getting POUNDED with a condom [need help]

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    Jan 29, 2010 10:30 AM GMT
    Me and my old boyfriend where together for 2 years. We got tested together and being monogamous, we decided to stop using condoms. We are verse and took turns and he enjoyed being POUNDED while I enjoyed just a normal to somewhat heavy thrusting.

    We both sometimes got sore and had to take a break so it was no big deal. Never had any bleeding or tears even when we got in the moment and just used some spit/

    Now back on the dating scene, I've hooked up with some bottoms and decided I wanted to get fucked rather then just topping.

    Recently, I have been starting to see a guy regularly and we are verse so we decided to flip flop and while the condom didn't burn/hurt as much after a few minutes, I did take it rather hard when he was close to cumming. Now, this was in fact, a little less then the hardest I've been fuck.

    When we finished and I was cleaning myself, I felt a sting and so I asked him to check it out and it turns out, I got some tears in my ass from the sex.

    Now, I have two questions for everyone...

    1. Why is it condoms sometimes burn? I use EROS lube and am NOT allergic to latex. Sometimes the condom burns and other times, it feels fine. What's up with that? And yes, I always make sure the top uses LOTS of lube.

    2. I've been a bottom with my LTB/F and we stop using condoms and no matter how little lube/spit we used or how hard I got fucked, I never got a cut, tear, or bleed. I got sore but nothing else so I am wondering, is there a limit to exactly how hard ANYONE can get fucked with a condom?

    I'd like to hear feedback from verse guys since [and yes, I am assuming] that bottom guys have better control of their anus and thus, I doubt they have issues with condoms but by all means, if you have any help, please do.
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    Jan 30, 2010 3:39 AM GMT
    This is something you should be asking your doctor icon_idea.gif not a bunch of guys who like to either pound or get pounded or both.
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    Jan 30, 2010 3:02 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidBeing a large TOP,, I'll tell you that it's all about friction and yes,, condoms will cause that when the top has fucked you too long and hard... fast pounding just increases this friction especially if he has some decent girth.... slow down and get your man to cum sooner.. make sure he has a decent amount of lube in the condom as well so he can feel just as good as you.
    long lasting silicone based lube works SO much better than water based lube for condom covered sex (for me). icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 31, 2010 5:38 PM GMT
    thanks for the replies guys. i am wondering though if tears are less frequent without condoms though
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    Feb 01, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    Experiment with different condoms and lube. Maybe you do have a latex allergy. You say that you do not, but I am not sure how you would know that for certain without being tested. Polyurethane condoms are just as strong, thiner so your lover can feel it better, and are compatible with very long lasting oil based lubes.

    You might also be interested in a female condom. Guys think they are weird, but they are tops.
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    Feb 01, 2010 3:44 AM GMT
    well how big is he compared to your last boyfriend?

    That could be a the reason why your ass got torn. His dick could be wider than your boyfriend.
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    Feb 02, 2010 8:31 PM GMT
    my last guy was 8 inches and the guy with the condom was like 9