Questions you ask on a first date!

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    Jan 31, 2010 12:57 AM GMT
    Are there any questions you routinely ask when you go out on a first date and why do you ask those questions? What are those questions?
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    Jan 31, 2010 1:21 AM GMT
    Anything that requires an open-ended answer.

    - what do you do for work and how did you get into it?

    - what was your major in college and how did you choose it?

    - favourite holiday destination and why?

    - last movie you saw?

    - last concert you went to?

    The point of a date (in my view) is to learn about them, see what you have in common, and decide whether you want to see them again.
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    Jan 31, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    Hey, CONGRATS ON BEING MOTD!! Just had to shout that, lol.

    well, let's see...when I met Bill I asked him what time his name was and he asked how long I weighed, then we put pancakes on our heads...icon_wink.gif


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  • WILDCARD73

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    Jan 31, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    depends on what you are looking for
    a bf
    or a temp thing
    or just a fun thing

    if its a bf, its an interview.....lol
    and all the time people let you know what they are and looking for on first date, keep your ears open....
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    Jan 31, 2010 1:27 AM GMT
    I may ask my date about
    What he does for a living? What is he passionate about?
    What kind of music, movies or art he likes? Ask him what he has read lately?
    general stuff, nothing too personal.
    I absolutely hate it when guys ask me really personal questions like, how many guys I have dated, ask about my family, or ....... I am not going to talk to total strangers about my personal life on a first date!!!!
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    Jan 31, 2010 1:28 AM GMT
    I demand to see a Dun & Bradstreet report / I want portfolio and account status:

    I want to know if he's cut or uncut - and I better get the right answer or I'm outta there pronto:

    I demand to know what his intentions are for our future:

    I demand to know what my allowance is gonna be:

    I want his take on three-ways:

    I want to know if he will freak out if I keep my ex around:








    Just Kidding with you all!
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    Jan 31, 2010 1:29 AM GMT
    too many questions might ruin your date. maybe at least three good questions.
  • WILDCARD73

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    Jan 31, 2010 1:35 AM GMT
    best dates are when you do an activity
    never go to coffee or dinner, BOOOOO RING.. and neer to a gay bar...LAAAMEEEE

    you need to see your man in action , interacting, talking to people....
    museums, concert, just dont stare at each other, activities are best to know a person
  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 31, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    What size feet do you have? icon_wink.gif
  • RSportsguy

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    Jan 31, 2010 3:16 AM GMT
    malefeet saidWhat size feet do you have? icon_wink.gif


    What's your second one Malefeet? Are you ticklish?icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 31, 2010 3:22 AM GMT
    I have a story of being a whore. Does that bother you? icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 31, 2010 3:24 AM GMT
    RSportsguy said
    malefeet saidWhat size feet do you have? icon_wink.gif


    What's your second one Malefeet? Are you ticklish?icon_wink.gif

    lol
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    Jan 31, 2010 3:34 AM GMT
    For some reason I find myself asking guys if they like horror films... and if they don't the date never really seems to go well... hmmicon_question.gif
  • JP85257

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    Jan 31, 2010 3:57 AM GMT
    Wanna fuck?
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    Jan 31, 2010 4:26 AM GMT
    Who's gonna be the bitchicon_eek.gif
  • B71115

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    Jan 31, 2010 4:29 AM GMT
    Just the tip?
  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 31, 2010 4:30 AM GMT
    RSportsguy said
    malefeet saidWhat size feet do you have? icon_wink.gif


    What's your second one Malefeet? Are you ticklish?icon_wink.gif



    Of course...get it out in the open first thing.....You'd be surprised how quickly another guy will open up with his own interests and so on...after the initial embarrassment passes....icon_wink.gif
  • Celticmusl

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    Jan 31, 2010 4:45 AM GMT
    Coffee is fine for a first "date". Very safe.

    Too many questions make you sound like the The Riddler or something...."Riddle me this!". After the third date with one guy, after he knew everything about me, and challenged me on how I handled life situations....I dreaded going on a fourth date with him. Everything else about the guy I liked, I just couldn't handle another inquisition.
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    Jan 31, 2010 4:58 AM GMT
    credit score?
  • Iluros

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    Jan 31, 2010 5:04 AM GMT
    I usually try to talk normally without asking questions in an organized fashion. Someone who just asks question after question makes for very awkward conversation on my end, so I'll only ask if I'm really curious about something that comes up while talking.
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    Jan 31, 2010 5:29 AM GMT
    Name. Rank. Serial Number.

    Good grief. Who decided that all of a sudden, a first date has to be like a nazi interrogation?
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    Jan 31, 2010 5:30 AM GMT
    Questions you ask on a first date!

    - Are you the police?
    - Are you contagious?
    - Do you have any outstanding warrants on you?
    - Can you count how many fingers I'm holding up?
    - Are you wearing mostly your own clothes?
    - Do you wanna try answering the finger count question again?
    - Do those teeth come out?
    - The answer was four, but you pass for knowing one of them wasn't my thumb.
    - Does your driver's license clearly state you're a male?
    - Do you now, or have you ever owned a comb? (Omit for bald guys)
    - Will you need bus fare to get home, or can you hitch-hike?
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    Jan 31, 2010 5:48 AM GMT
    Who are you?

    How did I get here?

    Why do I have a splitting headache?

    Where are my pants?

    Why does my ass hurt?

    Why are you laughing as you put away that video camera?

    Seriously, where are my pants?



    --- wait, was this first date, or first date-rape? I get confused. Seriously, where are my pants?
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    Jan 31, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    MeOhMy saidWho are you?

    How did I get here?

    Why do I have a splitting headache?

    Where are my pants?

    Why does my ass hurt?

    Why are you laughing as you put away that video camera?

    Seriously, where are my pants?

    --- wait, was this first date, or first date-rape? I get confused. Seriously, where are my pants?

    Actually I thought these were supposed to be questions for the beginning of the date, whereas yours are suitable for when the date concludes, or is broken up by the police or concerned citizens, whichever the case may be.
  • victor8

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    Jan 31, 2010 6:00 AM GMT
    whats a first date?