fizzle saidAnd yes, I'm drinking a little beforehand but even when I drink I just don't like dancing lol
Then don't dance -- watch, and smile at the pleasant sight of the others dancing. I like to see other people enjoying themselves, it makes me smile. And if it's hunky guys dancing, and they take their shirts off... well
When I first came out late in life I began going to the gay bars, and I couldn't dance, WOULDN'T dance, because I had NEVER danced. But I watched and enjoyed, and studied carefully and learned.
And one day I went out there on the dance floor myself and tried to do what I had seen others do. Not great at first, but I was doing it, and I got better. Soon, in my late 40s, I had the reputation as a stellar dancer who could wear out guys in their 20s, who'd leave the floor exhausted while I took another new partner without pausing. Credit my Army stamina.
So go, observe, get into it, smile, meet & greet, do all that good stuff, and have a great time. Good luck!