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Talking Dirty

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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 9:02 PM GMT
    I always knew I liked talking dirty but I was frequently discouraged from doing it by the guys I dated. One ex would look at me like I had three heads when I'd start and another actually asked me to stop talking because it was distracting. It's not like I was asking him for the square root of pi, I was just whispering explicit things in his ear.

    In spite of these experiences, lately I'm learning that when given license to do so, I have a dirty little mind and a dirty little mouth that whispers really dirty little things and some guys REALLY, REALLY like it. I'm getting feedback (verbal and physical) that it really turns the other person on which is a bonus because I was pretty much doing it just for my own pleasure.

    I'm a pretty sexually experienced guy, I've done all sorts of things with all sorts of people and I'm surprised that at the age of 36 after many, many years and a myriad of sexual experiences I feel like I'm discovering something new about myself that I'm kinda good at and didn't fully appreciate before.

    I was curious about other peoples thoughts on this. Not the screaming of obscenities, squealing like a pig, directing a scene like Michael Lucas or grunting like a wild animal. Specifically whispering of sex scenarios in the other person's ear, thoughts?
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 9:48 PM GMT
    What the hell is wrong with "squealing like a pig", Easy? Seriously though, some guys like talking dirty. Whatever. There was a topic in the forums from a member asking for help because he wanted to be able to talk dirty but was too nervous. LOL. Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words. If it will make you happy, I am more than willing to whisper filthy nothings in your ear. icon_wink.gif
    (Welcome back !)
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 9:51 PM GMT
    i love it. i once dated a guy who used to say " u want it baby?" and "take it for daddy" while we had sex, and it was REALLY fucking hot
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:09 PM GMT
    waxon saidi love it. i once dated a guy who used to say " u want it baby?" and "take it for daddy" while we had sex, and it was REALLY fucking hot

    Damn wish you had posted it Mike! Sounds hot!!
  • thatonedude21 Posts: 223
    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:12 PM GMT
    I am not very experienced in sex, let along GOOD sex haha.. but whenever I've had good sex I get very vocal lol.. and it always catches guys off guard..
    I say "fuck" a lot and growl too..
    I'm sure this is just the beginning of my dirty language though icon_smile.gif
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:17 PM GMT
    Lol, next time I'm riding a boy, I'm going to shout, "WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI! WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI!"
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:21 PM GMT
    u pussy bottom bitch....this would be my area of expertise...icon_twisted.gif.lolz
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:32 PM GMT
    I talk dirty, I'm pretty good at it too when allowed to, some guys don't like it and others go wild, I think it comes down to a combination of things, both the persons comfort level, there imagination and there experience.

    I know a few guys though who wont let me go to far with certain things, which is a little irritating, cause I like some certain things hehe
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:33 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidI talk dirty, I'm pretty good at it too when allowed to, some guys don't like it and others go wild, I think it comes down to a combination of things, both the persons comfort level, there imagination and there experience.

    I know a few guys though who wont let me go to far with certain things, which is a little irritating, cause I like some certain things hehe


    Examples please!
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:33 PM GMT
    TheIStrat saidLol, next time I'm riding a boy, I'm going to shout, "WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI! WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI!"

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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:36 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    TheIStrat saidLol, next time I'm riding a boy, I'm going to shout, "WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI! WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI!"

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    If you answered that during, it might throw me off.
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:36 PM GMT
    TheIStrat saidLol, next time I'm riding a boy, I'm going to shout, "WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI! WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI!"


    That is so hot... Wow! icon_wink.gif
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:39 PM GMT
    TheIStrat saidLol, next time I'm riding a boy, I'm going to shout, "WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI! WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI!"


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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:45 PM GMT
    It's annoying when they don't talk dirty. Mental stimulation is always a perk during sex. Drives me nuts icon_twisted.gif
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:50 PM GMT
    TheIStrat said
    lilTanker said
    TheIStrat saidLol, next time I'm riding a boy, I'm going to shout, "WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI! WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI!"

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    If you answered that during, it might throw me off.

    well if your going to ask, I'm going to answer if I know it icon_razz.gif
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:50 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    TheIStrat saidLol, next time I'm riding a boy, I'm going to shout, "WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI! WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI!"

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    LOL!!
    I just like it I can't help it... I like dipping into the hidden places of peoples minds and indulging thoughts, all kinds of thoughts, they can be objectifying, demonstrative, demeaning, begging, demanding, I like it all.

    HOWEVER, I actually really get turned on by any industry lingo, specifically "tech and contracting/policy". I think it's because I'm not a very logical thinker and when someone talks about programming or policy I get excited. I guess it's the equivalent of some people's fetish with hearing Spanish or French during sex.
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:54 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    TheIStrat said
    lilTanker said
    TheIStrat saidLol, next time I'm riding a boy, I'm going to shout, "WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI! WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI!"

    1.772 icon_razz.gif


    If you answered that during, it might throw me off.

    well if your going to ask, I'm going to answer if I know it icon_razz.gif


    lilTanker... it's not the answer which turns me on as much as hearing the guy calculating it out loud.
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 10:57 PM GMT
    i think "dirty talk" is hot up to a point. when it sounds like you're auditioning for a porn movie, it's just fuckin' annoying.
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 11:03 PM GMT
    drypin saidlilTanker... it's not the answer which turns me on as much as hearing the guy calculating it out loud.

    I'd have cum and gone before I'd finished working it out icon_razz.gif
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 11:03 PM GMT
    EasilyDistracted said
    lilTanker said
    TheIStrat saidLol, next time I'm riding a boy, I'm going to shout, "WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI! WHAT IS THE SQUARE ROOT OF PI!"

    1.772 icon_razz.gif

    LOL!!
    I just like it I can't help it... I like dipping into the hidden places of peoples minds and indulging thoughts, all kinds of thoughts, they can be objectifying, demonstrative, demeaning, begging, demanding, I like it all.

    HOWEVER, I actually really get turned on by any industry lingo, specifically "tech and contracting/policy". I think it's because I'm not a very logical thinker and when someone talks about programming or policy I get excited. I guess it's the equivalent of some people's fetish with hearing Spanish or French during sex.

    well I can speak dirty in french now and I can talk programming and/or about policies if you'd like icon_razz.gif
  • bhp91126 Posts: 4921
    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 11:07 PM GMT
    Sorry, dirty talk is a total turn-off for me. As soon as someone starts spouting this verbal diarrhea, I try to occupy his mouth otherwise. Nothing wrong with some verbal encouragement, but obscenities are a buzz-kill.

    And don't ever refer to my ass as pussy!!!icon_mad.gif
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 11:08 PM GMT
    turbobilly saidWhat the hell is wrong with "squealing like a pig", Easy? Seriously though, some guys like talking dirty. Whatever. There was a topic in the forums from a member asking for help because he wanted to be able to talk dirty but was too nervous. LOL. Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words. If it will make you happy, I am more than willing to whisper filthy nothings in your ear. icon_wink.gif
    (Welcome back !)
    *Deal* start whispering at your ready! icon_exclaim.gif
    (thank you, very glad to be back) icon_biggrin.gif

    waxon saidi love it. i once dated a guy who used to say " u want it baby?" and "take it for daddy" while we had sex, and it was REALLY fucking hot
    Daddy/boy is always big fun... but it freaks some guys out because they interpret it in the literal form of "father" which opens up a whole can of worms.

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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 11:11 PM GMT
    me likes, as long as it does come out in a fake rehearsed way lol. if you're not comfortable expressing yourself that way, the grunts and bodylanguage will also do fine icon_lol.gif
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 11:15 PM GMT
    bernd saidSorry, dirty talk is a total turn-off for me. As soon as someone starts spouting this verbal diarrhea, I try to occupy his mouth otherwise. Nothing wrong with some verbal encouragement, but obscenities are a buzz-kill.

    And don't ever refer to my ass as pussy!!!icon_mad.gif
    I'm an incessant chatter so sometimes I need something in my mouth to shut me up. I couldn't agree more! I do not have a pussy and get very confused when a guy makes reference to "mine". Makes me want to grab a mirror to do a self exam.

    lilTanker said
    well I can speak dirty in french now and I can talk programming and/or about policies if you'd like icon_razz.gif
    Tank if you are ever close enough to whisper in my ear, you can whisper whatever the hell you want. because you can't say the wrong thing to the right guy. icon_wink.gif
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    QUOTE Feb 11, 2010 11:20 PM GMT
    I've heard "Shut up and relax it"