Question for you TOPS out there

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    May 16, 2007 8:52 PM GMT
    Wondering what in your opinion - makes a great bottom guy? What does he do that really turns you on or feels really good?
  • BlackJock79

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    May 17, 2007 12:29 AM GMT
    That's a good question... one of my main things is a CLEAN ASS!!! I can't stress that enough, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE rimming and only about 3 of the bottoms I've been with have been really clean. If I can smell anything I'm turned off. I know, I know, what do I expect an asshole to smell like but let me tell you about this one bottom who on my list is #1. I have no clue what he did to his ass... but it was the best ever. I would go over to his house just to eat his ass, I wouldn't need to do anything else. He LOVED it, his eyes rolled to the back of his head and he moaned the whole time. That was a serious turn on. I was recently with a bottom who was such a firecracker in bed. He was bouncing on my dick like no other, it was crazy because I had never had a bottom do so much with his ass. He really put in some work, it was almost like he was fucking me.
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    May 18, 2007 11:30 PM GMT
    My preference is for masculine guys. Not cocky but self-confident. Respectfully outgoing, not self-absorbed, pushy or theatrical. Trusting but not needy. Deep voice, rugged looks (facial hair etc.), lean/defined body all can help, but bulky muscle is not my thing.

    Oh, one more thing: the bottom needs to be aware of what the top is doing and follow the rhythm, much like what should happen in a ballroom dancing couple.
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    May 28, 2007 7:46 PM GMT
    Great question, For me it would have to be a clean ass first and foremost. I think its just a show of self-respect and respect for the other person. Especially, if the guy had time to clean up and did not do so.

    Then for me a guy has to be actively partipating and not just laying there. I like a guy to flexes his, be verbal and really get into.
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    May 28, 2007 8:30 PM GMT
    Well first of all I'm not a top let's make that clear! But this topic did interest me. I do agree that an active bottom makes his top happy. But I end up finding a lot of tops that look to take a almost completely dominate side during sex. I like that don't get me wrong, but it doesn't leave me with much to do. I mean the tops I have been with recently like me to almost just lay there and take it, they put me in all those different angles and stuff which I love, but they kind of just hold me in place.

    Which is fine, I'm not much for dirty talk, though I have been known to moan loud enough to wake the people next door. Its fine if the top doesn't want me to be more active during the sex, hell I'm feeling good either way. However, during the foreplay is where I think I and a lot of bottoms shine. I've been told by more than one guy that I give damn good head! So I think that more then makes up for them not really letting me move during sex lol
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    May 28, 2007 11:44 PM GMT
    fabians makes some very good points. Foreplay and afterplay can make a big difference.
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    May 29, 2007 10:55 PM GMT
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    Jun 05, 2007 11:13 PM GMT
    CLEAN IS A MUST. ANY smell and I go limp. Totally, it's over. I like to be in total control, directing all activity and position. I like a guy to be verbal but not hollering out "fuck me." Call your ass a 'pussy' and we've got problems.

    If you are on your back you may be instructed to hold your own legs. I actually prefer to have my bottom belly down and i lay on top of him like on a surf board and nail him, watching some porn. Mirrors are very very fun, too.

    If you do poppers don't expect me to hold still for a moment while you unscrew the cap, that's your issue. I don't like poppers so I'll fuck away and if you spill them oh well.

    Bottoms are responsible for supplying the lube, condoms, towels, their own poppers if they want them, porn, set the mirrors up, my beverage etc. No smoking when I'm there. They clean the room up afterwards.

    I fuck masculine men only, no twinks. If they are hot I'll blow them afterwards otherwise it's thier reponsibility to get off. If they cum too quickly, oh well, I'm not stopping or pulling out till I'm damn good and ready, or we don't fuck again. I do like smaller guys, easier to hang onto and thrust deep inside.

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    Jun 19, 2007 4:33 PM GMT
    After munching on a dirty ass, I have kept mine clean nearly 24/7. If I can't wash my ass in a sink, I'll use handiwipes. I love being rimmed so much, I would never want anyone to go down there and try to give me a dirty kiss afterwards.

    I also highly recommend douching before a hook-up. I have a shower shot in my bathroom and I'll use it until the water runs clean. Then I'll lube up the chute and I'm good to go. Prevents messy condoms.

    Having starting out as a top, and after a while taking it both ways, in my opinion the best tops have bottomed. I never learned so much about being a good top until I took it up the ass a few times.

    I have fun being an aggressive bottom, so I enjoy meeting one when I am the top. I think bottoms who can creatively be active are the best. Don't just lay there, have fun!
  • metlboy

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    Jul 03, 2007 6:18 AM GMT
    TuzaHu: So much for fucking masculine men, I'd say any guy who puts up with all of that is a bitch.


    As for the original post, no squirrely bottoms! Don't try to thrust against the rhythm or do anything crazy.
  • bigguysf

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    Jul 03, 2007 6:58 AM GMT
    Besides just the logistical stuff of being ready to get fucked, and knowing your limits (if you say you can handle 8.5x6 then you better be able to handle it), the biggest turn-on for me is a bottom who will trust me to do my thing i.e. make sure that we both have the best fuck of our lives!

    I hooked up with one guy this year who totally had his own story and agenda going from the moment I walked in the door. He could have been using a dildo for all it mattered. After about 10 minutes I said "this isn't working for me", and left. He kinda got it when he asked if he was doing too much and being too pushy (I said yes).

    I'm not all about control or anything, but I know that if a bottom trusts that I will take care of them and give them the best fuck of their life (because doing that really turns me on), it will be an amazing experience for both of us. If I have to do a battle of wills from the time I walk in the door, it's not worth the effort, or either of our time.

    To be fair though, I've heard many stories about jerk tops who could give a shit about the bottom and only care about getting their dick off, even if they are hurting a guy. Makes it harder for the good guys like me.
  • Lincsbear

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    Jul 04, 2007 6:06 PM GMT
    A relaxed,masculine,confident guy;clean,ready for lots of foreplay,play generally,lots of variety,etc.
  • Rowing_Ant

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    Jul 05, 2007 9:16 AM GMT
    Oh yeah. Need to be CLEAN both in and out and not too hairy.

    A masculine guy with toned buns and a strong pelvic floor etc so he can change how tight he grips your cock etc. and knows what he's doing, wants to take it and takes part in sex, not just lying there taking it as that gets boring. Mind you there are times when a guy just lies there and takes it like a jack hammer. growl. lol.

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    Sep 26, 2007 12:05 PM GMT
    I prefer an active bottom - switching positions can be fun (I don't want to do all the work, LOL).

    Biggest turn on? Timing it right so we both cum at the same time.
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    Sep 26, 2007 7:09 PM GMT

    Clean that's the first ... then smooth, tender and yet masculine guy who want it so badly and have the passion ... that's the biggest turn on .... oh and dirty talk just makes it hotter than fire!
  • cdnclub

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    Sep 27, 2007 4:53 PM GMT
    my favourite kind of bottom is one that likes to top as well...taking turns is what does it for me icon_smile.gif
  • lwyer

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    Nov 03, 2016 7:12 PM GMT
    I agree I have top a lot but wanted to be fucked and found I love it. Now when I top I'm slow like wiggle my cock in their hole and switch up pumping fast then slow and ready to cum push all the way in hold it twitch my cock as I cum then really slow pull it out. My bottom have always grab my cock suck it after seem to enjoy it. My bottom have always come back for more so guess it's good
  • NOLAman13

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    Nov 04, 2016 7:23 AM GMT
    I love to bottom so a clean ass is a must. Dick size really doesn't matter. That said, if he has a large cock, I'm not going to turn him down. I have to take it like a man and ride that fucker like a damn cowboy! (Of course, plenty of lube makes sex a helluva lot easier!) In my fantasy, I'd take it RAW and let him blow it in my ass but in real life, a condom is a must!!! I ain't gambling my life for good sex.
  • Buddha

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    Nov 04, 2016 3:01 PM GMT
    Apart from cleanliness, I like a bottom that doesn't complain too much, a bottom who can take it and trust me to get him there.
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 04, 2016 3:22 PM GMT
    I like to set the mood and I like the bottom to go with it. Sometimes it can be loving and tender, sometimes a hard fuck intended to make his eyes roll back in his head. Sometimes we make love and sometimes we just have crazy sex and laugh a lot. That sounds a bit controlling but I yield the same to the top when I bottom. And I like that, too. I guess the one exception is that the bottom ALWAYS has control of the speed of the initial entering and the top should be sensitive to direction during that.
  • AlphaPete

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    Nov 10, 2016 11:56 AM GMT
    a great bottoms has to have the same enthusiasm about using his ass as if he were an alpha top