I didn't realize gay sex involved any kind of penetration-

  • Little_Spoon

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    Feb 13, 2010 7:20 AM GMT
    until I was in Jr high.

    I freaked out, I was like, "They do it how!?!"

    I was under the impression that it was just a lot of very sexy bumping and grinding, which I was very interested in.

    Now the anticipation of being penetrated is like. icon_surprised.gif

    What were your first ideas about gay sex?
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    Feb 13, 2010 7:25 AM GMT
    I thought that the HIV virus was created by gay sex, that the act of anal sex actually was the CAUSE.

    I was about 9.
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    Feb 13, 2010 7:27 AM GMT
    Quite honestly, the first time I ever had sex was gay sex with penetration. It happened before I really ever had a word for "gay", much less really understood what "sex" was. I was at least curious enough that I looked it up in our Encyclopedias at home, after the fact...and was then able to put all the parts together for M2F and M2M and W2W sex acts...I was about 8..... hell of a way to get a first impression of sex.....
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    Feb 13, 2010 7:40 AM GMT
    I actually thought all sex gay and str8 involved anal penetration. It wasn't until I was in the middle part of elemenrty school and I heard some of the boys saying something about the hole where girls pee from in the front , and thats where you have to put your peepee for a baby to come out haha. Then I knew there was a difference LOL
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    Feb 13, 2010 8:21 AM GMT
    SoCalNerd saidI actually thought all sex gay and str8 involved anal penetration. It wasn't until I was in the middle part of elemenrty school and I heard some of the boys saying something about the hole where girls pee from in the front , and thats where you have to put your peepee for a baby to come out haha. Then I knew there was a difference LOL



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    You lived in a world where there was only buttsecks?

    How magical.
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    Feb 13, 2010 8:48 AM GMT
    DanielH said
    SoCalNerd saidI actually thought all sex gay and str8 involved anal penetration. It wasn't until I was in the middle part of elemenrty school and I heard some of the boys saying something about the hole where girls pee from in the front , and thats where you have to put your peepee for a baby to come out haha. Then I knew there was a difference LOL



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    You lived in a world where there was only buttsecks?

    How magical.


    Haha yeah.
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    Feb 13, 2010 1:31 PM GMT
    lol..very amusing thread .....being that i was in the islands during my young years...5-12 years of age..i knew what gay sex was..as it was all in the name given to the gay male. I am sure you all have heard this term "Battyman" at some point in your life...and batty means bottom...and of course reggae would give you hints and clues as some reggae artist felt the need to speak out against homosexuality by putting the denouncement of the sexual act into their lyrics. so i had full knowledge of gay sex..But funny enough i didnt realize i was gay until i turned 20.
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    Feb 13, 2010 5:15 PM GMT
    tereseus1 saidlol..very amusing thread .....being that i was in the islands during my young years...5-12 years of age..i knew what gay sex was..as it was all in the name given to the gay male. I am sure you all have heard this term "Battyman" at some point in your life...and batty means bottom...and of course reggae would give you hints and clues as some reggae artist felt the need to speak out against homosexuality by putting the denouncement of the sexual act into their lyrics. so i had full knowledge of gay sex..But funny enough i didnt realize i was gay until i turned 20.



    I remember an interview where (I think it was) Elephant Man was explaining the difference between a Battyman and a homosexual, as he was of course being lambasted for his lyrics. He said a Battyman is one rich gentleman who would go into the slums and lure boys away to sodomize.

    It's a frail defense for a region that continues to kill its gays.
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    Feb 13, 2010 5:34 PM GMT
    I knew that gay men had anal sex... but what I did was grinding, and it was okay, because we were pretending that I was a girl!

    Children are funny.
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    Feb 13, 2010 6:49 PM GMT
    I read about sex in a medical book around the fifth grade concerning males&females. Then I put two and two together for homobuttsex.I watched porn too. icon_wink.gif It makes sense to meeee.
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    Feb 13, 2010 7:29 PM GMT
    Iluros saidI knew that gay men had anal sex... but what I did was grinding, and it was okay, because we were pretending that I was a girl!

    Children are funny.


    Thats too cute, it's funny the imagination of kids. Crazy that as a kid you had to rationalize it like that to make it right.
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    Feb 13, 2010 9:11 PM GMT
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    Iluros saidI knew that gay men had anal sex... but what I did was grinding, and it was okay, because we were pretending that I was a girl!

    Children are funny.


    Thats too cute, it's funny the imagination of kids. Crazy that as a kid you had to rationalize it like that to make it right.


    Exactly. I don't know who was fooling himself more, me, or the other guy. But it never took much persuasion. icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 10, 2010 4:32 AM GMT
    Me and a friend saw a video how gogs do it i was 13 we started doing doggy style sence we were more mature i prefere to give oral but take anal. I like it hard and long.
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    Dec 10, 2010 8:37 AM GMT
    I must be an intuitive child because when I first learned about intercourse immediately knew that u need a 'hole' which a girl had..In fact I deduced that that if gals have two 'holes' and a guy has one....then the 'hole' the guy has would be used for sex.....Of course it made me think to why would anyone do it since pee and poo came from those regions.....icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 10, 2010 8:37 AM GMT
    My first m2m experience was when I was 8, we just kissed and rubbed and such, oral, hand job or anal wasn't even thought of.

    Only learned about anal when I was 12, on one of my brother's porn tapes where the girl got buttfucked and I knew that if she can do it, so can I icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 10, 2010 9:16 AM GMT
    spades saidMy first m2m experience was when I was 8, we just kissed and rubbed and such, oral, hand job or anal wasn't even thought of.


    Same here, was maybe 8 or 9, but it wasn't a gay thing at all - me and my best friend just decided we'd have a go at making a baby! We didn't really know what to do but just got naked and rubbed up against each other whilst kissing (badly). A couple of weeks later we realised neither of us was pregnant (we assumed it was just pot luck who got pregnant from it!) so he suggested we try it again and had heard from a cousin that you could put your willy in a bum. But I was too scared to try (I'd lost interest in the idea of being pregnant by this point) so nothing else happened.

    I didn't really have a concept of 'gay' at that age but I somehow knew not to tell anyone else what we'd done. Imagine if I'd told my parents that me and my friend had tried to make a baby - years of therapy!!
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    Dec 10, 2010 2:59 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidI thought that the HIV virus was created by gay sex, that the act of anal sex actually was the CAUSE.

    I was about 9.


    Haha, that's great!

    I had the same idea as the author. I had no idea it involved anything like that until I was like 12.
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    Dec 10, 2010 3:20 PM GMT
    Hell !!! I was raised so nieve that I didn't even know sex was a word, an issue or anything else. I had asked mom at age 5, if she'd taken a pill labeled B for boy to get me, and she said yes, so I was satisfied with that for several years. Back then the word gay meant, happy or glad. I didn't even hear the word queer, or fuck until I was 13, but tried to figure it all out when my older neighbor who liked my body wanted to feel my dick too. Then he introduced me to jacking off and the wonders of sex took high priority from then on. I was a "late bloomer" for sure !!!!
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    Dec 10, 2010 3:58 PM GMT
    Man I hate being a late bloomer...

    I was like the OP until we found out in what 7th grade "health" class.

    And even then it was a question some other kid asked in the class, (About how two guys doing it..) And after the teacher responded the whole class was like ewwww. I just remember telling myself at that moment, that "comming out" was ewwwww.

    (clearly things have changed for the good! lmao!)