Some guys just cannot find the hole

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    Jan 28, 2010 12:42 AM GMT
    Ok so i am not a very experienced bottom at all and i am trying to get more experience and really get into it.

    So last week i bottomed for 3 different guys. Ok i am still very tight and not very relaxed at all but each of these 'tops' just kept poking at my hole or where they thought my hole was and none of them ever looked down or used their hand to open me up or guide themselves in.

    The poking hurt more than the penetration and did nothing to get me at all relaxed and at least 2 of them were just stabbing hoping to find the hole and they were nowhere near.

    Alot of guys have commented on what a good top i am and now i am beginning to believe them if most tops are like those guys i encountered who just stab around and have no technique.
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    Jan 28, 2010 1:21 AM GMT
    Yeah it's embarrassing, then you get frustrated so you guide their cock for them and they are still TOO EAGER and continue to miss.

    Always should start off nice and slow...
  • Timbales

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    Jan 28, 2010 1:25 AM GMT
    I've never had a problem finding the hole, but I do like teasing it before sliding it in.
  • Timbales

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    Jan 28, 2010 1:25 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidFortunately, I am a bit of a sure shot when I comes to insertion.
    As far as you being too tight.. why on earth did none of the three guys give you an awesome rim job and use their fingers gently to get you turned on first?
    There is a true art to topping. A few days ago, I was topping and my partner came in about 15 seconds flat!
    A bit of a let down for me since I was just getting in nice and deep about then.
    I was making sure not to hurt the guy,, but my gentleness also made him so relaxed that once I was in deep and started some good rhythm, he prematurely came buckets all over his chest.. It was HOT but also over just when I was starting to love it.
    So,,, it was an extended Kiss while I came instead...icon_rolleyes.gif


    i'd have let you finish.
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    Jan 28, 2010 2:55 PM GMT
    This thread reminded me of Rugrats for some reason.


    Ducky go down the holeeee
  • rnch

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    Jan 28, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    Timberoo said
    TheGuyNextDoor saidFortunately, I am a bit of a sure shot when I comes to insertion.
    As far as you being too tight.. why on earth did none of the three guys give you an awesome rim job and use their fingers gently to get you turned on first?
    There is a true art to topping. A few days ago, I was topping and my partner came in about 15 seconds flat!
    A bit of a let down for me since I was just getting in nice and deep about then.
    I was making sure not to hurt the guy,, but my gentleness also made him so relaxed that once I was in deep and started some good rhythm, he prematurely came buckets all over his chest.. It was HOT but also over just when I was starting to love it.
    So,,, it was an extended Kiss while I came instead...icon_rolleyes.gif


    i'd have let you finish.
    after all that foreplay and rimming and fingering and slow insertion...i would make sure that you "finish"! you and my bf must be brothers? icon_cool.gif
  • drypin

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    Jan 28, 2010 4:07 PM GMT
    Owenowen,

    That completely describes my experience with inexperienced tops. Being poked three times, like on Facebook.
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    Jan 28, 2010 4:44 PM GMT
    Oh my virgin ears are bleeding... please. Continue. lol
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    Jun 11, 2010 7:16 PM GMT
    Sonds like they asumed yo are experienced bottom and they can just go poke around your ass area. For beginners you do need to be relaxed by the right top that knows how to finger your ass gently and relax your behind before any pounding occurs.
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    Jun 11, 2010 10:19 PM GMT
    OMG This happens to me all the time and with experienced tops too. I read somewhere that different persons have the hole in different places, sometimes the hole's closer to the balls, etc.

    It's kinda funny cuz they're trying to penetrate me and I'm like hey, that's not where it is, and I have to guide them hahaha