Steamroom: erotic or gross

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    Jan 13, 2008 4:11 PM GMT
    Why do gay men find the showers and steam room erotic. I've never had the nerve to do anything, thought about it, yes [Embarrassed] but I'm just wondering what is it inside of us that makes it so alluring. Or am I the only one?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jan 13, 2008 5:05 PM GMT
    You know, I rarely have time to do the steamroom thing, I have time to do my workout and then I need to exit the gym. I (unfortunately) tend to think of it as something extra that I don't need to make the time to experience.
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    Jan 13, 2008 5:22 PM GMT
    While in there I can kind of get why its so alluring...its semi anonymous...the heat makes you sweat and sometimes that's pretty sexy...and its really validating to have someone pursue you in general. I find it gross to be in a public gym doing anything sexual but I can kinda understand the whole danger aspect coupled with the rest of what i said...not for me though haha
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    Jan 13, 2008 5:51 PM GMT
    I think the question should be the other way around. Why dont we do it in every niche and corner? The human male evolved to get it on whenever he can.

    I remember when I belonged to gyms with facilities that were designed in a way that facilitated such activities. I used to enjoy a quicky now and then. Well, it wasnt so much enjoy as it was to try to silence the entreaties to "get it on with me." Silly me! I thought that would satisfy them and then I would be left alone to sweat in peace. But, alas, there always seemed to be constant traffic in those damn saunas and steamrooms. What was a fellow to do? ... icon_eek.gif ... and you know it's true, you never forget your first ... icon_lol.gif

    Oh for heaven's sakes! Why do you think they have men's and women's facilitites. Because if you put straight people together in the same facilities, you'd come out with a whole new class of waif...bathroom babies! ... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 15, 2008 3:18 AM GMT
    I think it's because you're almost naked, and close to other men you dont know, who are also naked. Another factor is that if you've been working out, your sex drive should be up and your endorphins pumping. These guys should be relatively in shape and hot as well because they are a member of a gym.
  • Artesin

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    Jan 16, 2008 6:46 AM GMT
    Annoying, when I use the steamroom I'm usually the only one in it = /. But it would be so unhygenic to even doi anything in a steam room.
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    Jan 16, 2008 3:53 PM GMT
    erotic in theory and on gay porn,
    gross in real life.
  • cowboyathlete

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    Jan 18, 2008 3:56 PM GMT
    Even if it were hygienic and legal with hot guys, I still would not do it. I never like a room to be too hot when i make out. I was invited to a "group" once in a person's garage, but the muggy summer heat made everything wilt.
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    Jan 27, 2008 6:41 AM GMT
    Sex in gym steam rooms, etc is just piggish. Leave the gym, get a room. No one wants to sit in your jizz or butt juice. Thats what bathhouses and bookstores are for. Unless of course its jake gyllenhaal. Then its a-ok. I am a selective hypocrite.

    Nothing healthy about sitting on a bench where sweat and buttcracks and ball sacks have dripped on all day. Hot tubs are nothing but buttcrakka soup. Hot swirling water rinsing out all those loose-bottomed buttholes. You may as well go sit in a bathtub after 100 guys douched themselves in it. No thanks. icon_eek.gif
  • art_smass

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    Jan 27, 2008 6:45 AM GMT
    I can't handle the heat, so the steamroom is probably the least erotic place I can imagine.
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    Jan 30, 2008 5:11 AM GMT
    I really want to but I don't want to lose my gym membership. Guys approach me quite often but I have to turn them down.