claim to accept all things, or advocate acceptance, is that they more times than not are the least accepting people on this earthicon_exclaim.gif


    On that point I agree. Intolerance of perceived intolerance is the amongst the worst forms of intolerance. That should be a thread in itself.
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    Jan 23, 2010 2:06 AM GMT
    I just got home from work. I had 9 people tell me today what nice man I was, and along those lines. The DON come and asked me would I do the paper work to admit an elderly man into care. When I went to collect him at reception, I was to asses it was an elderly gay couple I was dealing with, and why the DON come and asked me to do it; no problems.

    They found the service I provided to be professional, caring and supportive. To me this is when I care how I am judged, and not in some forum that is open to debate, and diffrent opinions.

    I belive we are all entitled to an opinion, and be free of abuse and safe too have it. We just don't have to agree. So for this if I reflect an opinion, and it may not even be one I hold to my heart, I have the right to behold it, and if others get pissed or angry over it, it's their issues and not mine, their anger and not mine, they need to own it.

    Also if RJ had a diffrent feel to it, a diffrent side of me may of shone though more. But their is a number of left wing wackos here, who resent anything that may even look to lean to the right. I am not responsible for their issues, anger hate or bitterness they are.

    if a heterosexual had a go at me for being a homosexual on, I'm not going to take it on, nor let them hurt me, and I will tell the that it's their issue and they need to own it, and I'm not going to change just to make them happy.
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    Jan 23, 2010 3:17 AM GMT
    PakourPump. Matey even if we were in a tender loving relationship, we would not always agree 100%. because even if we had a lot in commion, we are still diffrent maybe for many reasons. I being Aussie, and you American. Even though the two countries have a lot in commion, we are still fundamental diffrent, from the difference of our births of our nations.

    But yes it does get me the way people love to twist words, just to misquote, and validate their hate, and bitterness.

    It's like if I was in a debate about bisexuals, and not give a name. I'm not being personal, or making personal attacks, because I have no issues with a guy being a bisexual. Yet many to suit their agenda, will take it upon themselves to say I insulted them. Yet if they insulted gay republicans, and I said you are insulting my companion of 20 years, it would be diffrent to them.
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    Jan 23, 2010 3:22 AM GMT
    lol, 9 people you met in person said you're a nice person....but they haven't read your posts on RJ, have they?
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    Jan 23, 2010 3:34 AM GMT
    meninlove said lol, 9 people you met in person said you're a nice person....but they haven't read your posts on RJ, have they?


    Sweet peas.. I dealt with more than 9 people today. These people dealt with a person in real life, and not some guy debating on the net. yet I have pulled this site up a number of times at work, to show some people, and because they do know me. I'm not the one who comes off looking bad.

    Passive aggressive people are among some of the most hatful and hurtful; aren't theyicon_wink.gif

    You come here now with hate in your hearts, don't you! Come on be strong, be men, don't you. I have had you stalk me because you try to force your political correctness on me, and others thus you political agenda. You will twist words, to bastardise.

    I'm sure your hate blinds you, that anyone could even like me, or love me, but how I have been loved, a depth of love you too may never even know either.