At least finding a date

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    Jan 29, 2010 2:29 AM GMT
    Okay I'm sure I'm going to get flamed for this at some point but hell I need advice.
    I've been trying to meet some one for a long time and it hasnt gotten me much of anywhere.
    Its hard to find gay guys close to my age in this town, and travle isn't a real option for me. I havnt found a dating web site thats worth the time and I'm starting to think there arnt any.

    I know I'm young but at the same time, who wants spend the teen years all alone, taking a bunch of one night satnds as the best they can get?

    Okay so yeah I'm whining alot here but if anybody can give me a few words of advise it would really meal alot.

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    Jan 29, 2010 11:55 AM GMT
    I could understand your want for a close relationship, but sometimes don't you think it might be worth the wait?

    Heh, this reminds me of a time when I was in high school and I'd see every couple around me (because I never had a boyfriend until a week after I turned 18 and I was going into college then) and get so upset because I didn't know how to find something like that. Eventually, a close relationship came to me and for that I'm thankful.

    Perhaps the point I'm trying to make is that maybe it would be a good idea to put the focus on you rather than what you do not have. I can't remember exactly when, but eventually I got into the mindset of "I don't need to be with anyone to be really happy. I love and appreciate all the awesomeness ( I KNOW IT'S NOT A WORD DON"T JUDGE ME) in myself!"

    I know I could tell you all this stuff alllllll day, but you'll probably still want a relationship. I sincerely hope that you find a great person to share your time with and someone that appreciates what you do for them. You deserve it, right?