I Did'nt steal your boyfriend......

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    Jan 11, 2008 5:41 PM GMT
    Simply put, one of my friends just broke up with his boyfriend of 7 months. The ex and I hung out last night, and I had to leave because I knew it was about to get hot and heavy. We were watching tv and then the conversation quickly turned to sex. Would it be wrong of me?????icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 11, 2008 6:20 PM GMT
    i would say too quickly yes it would be a problem. in a few months it would be different. It also depends on good of friends you are with the guy.
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    Jan 11, 2008 6:22 PM GMT
    Define "just" broke up. That could make all the difference.

    And...hate to say this, but it depends on the ex-boyfriend's character and the circumstances of the breakup, too. Any guy I even talk to is practically marked for death by the ex I broke up with back in September...still. icon_rolleyes.gif

  • BlackJock79

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    Jan 11, 2008 6:36 PM GMT
    Hell no it wouldn't be wrong. You're both adults and so is your friend. He'll get over it. Let me stop playin, that would be kinda fucked up depending on how close you two are. But I would probably fuck him anyway and just not tell your friend. It could be a secret between you two... but if I were your friend and found out I would be PISSED. So bottom line... if you two are really good friends then don't cross the line of sleeping with his ex and if you do make sure it stays between the ex and you. If you two are ok friends then screw the ex. I realize this makes no sense after I typed it all. LOL
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    Jan 11, 2008 7:46 PM GMT
    problem with doin the dirty and keepin it secret, is the secret might mean more to you than to the ex. he could use it against your friend sometime if they don't have the best relationship now that broken up.
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    Jan 11, 2008 9:09 PM GMT
    Yes, it would be wrong, terribly wrong on many levels!

    Friends before a fuck!
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    Jan 11, 2008 9:52 PM GMT
    How would your friend feel about and how would you feel if he did this to you?

    I think you already know the answer. Would you tell your freind what happen?

    That's his ex and ex's are always off limits.
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    Jan 11, 2008 10:08 PM GMT
    i totaly agree wit ducky!

    you never ever have sex with a friends ex! if you have any respect for your friend you would know that this is a very uncomfortable time for him and you should suport him in his time of pain.

    the sex and hookup might just last for a while but a friendship can last a lifetime...
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    Jan 11, 2008 11:02 PM GMT
    I would have taken the "grown up" approach....
    No.
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    Jan 11, 2008 11:03 PM GMT
    If you were my mate and you did that to me Id cut your bollocks off then feed them to ya!

    That is no kind of a friend to even think like that
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    Jan 12, 2008 8:26 AM GMT
    I knew his ex before they went out, but we never being friends. I would call us aquantences(jeez i really cannot spell right now)!!!!!! Still I understand that it would be fucked up of me thats why Im steering clear of the ex. I mean the reason they broke up was bcause my friend drank too much, and cheated on him....hmmmmmm DECISONS,DECISONS. just playingicon_razz.gif