Feb 05, 2010 4:05 AM GMT
How many Realjocks would consider joining the military if DADT is ever repealed?
BeingThePhoenix saidHow many Realjocks would consider joining the military if DADT is ever repealed?
creature saidI'm joining next summer, whether or not it is repealed or if there is some executive order to halt discharges.
Considering that so many bisexual and gay men join the military regardless of DADT, I don't think it'll matter to most in their decision to enlist. The repeal of DADT will certainly make the armed forces more appealing because you'll be free to be open about yourself without fear of discharge, but the repeal won't change the nature of training and the job.
creature saidI'm joining next summer, whether or not it is repealed or if there is some executive order to halt discharges.
Considering that so many bisexual and gay men join the military regardless of DADT, I don't think it'll matter to most in their decision to enlist. The repeal of DADT will certainly make the armed forces more appealing because you'll be free to be open about yourself without fear of discharge, but the repeal won't change the nature of training and the job.
Space_Cowboy_89 saidI'm going to join the air force regardless I'm not going to be known as the boy that didn't serve his country in my family
BeingThePhoenix said
True, but what about those who have not enlisted, because they can't bring their partners along with them? Army wives can live on base.
VUandC88 saidWell I know I would. Military is and has been a big part of my family, DADT is the only thing keeping me from joining. I have a big problem with lying about who I am. I am by no means flamboyant but I do have my moments and would not lie to someone if they asked. So WHEN this does get repealed I will likely be joining the Air Force.
JayneCobb saidAlready working in the military. DADT isn't a big deal to me since I act professionally and keep my work life and private life separate. I would act the same way if I worked at a restaurant or in construction; it's nobodies business but my own.
coolarmydude saidJayneCobb saidAlready working in the military. DADT isn't a big deal to me since I act professionally and keep my work life and private life separate. I would act the same way if I worked at a restaurant or in construction; it's nobodies business but my own.
And what if it were legal to be openly gay in the military? Some people would know that you're in a relationship should you get family housing or family separation pay when you deploy. Family care plans...what about your promotion ceremony or your reenlistment ceremony. school graduations...all of which your gay spouse is in attendance.
My point is that DADT isn't just about legally serving, it's also about equality of benefits.