Reveal Your Straight Man Crushes

  • MadeinMich

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    Jan 24, 2010 4:28 AM GMT
    Ok,
    So there is this straight, alpha male guy at my gym. And I think he's hot as hell. He isn't flawless but he is really masculine and we have struck up a friendship. He's been working out for seven years and has the body to prove it. He gives me tips and pointers all the time. And when he wears wife beaters I just wanna slap myself. He's not cut at all. But very muscular. I get so attracted to him when we talk and I get so affraid he's going to see me looking at his muscles. But I grab a peek. Like I said he's very alpha male and doesn't know I'm gay, but I'm very masculine so I pull the stright bud thing off. He is so nice to me as a beginner lifter, and soo friendly.I'd love to hang out with him, he's so cool. I gotta control myself and know that nothing romantic could ever be, but its soooo hard. Have any of you ever experienced this?
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    Jan 24, 2010 5:13 AM GMT
    The last straight guy "crush" I can remember having was on this guy. An actor and completely unattainable. It's the possibility that they might be the exception and not the rule that will do you in everytime.
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  • MadeinMich

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    Jan 24, 2010 6:35 PM GMT
    Ok, Thats great. But I mean someone who exists in your life. Could be a coworker, a gym buddy, the paper delivery man. Whoever, just as long as you know them
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    Jan 24, 2010 6:44 PM GMT
    turbobilly saidThe last straight guy "crush" I can remember having was on this guy. An actor and completely unattainable. It's the possibility that they might be the exception and not the rule that will do you in everytime.
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    Yeah, see what you mean, a lot of elements there that appeal to me, too. I especially like his eyes.

    But if it's any consolation, I see his nose, and that's a grower if ever I saw one. In a few years this guy will be the next Walter Matthau. Unless, like me, you value talent & personality over looks, and then you are indeed stuck with a crush that'll "do you in."

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  • MadeinMich

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    Jan 24, 2010 6:45 PM GMT
    ok....can we talk about some real people whom we actually know...NO CELEBRITIES
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    Jan 24, 2010 6:57 PM GMT
    There are more than enough gay men to have crushes on that I've never bothered with the straights.
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    Jan 24, 2010 7:04 PM GMT
    MadeinMich saidok....can we talk about some real people whom we actually know...NO CELEBRITIES

    OK, your thread topic, so... no, I don't ever have crushes on non-celebrity straight guys. I suppose that means I either never meet any straight guys who are that irresistible, or else their straightness turns me off. I'm not big on wasting my time going up dead ends (forgive the double pun).
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    Jan 24, 2010 7:13 PM GMT
    Hahaha Yeah man - The same thing! Back when I was starting out lifting I started talking to this very hot, straight, muscular guy who trained at my gym. He'd give me pointers and advice. One day, after seeing that I was in the gym every day he was, he asked if I wanted to train with him. He's a very hands on spotter and he would also tell me to grab parts of him as he was lifting to show me what was supposed to be flexing and what wasn't. He introduced me to his friends and we hung out watching the fights, BBQ & beer get togethers, and going hunting. After a couple months of never seeing my girl friend I had to fess up that I was gay. It rattled him a little bit and he made it quite clear that he was straight and nothing would ever happen between us. I told him that if I ever fell in love with him that I'd tell him and then we'd part ways because it wouldn't be any fun for me to hang with him - that seemed to take him off guard. After a few weeks of some awkwardness and readjusting we continued to be friends and became closer. Today we are each other's best friends.
  • MadeinMich

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    Jan 24, 2010 8:02 PM GMT
    Voltaire saidHahaha Yeah man - The same thing! Back when I was starting out lifting I started talking to this very hot, straight, muscular guy who trained at my gym. He'd give me pointers and advice. One day, after seeing that I was in the gym every day he was, he asked if I wanted to train with him. He's a very hands on spotter and he would also tell me to grab parts of him as he was lifting to show me what was supposed to be flexing and what wasn't. He introduced me to his friends and we hung out watching the fights, BBQ & beer get togethers, and going hunting. After a couple months of never seeing my girl friend I had to fess up that I was gay. It rattled him a little bit and he made it quite clear that he was straight and nothing would ever happen between us. I told him that if I ever fell in love with him that I'd tell him and then we'd part ways because it wouldn't be any fun for me to hang with him - that seemed to take him off guard. After a few weeks of some awkwardness and readjusting we continued to be friends and became closer. Today we are each other's best friends.


    OH...WOW, Man
    Thats a really great story. And very close to what I am experiencing. I think the kindness he shows to me in giving me pointers and being invested in my progress is nice and it sorta makes me sweet on him. But I'm not foolish
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    Jan 24, 2010 8:09 PM GMT
    A few years back. . . a friend of mine who ran a karate school. He was in incredible shape. We used to spar and wrestle together. You can imagine how I felt!
  • roadbikeRob

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    Jan 24, 2010 8:12 PM GMT
    It is a waste of time to have crushes on straight men because they have no intentions of returning the favor due to their natural sexual orientation. There are more than enough masculine, athletic, hunky gay men available to have crushes on.
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    Jan 24, 2010 10:33 PM GMT
    when my best friend and i met and started hanging out, he did not know i was gay. although i was super attracted to him, but i knew he was straight. when i came out to him it was very difficult for him for a while. he is a black man raised in the country so he had some struggles with this at first. we are now closer than ever and are best friends. although i still think he's hot, i know a physical thing is out of the question.
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    Jan 24, 2010 10:53 PM GMT
    YUP! this hot german guy in grade 12! we talked a lot! he was super sexy!
    but when he found out i was gay he stopped talking to me. icon_sad.gif OH WELL icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 24, 2010 11:00 PM GMT
    Sorry I value the friendship of me straight mates. So I'm not even going to waist one moment of time on a crush on a straight guy, coz if they give you that look back, they just are not straight either, but bisexual, and bisexual is neither straight or gay.

    But it does confirm why homosexuals who appear to be straight, are at the top of the pecking order, in the gay community.
  • PipHop

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    Jan 25, 2010 6:42 AM GMT
    i'm not sure i could ever have a crush on a guy that i knew was absolutely straight (or just says he is, yet has sex with men). chicago is spoiling me, this place as too many hot and available gay men to bother with heteros.icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 25, 2010 6:55 AM GMT
    PipHop saidi'm not sure i could ever have a crush on a guy that i knew was absolutely straight (or just says he is, yet has sex with men). chicago is spoiling me, this place as too many hot and available gay men to bother with heteros.icon_cool.gif


    Amen to that!
  • outkast1728

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    Jan 25, 2010 7:20 AM GMT
    I've had a crush on this guy I knew from back in middle school, he moved away before the end of the last year of school and now he's a famous big shot actor. His name is Taylor Lautner and we used to be best friends until his parents got a job in another state.icon_sad.gif

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  • drypin

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    Jan 25, 2010 7:21 AM GMT
    Well, calling it a crush is stretching it too far, but there is one guy in my gym whose body so perfectly matches my ideal proportions that I actually find it hard to look at him and refuse to make eye contact with him. He's usually surrounded by his buddies and they all work out together. I have no idea what his sexual orientation is, but I've never picked up any vibe that he might be interested in me so he could be straight, gay or celibate for all it matters.
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Jan 25, 2010 7:39 AM GMT
    outkast1728 saidI've had a crush on this guy I knew from back in middle school, he moved away before the end of the last year of school and now he's a famous big shot actor. His name is Taylor Lautner and we used to be best friends until his parents got a job in another state.icon_sad.gif

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    well at least he didn't look like that when you knew him lol but I'm sure he's a great person but I still see a little boy that played as shark boy and I lose complete intrest lol
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Jan 25, 2010 7:47 AM GMT
    There is this hot guy that goes to the gym in my apt and he's so hot I'm too scared to talk to him I assume he's str8 but idk and I love checking him out while he lifts and then the veins in his arms start to pop and the one in my pants does too haha
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    Jan 25, 2010 7:54 AM GMT
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    ^^^^^^ Craig Sager is the second sexiest man alive.