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  • WhoDey

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    Feb 06, 2010 7:57 AM GMT
    I met a guy at a bar the other night, he gave me his number and told me to text him, when I did, he didn't respond...has anybody else experienced a problem like this? what gives?
  • masculumpedes

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    Feb 06, 2010 8:05 AM GMT
    cincinnatiguy12 saidI met a guy at a bar the other night, he gave me his number and told me to text him, when I did, he didn't respond...has anybody else experienced a problem like this? what gives?



    um.....how long ago was "the other night" icon_question.gif
  • drypin

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    Feb 06, 2010 8:28 AM GMT
    Well, he gave you A number. Whether it was his... hmm.
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    Feb 06, 2010 1:42 PM GMT
    This happens. Sometimes guys get drunk, give out their number, and then forget it happened... until they get a text from someone they can't remember talking to.

    Sorry it happened though. Maybe send him another one in a few days?
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    Feb 06, 2010 2:08 PM GMT
    cincinnatiguy12 saidI met a guy at a bar the other night, he gave me his number and told me to text him, when I did, he didn't respond...has anybody else experienced a problem like this? what gives?


    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=flake
  • myklet1

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    Feb 06, 2010 2:14 PM GMT
    cincinnatiguy12 saidI met a guy at a bar the other night, he gave me his number and told me to text him, when I did, he didn't respond...has anybody else experienced a problem like this? what gives?


    My entire life and more than half the gay population as well.
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    Feb 06, 2010 2:17 PM GMT
    did you give your number as well?
  • gsh1964

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    Feb 06, 2010 2:21 PM GMT
    This is very common. It's happened to me and my friends. I have actually done it to guys before.
    Best thing to do is not take it personal, just move on and if you see him out again, just be glad to see him and realize that maybe there is someone else out there that your suppose to be with.
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    Feb 06, 2010 2:48 PM GMT
    GwgTrunks saidThis happens. Sometimes guys get drunk, give out their number, and then forget it happened... until they get a text from someone they can't remember talking to.

    Sorry it happened though. Maybe send him another one in a few days?

    I think you accurately describe a common scenario. Or maybe they're like me, and they don't answer all of their personal text messages for a few days until in the mood for it, and/or have the time in a busy work schedule of doing business texting all day. Someone else here asked when "the other night" was.
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    Feb 06, 2010 2:49 PM GMT
    They're called flakes and they happen! Just move one....
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    Feb 06, 2010 3:35 PM GMT
    cincinnatiguy12 saidI met a guy at a bar the other night, he gave me his number and told me to text him, when I did, he didn't respond...has anybody else experienced a problem like this? what gives?


    Ever heard of a telephone? It often works much better for personal relationships.
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    Feb 06, 2010 3:38 PM GMT
    chuckystud said
    cincinnatiguy12 saidI met a guy at a bar the other night, he gave me his number and told me to text him, when I did, he didn't respond...has anybody else experienced a problem like this? what gives?


    Ever heard of a telephone? It often works much better for personal relationships.


    AND its the same number!
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    Feb 06, 2010 3:41 PM GMT
    It amazes me how clueless some folks are. Text got ignored / missed? Call the guy, and ask what's up. Ever heard of having communications skills or common sense?

    The guy gripes about a flake, yet, he's the silly half-baked faggy torso shots, with no face pics, and no profile. You kinda', pretty much, have to laugh. Flake, meet flake.

    Stupid people are stupid.

    Drunk guy meets drunk queer full of liquid courage. Now, guy who was previously full of liquid courage reverts to shy pussy. Shy pussy gets texted. Text gets missed / blown off. Other previously drunk guy doesn't have courage or common sense to pick up phone and call him. Go figure.

    Stupid people are stupid.
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    Feb 06, 2010 3:43 PM GMT
    Guys in Cincinnati are always like dat. Always full of themselves. They just give out their number to look popular.
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    Feb 06, 2010 4:00 PM GMT
    chuckystud saidIt amazes me how clueless some folks are. Text got ignored / missed? Call the guy, and ask what's up. Ever heard of having communications skills or common sense?

    The guy gripes about a flake, yet, he's the silly half-baked faggy torso shots, with no face pics, and no profile. You kinda', pretty much, have to laugh. Flake, meet flake.

    Stupid people are stupid.

    Drunk guy meets drunk queer full of liquid courage. Now, guy who was previously full of liquid courage reverts to shy pussy. Shy pussy gets texted. Text gets missed / blown off. Other previously drunk guy doesn't have courage or common sense to pick up phone and call him. Go figure.

    Stupid people are stupid.



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    Feb 06, 2010 4:05 PM GMT
    What blows me away is that at 23 years old, a guy hasn't figured that all out on his own.
  • ohioguy12

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    Feb 06, 2010 4:21 PM GMT
    OMFG saidGuys in Cincinnati are always like dat. Always full of themselves. They just give out their number to look popular.


    very true!
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    Feb 06, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
    I prefer to give guys the rejection hotline number...that way they know exactly what I meant.
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    Feb 06, 2010 5:43 PM GMT
    This happens all the time, and when guys blame it on the booze, it is all bull crap. they remember, they just choose not to respond. These flakes i have no time for...