Cute guy on Campus

  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Feb 02, 2010 5:03 PM GMT
    So I'm new to the University and there's this guy I met through some people in class and he's really cute when I talked to him it was like insta-crush and I've been wanting to ask him out on a date or to my place for dinner with some friends but every time I'm about to I get super scared or really shy and I end up looking like a creeper because I'm sure that nobody runs into some one that many times to just smile and say hello. I even got to the point that I look for him in between classes like what the fuck is wrong with me I need to get my balls in place and just ask him out but idk if he has a bf or if he's even gay I'm like 99.999999 % sure but hey now adage you never know.
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    Feb 02, 2010 5:05 PM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 saidSo I'm new to the University and there's this guy I met through some people in class and he's really cute when I talked to him it was like insta-crush and I've been wanting to ask him out on a date or to my place for dinner with some friends but every time I'm about to I get super scared or really shy and I end up looking like a creeper because I'm sure that nobody runs into some one that many times to just smile and say hello. I even got to the point that I look for him in between classes like what the fuck is wrong with me I need to get my balls in place and just ask him out but idk if he has a bf or if he's even gay I'm like 99.999999 % sure but hey now adage you never know.


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    Feb 02, 2010 5:13 PM GMT
    lol, that was one loooonnnnggggg sentence.

    We'd suggest taking your time and waiting for an opportunity to start making friends with him very casually. Just friends til you find out more about him!

    Good luck kid! icon_wink.gif

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    PD infatuation, lol. Your heart pounds and you wonder if everyone else can hear it.
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    Feb 02, 2010 6:32 PM GMT
    essentialife said
    Space_Cowboy_89 saidSo I'm new to the University and there's this guy I met through some people in class and he's really cute when I talked to him it was like insta-crush and I've been wanting to ask him out on a date or to my place for dinner with some friends but every time I'm about to I get super scared or really shy and I end up looking like a creeper because I'm sure that nobody runs into some one that many times to just smile and say hello. I even got to the point that I look for him in between classes like what the fuck is wrong with me I need to get my balls in place and just ask him out but idk if he has a bf or if he's even gay I'm like 99.999999 % sure but hey now adage you never know.


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    To mentally fucking you in the ass
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    Feb 02, 2010 6:34 PM GMT
    meninlove said lol, that was one loooonnnnggggg sentence.


    lol I Know but I'm on my iPhone and I really was not about to do all that
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    Feb 02, 2010 6:37 PM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 said
    meninlove said lol, that was one loooonnnnggggg sentence.


    lol I Know but I'm on my iPhone and I really was not about to do all that


    That's some damn skilled iPhone typing. I don't think I've ever written something that long on mine.

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    Feb 02, 2010 6:39 PM GMT
    meninlove said lol, that was one loooonnnnggggg sentence.

    We'd suggest taking your time and waiting for an opportunity to start making friends with him very casually. Just friends til you find out more about him!

    Good luck kid! icon_wink.gif

    -us

    PD infatuation, lol. Your heart pounds and you wonder if everyone else can hear it.


    Sounds like Infatuation to me too. Get to know him closely and see if you feel the same way after that.
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    Feb 02, 2010 6:43 PM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 said
    essentialife said
    Space_Cowboy_89 saidSo I'm new to the University and there's this guy I met through some people in class and he's really cute when I talked to him it was like insta-crush and I've been wanting to ask him out on a date or to my place for dinner with some friends but every time I'm about to I get super scared or really shy and I end up looking like a creeper because I'm sure that nobody runs into some one that many times to just smile and say hello. I even got to the point that I look for him in between classes like what the fuck is wrong with me I need to get my balls in place and just ask him out but idk if he has a bf or if he's even gay I'm like 99.999999 % sure but hey now adage you never know.


    What is the moral of this story? What does it aim to accomplish?



    To mentally fucking you in the ass


    LOL, that's one helluva response.
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    Feb 02, 2010 6:44 PM GMT
    just do it, and if he says no just deck him in the face and be like good im not gay anyways homo

    and walk away
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    Feb 02, 2010 6:46 PM GMT
    Longest. Sentence. Ever.
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    Feb 02, 2010 6:54 PM GMT
    waxon saidjust do it, and if he says no just deck him in the face and be like good im not gay anyways homo

    and walk away


    and PLEASEEE get that on video!
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    Feb 02, 2010 7:02 PM GMT
    I try to read things in pace to get the "Voice" of the poster.... and If you could say that sentence out loud - I will give you a medal.

    Befriend him.
    (Not just on Facebook)
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    Feb 02, 2010 7:10 PM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 saidSo I'm new to the University and there's this guy I met through some people in class and he's really cute when I talked to him it was like insta-crush and I've been wanting to ask him out on a date or to my place for dinner with some friends but every time I'm about to I get super scared or really shy and I end up looking like a creeper because I'm sure that nobody runs into some one that many times to just smile and say hello. I even got to the point that I look for him in between classes like what the fuck is wrong with me I need to get my balls in place and just ask him out but idk if he has a bf or if he's even gay I'm like 99.999999 % sure but hey now adage you never know.


    That's so cute. haha
    Well I think "dinner with some friends" sounds good. You can try that and stay with him so you can see if there's something going on beetween you two.
    It's pretty casual, it's not like you're going out on a real date, so you shouldn't panic. And being surrounded by your friends will make you feel more comfortable.
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    Feb 02, 2010 7:10 PM GMT
    Infatuation...and they don't even know you're alive. I remember the feeling well.

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    Feb 02, 2010 8:15 PM GMT
    meninlove said Infatuation...and they don't even know you're alive. I remember the feeling well.

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    Feb 02, 2010 8:16 PM GMT
    waxon saidjust do it, and if he says no just deck him in the face and be like good im not gay anyways homo

    and walk away


    hahahaha that's the best one so far lol
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    Feb 02, 2010 8:18 PM GMT
    djdorchester said
    Space_Cowboy_89 said
    meninlove said lol, that was one loooonnnnggggg sentence.


    lol I Know but I'm on my iPhone and I really was not about to do all that


    That's some damn skilled iPhone typing. I don't think I've ever written something that long on mine.




    Well my mac is getting fixed at the moment and for the past 3 months my iPhone has kept me intouch with the world so I just got really good typing on it lol
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    Feb 02, 2010 8:20 PM GMT
    you can just grab his junk next time you see him. Then he will know you are both gay and very, very interested !
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    Feb 02, 2010 8:20 PM GMT
    reppaT saidLongest. Sentence. Ever.


    maybe I should break it into sections for you guys because like I said already I did this on my iPhone and I really wasn't about o stop so that you can breath. Hey and if you read in your head you can breath and read at th same time
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    Feb 02, 2010 9:06 PM GMT
    I had the same kind of infatuation with a guy, almost certain he was interested in me the same way. the smiles, the hellos, even winks icon_eek.gif
    I interpreted it as a good chance he might be gay, but he wasn't. I think as (young) gay men we often get into a mode of wishful thinking cos the guy's just too cute.
    I spent too much time wondering, and being too shy to ask, so when I finally did tell him how I felt about him, I got so much more disappointed when he turned out to be totally straight.
    I was a year older and a public face in school, working on the school paper and being part of a lot of school events, so I guess he just sorta looked up to me in a way and wanted to befriend me. I felt sooo stupid and embarassed.

    my advise is get it over with soon. don't waste too much time wondering, just ask him. if he turns out to be straight, you can move on to the next guy sooner LOL
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    Feb 02, 2010 9:20 PM GMT
    ANDCB saidyou can just grab his junk next time you see him. Then he will know you are both gay and very, very interested !



    Haha I might give that a try sometime haha
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    Feb 02, 2010 9:23 PM GMT
    judoguy saidI had the same kind of infatuation with a guy, almost certain he was interested in me the same way. the smiles, the hellos, even winks icon_eek.gif
    I interpreted it as a good chance he might be gay, but he wasn't. I think as (young) gay men we often get into a mode of wishful thinking cos the guy's just too cute.
    I spent too much time wondering, and being too shy to ask, so when I finally did tell him how I felt about him, I got so much more disappointed when he turned out to be totally straight.
    I was a year older and a public face in school, working on the school paper and being part of a lot of school events, so I guess he just sorta looked up to me in a way and wanted to befriend me. I felt sooo stupid and embarassed.

    my advise is get it over with soon. don't waste too much time wondering, just ask him. if he turns out to be straight, you can move on to the next guy sooner LOL


    yeah I would die but he's gay there's like no other explination and this has happened with in like 2 or 3 weeks tops it's not infatuation
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    Feb 03, 2010 9:04 PM GMT
    Okay so holy shit I totally did it at first I froze up but
    After lunch I saw him again by chance and I saw he was walking to his car so I went through the parcking lot. And when I got to him I said hey what are
    you doing on Friday? And he was like class till noon and I was like okay well a few of us are planing to go see Alice in Wonderland and I want you to come along and he thought for a sec and said yeah maybe I'll talk to you Friday. I'm trying not to freak out and die but I couldn't even breath when I was talking to him and I looked like I was
    going to the design bldg so I acted as of I was going there and apparently he was too so that was like ...wamp, wamp... On my part but did I do okay?
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    Feb 03, 2010 9:33 PM GMT
    I'm sorry to be so typically anglo-saxon on this...But privacy, proximity and alcohol will be your best bet. If, under those conditions, nothing happens he's probably straight.

    Want a pretext? join whatever sports/social club he's in.

    Good luck.

    Steve
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    Feb 03, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    shutoman saidI'm sorry to be so typically anglo-saxon on this...But privacy, proximity and alcohol will be your best bet. If, under those conditions, nothing happens he's probably straight.

    Want a pretext? join whatever sports/social club he's in.

    Good luck.

    Steve


    I'm quite sure he is gay but I just want to take it easy and I would not get someone drink to find out if they're gay or not I don't want a quick fuck I want a friend