Have you ever been with a gorgeous guy in bed just couldn't get it up???

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    Jan 11, 2008 8:45 AM GMT
    I hate this when it happens... especially when I "get lucky" and find myself overwhelmed with such beauty... that I can't even get it up!!!!!!!
    Please advise. xx
  • MikemikeMike

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    Jan 11, 2008 9:01 AM GMT
    no-fortunately. I hope they gave you a second chance..
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    Jan 12, 2008 4:45 AM GMT
    I wish I sometimes had your problem. I get a woody just holding a guys hand. icon_redface.gif

    Better luck next time.
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    Apr 26, 2008 3:12 AM GMT
    Sorry I can't help on this one, I am usually hard about the time I start thinking of them. Typically morning wood starts around 2 or 3 AM and lasts until I get up, if anything I could use a little relaxing.
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    Apr 26, 2008 3:17 AM GMT
    The last time that happened to me i was with a woman. It wasnt pretty. Tried everything. Couldnt get hard to save my life.
  • kjm1990

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    Apr 26, 2008 1:18 PM GMT
    yea um gymguy1 gay guys sleep with other guys not girls try sleepin with a guy an see if that helps
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    Apr 26, 2008 1:47 PM GMT
    zimatar saidI hate this when it happens... especially when I "get lucky" and find myself overwhelmed with such beauty... that I can't even get it up!!!!!!!
    Please advise. xx


    Use your imagination. I think lots of gorgeous guys are used to all the attention and are REALLY looking for someone who is different and special....and that means someone who is into the sensual aspects of sex ( like kissing, touching, and other goodies)....rather than going at it full force right away......and the best part is you will prolly get a super hard on cause you would get into it too, and enjoy it, as well as see mr. hottie have a good time.

    be human...have fun.
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    Apr 26, 2008 2:58 PM GMT
    zimatar saidI hate this when it happens... especially when I "get lucky" and find myself overwhelmed with such beauty... that I can't even get it up!!!!!!!
    Please advise. xx


    I need photos of said "hunk" first to access the situation.. icon_wink.gif

    Now more seriously - did you have anything to drink? Sometimes having too much to drink has that effect...icon_mad.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 26, 2008 3:07 PM GMT
    Never had the issue... never at all...

    However I have had the comment, "Well I'm nervous" thats been said to me. My response.. "What for"?

    I've never understood any of that.
  • GQjock

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    Apr 26, 2008 4:25 PM GMT
    LOL... he intimidated you to the point of penile stage fright

    The next time just relax ... don't let the
    I know I can - I know I can mantra get the best of you
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    Apr 26, 2008 5:09 PM GMT
    No. However, I started to lose interest in this one handsome guy when:

    - he started imitating the bad dialogue in a porn video;

    - said I would really be sexy if I lost 10 pounds;

    - said he would probably split me in two if he fucked me.

    His arrogance was a real downer.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 26, 2008 5:49 PM GMT
    Wysiwyg60 saidNo. However, I started to lose interest in this one handsome guy when:

    - he started imitating the bad dialogue in a porn video;

    - said I would really be sexy if I lost 10 pounds;

    - said he would probably split me in two if he fucked me.

    His arrogance was a real downer.



    Sounds like he was a downer... it has nothing to do with getting it up... I would have sent the dude packing (real fast). Your a great guy and if he didn't recognize that (plus or minus 10 pounds) he lost out!
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    Apr 26, 2008 6:12 PM GMT
    Thanks HndsmKansas. I unfortunately could not send him packing because I was at his place! I got my revenge a few months later when he wanted to do round two and I said no thanks. He gives me attitude to this day (this was 1990).

    My first instinct was not to sleep with him, but it had been a year since I had had sex, and he was good-looking. But really pretentious and arrogant. One of life's lessons learned. Always trust your gut feelings about a guy.
  • GQjock

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    Apr 26, 2008 7:57 PM GMT
    Wysiwyg60 saidNo. However, I started to lose interest in this one handsome guy when:

    - he started imitating the bad dialogue in a porn video;
    Oy! icon_confused.gif

    - said I would really be sexy if I lost 10 pounds;
    Whoaa!!icon_eek.gif

    - said he would probably split me in two if he fucked me.
    Sheesh! icon_rolleyes.gif

    His arrogance was a real downer.


    I'd say... sorry bud
    it doesn't wanna come out and play
    I'm savin' it for somethin' worth stickin' in icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 26, 2008 8:06 PM GMT
    Virgin so just imagining here... heh

    But yeah, if it was a really hot guy, I'd probably be too nervous. Especially if it was a one night stand.
  • redheaded_dud...

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    Apr 27, 2008 1:44 AM GMT
    As they say in the movies, "This happens to all men."

    "Yeah, but it never happened to ME!"

    It's happened to me, and it may even happen to you again. It happens. Drinking does have an impact. So do Viagra and Cialis. (hint hint).
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    Apr 27, 2008 2:31 AM GMT
    The only time it ever happened to me was in high school when I tried to fuck a girl at a party. I just wasn't into her. My body was trying to tell me something!
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    Apr 27, 2008 2:00 PM GMT
    swpdxguy saidI need photos of said "hunk" first to access the situation.. icon_wink.gif
    Now more seriously - did you have anything to drink? Sometimes having too much to drink has that effect...icon_mad.gif

    No, as a matter of fact I was completely sober at the time! I know how it works for me: I can only either be tipsy or 'poppered' (one or the other).
    Anyway, since you ask, I nicked this from his facebook! he he
    [url]Photobucket[/url]
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    Apr 27, 2008 2:49 PM GMT
    Wow, that guy is stunning; I think I would have had the same problem.

    Beauty can be intimidating.
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    Apr 27, 2008 2:55 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidWow, that guy is stunning; I think I would have had the same problem.

    Beauty can be intimidating.


    I guess beauty can be intimidating....i think the thing to remember when you meet a hottie is that he is human too.....with feelings too.....and , hotties really appreciate warmth/realness and assertiveness without idiocy....and somebody with a little edge to stand out from the crowd.....just remember also that a real good looking guy has the same right to say "not interested" (cause there is no chemistry) just like everyone else....without being called a snob or stuck up.
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    Apr 27, 2008 3:00 PM GMT
    just remember also that a real good looking guy has the same right to say "not interested" (cause there is no chemistry) just like everyone else....without being called a snob or stuck up.

    Hopefully, he'd have the good sense to say "not interested" long before the sex bit!
  • GQjock

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    Apr 27, 2008 3:02 PM GMT
    Very handsome...

    But dude, not kool posting someone's picture without their permission
  • redheaded_dud...

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    Apr 27, 2008 5:29 PM GMT
    Ouch. Hasn't he ever heard of "sunscreen"? Help him out and educate him about the dangers of the sun. That tan-line is too much!

    2 words: skin cancer!
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    Apr 27, 2008 7:36 PM GMT
    Yeah I was thinking tan lines too but he is drop dead gorgeous.

    It kind of snowballs and original cause it dosen't matter the effort and the fact that nothing seems to be working quickly takes over...

    If it is just nerves I find relaxing, closing your eyes, slowing your breathing and just letting your self connect with him feel your skin next to his, listen to his heartbeat and his breathing never fails to solve the issue at hand.


    If that fails I'm told a pill exists for such occasions
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    Apr 27, 2008 7:58 PM GMT
    zimatar said[quote][cite]swpdxguy said[/cite]I need photos of said "hunk" first to access the situation.. icon_wink.gif
    Now more seriously - did you have anything to drink? Sometimes having too much to drink has that effect...icon_mad.gif

    No, as a matter of fact I was completely sober at the time! I know how it works for me: I can only either be tipsy or 'poppered' (one or the other).
    Anyway, since you ask, I nicked this from his facebook! he he
    [url]Photobucket[/url][/quote]

    WOW! I think you should try for a "round 2" - he is definately worth it!