...he's not gay :'{

  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Feb 06, 2010 6:38 AM GMT
    Well the guy I like the "cute guy on campus" isn't gay and I just watched Dear John and I pretty much figured out that I'm never going to put myself out there for a guy and humiliate myself; I saw him today and I got the feeling that it was awkward for him when he saw me. So I'm done I'm going to act compleatly unattached when I see him it'll be whatever as if he's just another person in the crowd.

    (I just want a hug from my best friend so I can cry to him but he's deployed icon_cry.gif )
  • masculumpedes

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    Feb 06, 2010 7:59 AM GMT
    My friend...we've all been there..and believe it or not...this too shall pass. icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 06, 2010 1:50 PM GMT
    Omg this has happened to me sooooo many times through out school. The feeling will be gone soon,so don't worry about it.
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    Feb 06, 2010 2:07 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear that. Been there done that.
  • mcwclewis

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    Feb 06, 2010 2:41 PM GMT
    Sorry muffin icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 06, 2010 3:06 PM GMT
    Even worse is when they're really gay,
    but tell you they're straight as they are
    too afraid to say "I'm not interested in you".

    That sucks big time.
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    Feb 06, 2010 3:24 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear that lil bro - But don't give up! Big hug sent your way
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    Feb 06, 2010 4:42 PM GMT
    malefeet saidMy friend...we've all been there..and believe it or not...this too shall pass. icon_wink.gif


    I really hope so
  • masculumpedes

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    Feb 06, 2010 4:44 PM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 said
    malefeet saidMy friend...we've all been there..and believe it or not...this too shall pass. icon_wink.gif


    I really hope so


    I can guarantee it......icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 06, 2010 4:50 PM GMT
    So little time; so MUCH drama.

    Like sands through the hour glass, so are the days of our lives.

    You'll just have to pick yourself up by your boot straps, and go after one of those other 7 BILLION folks in the world. Sucks, but, that's just what you're going to have to do.
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    Feb 06, 2010 4:58 PM GMT
    yeah it sucks. sorry buddy icon_neutral.gif



    p.s. steal his girlfriend haha icon_lol.gif
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Feb 06, 2010 5:04 PM GMT
    Voltaire saidSorry to hear that lil bro - But don't give up! Big hug sent your way


    Thanks big bro :"""") I'm feeling better today
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    Feb 06, 2010 5:06 PM GMT
    chuckystud saidSo little time; so MUCH drama.

    Like sands through the hour glass, so are the days of our lives.

    You'll just have to pick yourself up by your boot straps, and go after one of those other 7 BILLION folks in the world. Sucks, but, that's just what you're going to have to do.


    thanks for the tough love chuckystud
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    Feb 06, 2010 5:11 PM GMT
    lenoxx saidOmg this has happened to me sooooo many times through out school. The feeling will be gone soon,so don't worry about it.


    yeah in trying not to but I'm all alone and o don't really have friends here yet so there's not much to do but think about it but I'm atleast out of selfpitty and now I'm just thinking of a way to be his
    friend
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    Feb 06, 2010 5:33 PM GMT
    That guy should feel flattered. I am sorry and I know how much this sucks. Like an earlier guy said we have all been through it.

    You'll get through it, even if you feel alone we're all here to support you icon_smile.gif

    Dan
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    Feb 06, 2010 5:54 PM GMT
    When you put yourself out there, you're taking a risk. You might get hurt, or you might get what you seek. You will do it again, and each time you do, it is one less time till you get the reward you are working so hard for.
  • RSportsguy

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    Feb 06, 2010 5:59 PM GMT
    I am sorry things did not work out how you hoped Space Cowboy!
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    Feb 06, 2010 6:03 PM GMT
    I've experienced the same thing a couple of times. Keep busy with a hobby and you'll be back to normal soon.
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Feb 06, 2010 6:20 PM GMT
    mcwclewis saidSorry muffin icon_sad.gif


    thanks for calling me muffin made me feel better
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    Feb 06, 2010 6:22 PM GMT
    dcblue saidThat guy should feel flattered. I am sorry and I know how much this sucks. Like an earlier guy said we have all been through it.

    You'll get through it, even if you feel alone we're all here to support you icon_smile.gif

    Dan



    Thanks and you guys have helped me out a lot and you have saved my weekend I locked myself in my apt for the weekend not to comeout or see the sunlight but I'm going to go to the movies and I'm going to go eat out tonight
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    Feb 06, 2010 6:24 PM GMT
    DCEric saidWhen you put yourself out there, you're taking a risk. You might get hurt, or you might get what you seek. You will do it again, and each time you do, it is one less time till you get the reward you are working so hard for.



    Yeah your right and thank you for putting it that way for me I was going to not put myself out there for a while but I think your right I'll ge closer to what I'm looking for
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Feb 06, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
    RSportsguy saidI am sorry things did not work out how you hoped Space Cowboy!



    Yeah no kidding
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Feb 06, 2010 6:29 PM GMT
    Pianist saidI've experienced the same thing a couple of times. Keep busy with a hobby and you'll be back to normal soon.



    I'll give that a try thanks :"")
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    Feb 06, 2010 6:35 PM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 saidWell the guy I like the "cute guy on campus" isn't gay and I just watched Dear John and I pretty much figured out that I'm never going to put myself out there for a guy and humiliate myself; I saw him today and I got the feeling that it was awkward for him when he saw me. So I'm done I'm going to act compleatly unattached when I see him it'll be whatever as if he's just another person in the crowd.

    (I just want a hug from my best friend so I can cry to him but he's deployed icon_cry.gif )


    u still have me. Hehe so smile big and come get a hug. icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 06, 2010 6:50 PM GMT
    Shubham said
    Space_Cowboy_89 saidWell the guy I like the "cute guy on campus" isn't gay and I just watched Dear John and I pretty much figured out that I'm never going to put myself out there for a guy and humiliate myself; I saw him today and I got the feeling that it was awkward for him when he saw me. So I'm done I'm going to act compleatly unattached when I see him it'll be whatever as if he's just another person in the crowd.

    (I just want a hug from my best friend so I can cry to him but he's deployed icon_cry.gif )


    u still have me. Hehe so smile big and come get a hug. icon_smile.gif


    aww thanks :-)