Ever look at a guy's profile and they are SO HOT you wouldn't have a clue how to approach them?

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    Jan 29, 2010 4:56 AM GMT
    Man, I wonder how many guys realize how hot and attractive they are. I am floored by the guys on this site. Then again, I've heard some guys don't know how handsome they are even if you tell them. It's just so damn hard to figure this all out, isn't it.icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 29, 2010 5:22 AM GMT
    Some guys I wont approach, not simply because they are "to hot" but because I just don't see much that makes me want to contact them on here, it could be a multitude of reasons, from there profile being uninteresting, there profile having things that make me go cold or there photos not showing much of who they are as a person, in a photo a person can show a great deal of them self, from there facial expression the look in there eyes, there stance, all those good things.
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    Jan 29, 2010 5:41 AM GMT
    i think some guys are often aware that though they may be the hottest thing in the whole realm, there's always that fucking "Snow White" somewhere ruining their assurance and confidence.

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    reading the thread's title i now understand why nobody ever contacts me. icon_rolleyes.gif



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    Jan 29, 2010 6:00 AM GMT
    To be honest....Very few , if anyone in life or on this site, intimidate me physically to the point of shying away from saying hi or something friendly to them.... but then again, my personality is one of honesty and integrity and self-confidence.... If you piss me off, you will know it directly, Pro or Con....I don't have a "poker face" so I play it straight all the time with people.
    Their is more to "Beauty" than what you see on the surface, and the beauty or ugliness, can shine through in many ways, which can be as, or more, important that the way they look.......icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 29, 2010 6:10 AM GMT
    No.
  • rileystheman

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    Jan 29, 2010 6:16 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidThere's lots of guys here that I am way too intimidated to say hello to.
    I'm much better at answering email than starting them.
    That said, I certainly don't mind passing along a heartfelt compliment.


    Agreed.

    What I like about this site is...sure, there's a lot to look at, but god damn it's nice to find a hot, smart guy from time to time, and there are plenty on here.

    It definitely intimidates too, though.
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    Jan 29, 2010 6:17 AM GMT
    well, i would generally talk to or approach anyone online. but in person is a WHOLE other matter. i'm not good with approaching anyone in person, (as in, i dont do it), let alone someone really hot.

  • drypin

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    Jan 29, 2010 6:44 AM GMT
    Not online, no. I know on the inside I'm as beautiful as anyone else here, so the outside is just lovelier wrapping. In person, though I'll admit that a few people are so attractive I'd be tongue-tied.
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    Jan 29, 2010 6:47 AM GMT
    One of the things I try to do on here (because it's easier) is to develop the habit of complimenting people when I think they're attractive/smart/funny/etc. so that I develop comfort with doing the same thing in reality. I mean honestly, is there anyone who doesn't feel better after someone compliments them?

    And then of course there's this - watch from 3:20 on:



    "You are what you love, not what loves you. That's what I decided a long time ago." Or as one of my more interesting friends says, there is always the dynamic of the lover and the beloved. Often we forget that it is the lover who holds the upper hand.
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    Jan 29, 2010 6:49 AM GMT
    I take my risks and approach them. I mean come on! What's the worst that can happen? A good conversation starter:

    Hey I'm _____, Nice to meet you. What you been up to?

    Always works, and if they don't reply... well, its all on them. Its rude.


    You can never say never. I've tried it and already i've become pretty close to a lot of guys i would have never imagined being pretty close with.
  • Little_Spoon

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    Jan 29, 2010 6:50 AM GMT
    I hate Nicholas Cage....
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    Jan 29, 2010 6:50 AM GMT
    Uh yeah. Like, all the time.
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    Jan 29, 2010 6:53 AM GMT
    I think he's generally awful because somehow, in this improbable world, he's become an action star. However in this movie he shines, and genuinely deserved whatever awards he got for it.

    His ability to muster self-contempt, and the way in which it seems so natural, and somehing we suspect must deeply lie within the actor himself, makes the movie just that much more engaging. Not that the excellent writing wouldn't have done that already.

    DanielH saidI hate Nicholas Cage....
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  • Little_Spoon

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    Jan 29, 2010 6:55 AM GMT
    Is it just me, or can he not cry? Like, for camera.
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    Jan 29, 2010 6:57 AM GMT
    Nope. If I like what I see in a person's profile then approaching them is easy. A simple "hello" works wonders. It also helps to read their profile to maybe get an idea about what to chat with them about. Sometimes their pix tell enough about them to where you can spark up a conversation.

    I don't have a problem making the first move. After that's done the ball is in their court and if they choose to reply then cool but if not then I'm not gonna sweat it.
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    Jan 29, 2010 6:57 AM GMT
    Different people, in real life, cry in different ways. Just like people laugh differently. Not everyone has Tammy Faye tears streaming down their face replete with mascara.

    DanielH saidIs it just me, or can he not cry? Like, for camera.
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    Jan 29, 2010 6:59 AM GMT
    WITH OVEN MITTS!!
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    Jan 29, 2010 9:27 AM GMT
    wushu18t saidWITH OVEN MITTS!!


    Haha, or these gloves?

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    Jan 29, 2010 9:30 AM GMT
    No need to be afraid....we all have our ugly moments.....
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    Jan 29, 2010 9:35 AM GMT
    abelian0 saidOne of the things I try to do on here (because it's easier) is to develop the habit of complimenting people when I think they're attractive/smart/funny/etc. so that I develop comfort with doing the same thing in reality. I mean honestly, is there anyone who doesn't feel better after someone compliments them?

    And then of course there's this - watch from 3:20 on:



    "You are what you love, not what loves you. That's what I decided a long time ago." Or as one of my more interesting friends says, there is always the dynamic of the lover and the beloved. Often we forget that it is the lover who holds the upper hand.


    GREAT quote!!!! i love that movie
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    Jan 29, 2010 9:49 AM GMT
    DanielH saidI hate Nicholas Cage....
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    try harrison ford
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    Jan 29, 2010 10:17 AM GMT
    That is Han Solo *and* Indiana Jones you are talking about there. Come on! Geez.

    jrs1 said
    DanielH saidI hate Nicholas Cage....
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    try harrison ford
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    Jan 29, 2010 10:37 AM GMT
    i won't approach guys i know [or think ] im not their type.
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    Jan 29, 2010 11:13 AM GMT
    All. The. Time.
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    Jan 29, 2010 11:17 AM GMT
    mmm, there are a lot of handsome guys on this site.

    I just like staying in my comfort zone, though. Secretly and literally I sometimes say "Why the hell do these people have to be so HOT?!"

    rhetoric nonsense I know icon_redface.gif