Jan 14, 2008 5:17 AM GMT
I've lost 100 lbs. in 5 months with diet and exercise, when I started I was 265 lbs and 5'5" tall. My partner now has started worrying I'm cheating on him, I'm not, he told me once he loved me and looked past the weight issue, he said he still loves me, but he's noticed a change in me. I wear tighter clothes, and wearing cologne. I'm taking better care of myself because I've lost so much weight, we went out to a Levi bar, and both of us got hit on, not just him as was in the past. I'd never cheat on him. So my question is how can I get his confidence level back up, he's 44 has a great body, he's been working out with me, he didn't have that much to lose, I've never worried that he was cheating on me. Is this going to get worse, I haven't even hit my weight goal yet, what happens when I'm 135 lbs. He didn't ask me to lose the weight, its part of what I'm going to school for at age 50, and working out with guys who are in their early 20's, has really helped me change both in attitude and appearance. Give me some advice here please?