Realjock or Bigmuscle?

  • jingold04

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    Feb 05, 2010 3:36 AM GMT
    To me R/J is like a "virtual" gay gym. You can dish/socialize in the forums. Then pick out some moves from the workout programs and finally browse through the open adult pix or webcam another member,kinda like jerking-off in the shower at a "actual" gay gym. Bigmuscle seems to be more of a pick-up site. What do you boys think? Oh,if the RealJock.com creaters read this.....I LOVE ME SOME REALJOCK! KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!!!
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    Feb 05, 2010 3:40 AM GMT
    What's Bigmuscle?
  • jingold04

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    Feb 05, 2010 4:06 AM GMT
    Bigmuscle.com,maybe I should edit my post to include the full web address. It's a site for buff guys,but it seems to lack the sinse of community.
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    Feb 05, 2010 4:35 AM GMT
    I was REJECTED by BigMuscle. icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 05, 2010 4:44 AM GMT
    Met my boyfriend of 6 plus years on bigmuscle, still have my profile.

    The guys are hot...tend to be older than over there in general and thats the big difference. Realjock has a pretty large group of younger guys whereas bigmuscle has a big grouping of 30s and 40s
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    Feb 05, 2010 5:23 AM GMT
    Bigmuscle is ok. But it's more of an eye candy and cruising site these days. I got tired of seeing the same guys updating their profiles everyday, every hour just to be first in the profile list. Boring. I took my profile down and don't check the site as much.

    I think the forums on RJ make a big difference. It creates an opportunity to interact with others, without the pressures/hang-ups of trying to initiate contact individually. People-wise.. Yeah, it's a younger crowd here. But that's ok. As this site gets more popular, I'm sure the age range will even out to some extent.

    Bigmuscle has been around a lot longer and has more notoriety than other gay websites. But the site owners haven't done much with it. It's pretty stagnant in terms of features. But I must say that they've been fairly successful at organizing member meet-and-greet events. Something I'd like to see here.
  • silverfox

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    Feb 05, 2010 5:34 AM GMT
    Bigmuscle used to be pretty cool...before RJ.

    One thing I noticed....when I was a paying supporter of Bigmuscle I got all kinds of emails from other members.

    When I stopped supporting......all the emails stopped.

    I was the belle of the ball at BM once upon a time LOL.
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    Feb 05, 2010 7:26 AM GMT


    (im on bigmuscle, but shouldnt really be there)
  • Webster666

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    Feb 05, 2010 7:34 AM GMT
    On BigMuscle, there's nothing to do but look...

    I'm impressed with the level of intelligence at RJ, most of the time. LOL.
  • jrs1

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    Feb 05, 2010 10:45 AM GMT

    I can go to bigmuscle ... but that's really it. I am not sure what to do except search for profiles. I do not know if there is a chat client and I am not sure how I would search for any friends from here.
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    Feb 05, 2010 10:49 AM GMT
    xrichx saidBigmuscle is ok. But it's more of an eye candy and cruising site these days. I got tired of seeing the same guys updating their profiles everyday, every hour just to be first in the profile list. Boring. I took my profile down and don't check the site as much.

    I think the forums on RJ make a big difference. It creates an opportunity to interact with others, without the pressures/hang-ups of trying to initiate contact individually. People-wise.. Yeah, it's a younger crowd here. But that's ok. As this site gets more popular, I'm sure the age range will even out to some extent.

    Bigmuscle has been around a lot longer and has more notoriety than other gay websites. But the site owners haven't done much with it. It's pretty stagnant in terms of features. But I must say that they've been fairly successful at organizing member meet-and-greet events. Something I'd like to see here.


    Says it very nicely.

    BM has also turned into a popularity contest with the addition of who "liked" who recently.
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    Feb 05, 2010 11:59 AM GMT
    jingold04 saidTo me R/J is like a "virtual" gay gym. You can dish/socialize in the forums. Then pick out some moves from the workout programs and finally browse through the open adult pix or webcam another member,kinda like jerking-off in the shower at a "actual" gay gym. Bigmuscle seems to be more of a pick-up site. What do you boys think? Oh,if the RealJock.com creaters read this.....I LOVE ME SOME REALJOCK! KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!!!
    I agree. Bigmuscle is so much more sleezier. On the main page half of the dudes are naked with hard ons.
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    Feb 05, 2010 12:00 PM GMT
    Many of the guys on BIGMUSCLE are on REALJOCK. The forums on RJ help to foster a sense of community. But cruising and hooking occur on RJ too.
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    Feb 05, 2010 12:51 PM GMT
    Both have some damn hot men, got to go with RJ though

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    Feb 06, 2010 4:00 AM GMT
    silverfox1 saidBigmuscle used to be pretty cool...before RJ.

    One thing I noticed....when I was a paying supporter of Bigmuscle I got all kinds of emails from other members.

    When I stopped supporting......all the emails stopped.

    I was the belle of the ball at BM once upon a time LOL.

    I think the same applies here. If you're Verified/Supporter, you're more likely to get some interest.
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    Feb 06, 2010 4:15 AM GMT
    I got a BIG MUSCLE right here on REAL JOCK!!

    Pick up what? Fly's?icon_eek.gif
  • thatonedude21

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    Feb 06, 2010 4:24 AM GMT
    I'm on both site and get plenty of messages on both.. but the attitude of MOST guys on BM is that they are the shit.
    On realjock, it seems a lot more laid back.. and friendly.

    That said, both sites have their uses, but I'm way more attracted to RJ than BM.
    A hot personality wins over a hot bodies ANY DAY.
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    Feb 06, 2010 4:36 AM GMT
    Realjock. I have been a member of both and the guys on Bigmuscle are far less friendly. If you're not humungous you won't even get a response to an email. Personality wins over enormity any day.