In spite of these experiences, lately I'm learning that when given license to do so, I have a dirty little mind and a dirty little mouth that whispers really dirty little things and some guys REALLY, REALLY like it. I'm getting feedback (verbal and physical) that it really turns the other person on which is a bonus because I was pretty much doing it just for my own pleasure.
I'm a pretty sexually experienced guy, I've done all sorts of things with all sorts of people and I'm surprised that at the age of 36 after many, many years and a myriad of sexual experiences I feel like I'm discovering something new about myself that I'm kinda good at and didn't fully appreciate before.
I was curious about other peoples thoughts on this. Not the screaming of obscenities, squealing like a pig, directing a scene like Michael Lucas or grunting like a wild animal. Specifically whispering of sex scenarios in the other person's ear, thoughts?