May 16, 2007 10:09 PM GMT
Ok guys...
I need some help. My friend, we'll call him Luis, is "straight." Whenever my girlfriends are around, he loves to flirt with them, always talking about girls and trying to charm a girl. When the girls are gone, and it's just me and him, he seems to get a little too gay for a "striaght" guy. . He touches too much, and talks about things that most straight guy won't say to gay guys. we spend almost every night together, staying out until the sun comes up, talking and laughing, having a great time. The nights that we don't see each other, he'll call me up to "just check in..." I try to laugh it off, but my friends and family are starting to say things like "Won't he come out already?" and "You guys are dating, just admit it," or the one my cousin said "You don't like him, he's not gay yet you 2 are seen around everywhere together and give eachother special attention."
The thing is, I thought that I hid this very good, but I have been in love with him for a long while. The other night, we were at a party, having a great time, I went outside about 3am to just relax for a second, when he came out, touched my face and said "I hear someone has a little crush on me!" and my heart dropped. I wanted to say yes, but I don't want to lose a friendship if he really ends up just a straight guy who happenes to have a gay best friend. I know that it can go 3 ways, One: I lose a really good friend of mine. 2: He is just bi-curious and wants to do something sexually with me or 3. He ends up liking me too.
What do you guys think? Can anyone help me out with some advice?
Thanks!!
Jaimes
I need some help. My friend, we'll call him Luis, is "straight." Whenever my girlfriends are around, he loves to flirt with them, always talking about girls and trying to charm a girl. When the girls are gone, and it's just me and him, he seems to get a little too gay for a "striaght" guy. . He touches too much, and talks about things that most straight guy won't say to gay guys. we spend almost every night together, staying out until the sun comes up, talking and laughing, having a great time. The nights that we don't see each other, he'll call me up to "just check in..." I try to laugh it off, but my friends and family are starting to say things like "Won't he come out already?" and "You guys are dating, just admit it," or the one my cousin said "You don't like him, he's not gay yet you 2 are seen around everywhere together and give eachother special attention."
The thing is, I thought that I hid this very good, but I have been in love with him for a long while. The other night, we were at a party, having a great time, I went outside about 3am to just relax for a second, when he came out, touched my face and said "I hear someone has a little crush on me!" and my heart dropped. I wanted to say yes, but I don't want to lose a friendship if he really ends up just a straight guy who happenes to have a gay best friend. I know that it can go 3 ways, One: I lose a really good friend of mine. 2: He is just bi-curious and wants to do something sexually with me or 3. He ends up liking me too.
What do you guys think? Can anyone help me out with some advice?
Thanks!!
Jaimes
