Sex with the lights on?

  • miamivibe

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    Jan 23, 2010 9:32 PM GMT
    Ok I'm diving head first with this one, pun intended. Am I the only weirdo who likes to have sex with the lights on? Ok, I don't want stadium lighting in the bedroom, but I definitely like to see what I'm doing. If I'm with a guy it's because I think he's sexy or beautiful..or hopefully both, so I enjoy seeing who I'm with, and I definitely don't like to do it in the dark. Once in a while in the dark for extra romantic effect is ok.

    Am I alone here?
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    Jan 23, 2010 9:38 PM GMT
    No. I prefer there to be some light.
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    Jan 23, 2010 9:45 PM GMT
    nope dim s ok but i would prefer no light. i could never do it on with lights. it would be wierd.
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    Jan 23, 2010 10:43 PM GMT
    I refuse point blank to have sex with the light out... I wanna see!!
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    Jan 23, 2010 11:07 PM GMT
    Direct sunlight with coconut oil, please sir.
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    Jan 23, 2010 11:54 PM GMT
    Lights on 95% of the time.......and candles the other 5%
  • drypin

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    Jan 24, 2010 12:34 AM GMT
    Good heavens. I'm not putting all this work into my body to leave it unappreciated. The dark might make a nice change once in a while, but not normally. Natural sunlight all the way.
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:36 AM GMT
    I'm probably having sex with him because he's hot as hell...so yeah, I wanna see him! Not to mention...with the lights out...it can be a bit difficult to make sure you're putting the "plug into the socket" and not trying to shove it in his ear.


    ...and that has only happened once...and I was really really really drunk. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:42 AM GMT
    If I want to have sex with you, then I must find you attractive and that means that I would like to see you.

    I don't put all this effort into my body for it to go unnoticed, especially that I rarely wear clothes that show off my effort.

    Then there's the fun of seeing what he/I am doing.

    So, yeah, lights please.
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:42 AM GMT
    I prefer the lights low enough to conceal the look of disappointment on my face.
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:42 AM GMT
    collegekid2004 saidI'm probably having sex with him because he's hot as hell...so yeah, I wanna see him! Not to mention...with the lights out...it can be a bit difficult to make sure you're putting the "plug into the socket" and not trying to shove it in his ear.


    ...and that has only happened once...and I was really really really drunk. icon_razz.gif



    so you tried aural sex....how was it???
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:43 AM GMT
    mattyrec said
    collegekid2004 saidI'm probably having sex with him because he's hot as hell...so yeah, I wanna see him! Not to mention...with the lights out...it can be a bit difficult to make sure you're putting the "plug into the socket" and not trying to shove it in his ear.


    ...and that has only happened once...and I was really really really drunk. icon_razz.gif



    so you tried aural sex....how was it???


    I didn't mean to try it! I was wasted and kinda just fell over and started humping...these things happen now and then lol!
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:50 AM GMT
    If the video cams rolling you need good light...but use diffused lighting to highlight your strengths.
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:50 AM GMT
    collegekid2004 said
    mattyrec said
    collegekid2004 saidI'm probably having sex with him because he's hot as hell...so yeah, I wanna see him! Not to mention...with the lights out...it can be a bit difficult to make sure you're putting the "plug into the socket" and not trying to shove it in his ear.


    ...and that has only happened once...and I was really really really drunk. icon_razz.gif



    so you tried aural sex....how was it???


    I didn't mean to try it! I was wasted and kinda just fell over and started humping...these things happen now and then lol!


    I am sure the young man didn't mind at all... i know i would be happy just having u naked... wherever it ends up
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:51 AM GMT
    All of this drunken sex talk and people have the nerve to say they prefer people to not have HIV. Wisdom is apparently an issue of cognitive function.
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:52 AM GMT
    Lights on. Why work out this much if you're going to hide it?
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:52 AM GMT
    collegekid2004 said
    mattyrec said
    collegekid2004 saidI'm probably having sex with him because he's hot as hell...so yeah, I wanna see him! Not to mention...with the lights out...it can be a bit difficult to make sure you're putting the "plug into the socket" and not trying to shove it in his ear.


    ...and that has only happened once...and I was really really really drunk. icon_razz.gif



    so you tried aural sex....how was it???


    I didn't mean to try it! I was wasted and kinda just fell over and started humping...these things happen now and then lol!


    Haha, I must admit I was a little turned on by the thought of collegekid fucking someone in the ear ... and then I thought about that quote ... "in one ear, out the other" ... ewwww ...
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    Bowie saidAll of this drunken sex talk and people have the nerve to say they prefer people to not have HIV. Wisdom is apparently an issue of cognitive function.


    I may have sex when I'm drunk, but I've yet to this day forgotten to wrap my tool.
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    Sex with the low lights on...there's nothing sexy about preschool fumbling. And if its your issue with your body... save me the time and dont have sex.
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    Some mood lighting is nice icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 24, 2010 12:55 AM GMT
    collegekid2004 said
    Bowie saidAll of this drunken sex talk and people have the nerve to say they prefer people to not have HIV. Wisdom is apparently an issue of cognitive function.


    I may have sex when I'm drunk, but I've yet to this day forgotten to wrap my tool.


    It only takes once.
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    Jan 24, 2010 1:00 AM GMT
    I prefer little bit of lights, nothing too bright or too dark.
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    Jan 24, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
    That's funny you bring this up. I've noticed recently that when I'm walking with friends or am at a bar and I see someone hot, I no longer just say "I'd bang him" or "I'd throw it in him" but I'm now specifying whether or not I'd leave the lights on. So its now become a thing my friends and I will say. If we want to bang someone but think they're extra hot, we say something like "I'd rock his/her world, WITH the lights on!"

    Personally, I don't really like having the lights on tho. The light that comes through the window is just enough.
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    Jan 24, 2010 1:10 AM GMT
    Depending on the position, I don't see the guy anyway, unless there's a mirror somewhere. icon_eek.gif
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Jan 24, 2010 1:16 AM GMT
    Nah brah I like lighting also but not the regular light like a blue light or a green one but I think black light is the best icon_biggrin.gif no wait I take that back green is the best icon_biggrin.gif