Ever had a guy keep looking at your profile and never said hi?

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    Jan 26, 2010 2:10 PM GMT
    Not that I'm singling anyone out or anything.icon_lol.gif


    But have you? Do you think it's funny?
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    Jan 26, 2010 2:18 PM GMT
    Yes, in fact. Funny? Well, we've never thought of it that way.

    It's a compliment, and often the person looking is shy. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 26, 2010 2:34 PM GMT
    No.

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    Jan 26, 2010 2:35 PM GMT
    I avoid doing that to people (I mean, unless the profile keeps changing the main pic and I don't recognize it as the same guy...), but I can understand liking someone's pics but not caring enough to initiate a conversation. Such conversations are usually mechanical.
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    Jan 26, 2010 2:36 PM GMT
    why all it means is that they like what they see so they keep coming back to look icon_smile.gif ....maybe too shy to start 1st so you should do it instead....or maybe it's not more then some show & tell with their friends icon_biggrin.gif.....in my case, I found a lot of guys will not say hi because they can't see my face....but they still come by to look at my pecs icon_eek.gif ...and I'm fine with that icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 26, 2010 2:41 PM GMT
    Yes. And I'm one of them! I hope you guys don't mind. I think It's better than looking at profiles anonymously, at least I show my face! Then maybe next time I'll say hi. icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 26, 2010 2:41 PM GMT
    Sometimes they keep coming by to look cos they want a good laugh...icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 26, 2010 2:42 PM GMT
    I only choose not to say hi to the ones I plan on stalking and eating
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    Jan 26, 2010 2:44 PM GMT
    HotTamale saidYes. And I'm one of them! I hope you guys don't mind. I think It's better than looking at profiles anonymously, at least I show my face! Then maybe next time I'll say hi. icon_redface.gif



    It's such a great face, too! Love that smile. icon_smile.gif

  • Celticmusl

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    Jan 26, 2010 2:45 PM GMT
    Eh.....I look at a lot of folk's profiles, maybe I've looked at them before, I don't know. I'm not a stalker, I'm a peeper.

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    Jan 26, 2010 2:46 PM GMT
    Yeah it happens but I don't really mind and I guess I do a little bit of it myself. A lot of guys are shy and might not have much to say icon_smile.gif

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    Jan 26, 2010 2:49 PM GMT
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    HotTamale saidYes. And I'm one of them! I hope you guys don't mind. I think It's better than looking at profiles anonymously, at least I show my face! Then maybe next time I'll say hi. icon_redface.gif



    It's such a great face, too! Love that smile. icon_smile.gif



    Well thank you sir. I probably looked at your profile quite a number of times before but never said hi. Let me take this opportunity and say "Hi!" icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 26, 2010 2:51 PM GMT
    HotTamale said
    djdorchester said
    HotTamale saidYes. And I'm one of them! I hope you guys don't mind. I think It's better than looking at profiles anonymously, at least I show my face! Then maybe next time I'll say hi. icon_redface.gif



    It's such a great face, too! Love that smile. icon_smile.gif



    Well thank you sir. I probably looked at your profile quite a number of times before but never said hi. Let me take this opportunity and say "Hi!" icon_biggrin.gif



    On no... what? Did you just call me sir? I'm never looking at your profile again!

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    Jan 26, 2010 2:52 PM GMT
    Satyricon331 saidI avoid doing that to people (I mean, unless the profile keeps changing the main pic and I don't recognize it as the same guy...), but I can understand liking someone's pics but not caring enough to initiate a conversation. Such conversations are usually mechanical.


    It'd probably look like this:

    ---- FROM RandomInternetGuy Jan 26, 2010 at 12:00 AM

    Hi,

    I looked at your pictures. Kthxbye.

    RandomInternetGuy
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    Jan 26, 2010 2:59 PM GMT
    Sedative said
    Satyricon331 saidI avoid doing that to people (I mean, unless the profile keeps changing the main pic and I don't recognize it as the same guy...), but I can understand liking someone's pics but not caring enough to initiate a conversation. Such conversations are usually mechanical.


    It'd probably look like this:

    ---- FROM RandomInternetGuy Jan 26, 2010 at 12:00 AM

    Hi,

    I looked at your pictures. Kthxbye.

    RandomInternetGuy


    True icon_smile.gif although djdorchester seems determined to provide a counterexample.
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    Jan 26, 2010 3:01 PM GMT
    djdorchester said
    HotTamale said
    djdorchester said
    HotTamale saidYes. And I'm one of them! I hope you guys don't mind. I think It's better than looking at profiles anonymously, at least I show my face! Then maybe next time I'll say hi. icon_redface.gif



    It's such a great face, too! Love that smile. icon_smile.gif



    Well thank you sir. I probably looked at your profile quite a number of times before but never said hi. Let me take this opportunity and say "Hi!" icon_biggrin.gif



    On no... what? Did you just call me sir? I'm never looking at your profile again!

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    Oh no I dee-in't! Let me rephrase... Well thank you (insert text here). icon_mad.gif
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    Jan 26, 2010 3:15 PM GMT
    HotTamale said
    djdorchester said
    HotTamale said
    djdorchester said
    HotTamale saidYes. And I'm one of them! I hope you guys don't mind. I think It's better than looking at profiles anonymously, at least I show my face! Then maybe next time I'll say hi. icon_redface.gif



    It's such a great face, too! Love that smile. icon_smile.gif



    Well thank you sir. I probably looked at your profile quite a number of times before but never said hi. Let me take this opportunity and say "Hi!" icon_biggrin.gif



    On no... what? Did you just call me sir? I'm never looking at your profile again!

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    Oh no I dee-in't! Let me rephrase... Well thank you (insert text here). icon_mad.gif


    good greef, you 2 just get a room alreadyicon_lol.gif
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    Jan 26, 2010 3:16 PM GMT
    Yep. He still does even after I reached out to him and gave a friendly greeting. This has been going on for over a year.

    Oh the other interesting thing was on his profile all of his pictures were body shots...nice torso and legs...icon_lol.gif

    He's still a peeper! I just chalk it up to the fact that he's young enough to be my son....lmao!

    It was kind of creepy in the begining. 8-)
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    Jan 26, 2010 3:23 PM GMT
    yes, I'm guilty. I'm a bit new to RJ and find the topics great, sometimes I return to the mbrs profile after reading some thread. Liltanker has a few hits from me. icon_redface.gif If a members has concerns I'd rather they send an IM or email requesting that I stop. icon_wink.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jan 26, 2010 3:38 PM GMT
    Yeah, I've had it happen a number of times. It doesn't bother me particularly unless it gets totally excessive.
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    Jan 26, 2010 3:56 PM GMT
    I think looking without saying anything is not a problem. Repeat views, I send an email to the viewer to see what's up.

    What bugs me is leaving a message (or two) and getting no reply. I mean, why put a profile up on a site and then turn a cold shoulder?
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Jan 26, 2010 4:07 PM GMT
    Yes but who cares?
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    Jan 26, 2010 4:11 PM GMT
    Yes, and I wish he would say hello....
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    Jan 26, 2010 4:12 PM GMT
    Uh yeah, had a few regular stalkers for a bit. I did see it as sorta creepy because I was suprised to see the same person viewing me regularly but never saying anything.
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    Jan 26, 2010 4:14 PM GMT
    People come to my profile to look at my beautiful eyes, and the photo of me wrapping my thighs and calves around a guy's neck and squeezing until he passes out in my crotch. icon_lol.gif