Hot Listing Fiend

  • jonwaltglat

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    Feb 16, 2010 12:49 PM GMT
    So, I think that I may be the biggest culprit in hot listing too much. Any guy I see on here that has a killer body, I basically hot list. I have decided that I need to stop this and only hot list guys that are really worth hot listing. These would be guys that are verified (or have proven to me that they are real), guys that have a thorough profile, and guys that have a variety of pictures (that goes with guys who actually show their face and aren't headless). I'm working every day to get my hot list down to only 100 guys and I plan to not surpass it. It's so hard though! There are so many hotties on Real Jock!

    So. My question: does anyone else experience the same problem as me?

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  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 16, 2010 1:27 PM GMT
    I don't think there is any "approach" to hotlisting that is right or wrong.
    Hotlist who you want. I always appreciate when I'm hotlisted and while I usually don't hotlist somebody unless I've talked to them.. there are exceptions icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 16, 2010 5:19 PM GMT
    I'm right there with you haha.


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    Feb 16, 2010 5:25 PM GMT
    I stopped hot listing on here altogether. A hot list, in many cases, shows everyone that views your profile what catches your attention. Many guys out there don't compare the guys that are on one's the hot list. So instead of saying hello to you, they stay quiet because they're under the impression that you like nothing but those buff dudes. I don't want anyone to think that I'm that picky with the men I talk to. You're judged by the company that you keep, but you're also judged by the majority of people that you seem to be socializing with.
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    Feb 16, 2010 5:27 PM GMT
    I have no problem hot listing men whose body I appreciate, admire and/or glorify. They're for me to enjoy and be inspired by.
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    Feb 16, 2010 5:27 PM GMT
    Steel231 saidI stopped hot listing on here altogether. A hot list, in many cases, shows everyone that views your profile what catches your attention. Many guys out there don't compare the guys that are on one's the hot list. So instead of saying hello to you, they stay quiet because they're under the impression that you like nothing but those buff dudes. I don't want anyone to think that I'm that picky with the men I talk to. You're judged by the company that you keep, but you're also judged by the majority of people that you seem to be socializing with.


    Seriously, that's a brilliant reply! I like this guy.

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    Feb 16, 2010 5:38 PM GMT
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    Steel231 saidI stopped hot listing on here altogether. A hot list, in many cases, shows everyone that views your profile what catches your attention. Many guys out there don't compare the guys that are on one's the hot list. So instead of saying hello to you, they stay quiet because they're under the impression that you like nothing but those buff dudes. I don't want anyone to think that I'm that picky with the men I talk to. You're judged by the company that you keep, but you're also judged by the majority of people that you seem to be socializing with.


    Seriously, that's a brilliant reply! I like this guy.



    Thanks man. But it's the truth. When I had my first account on here, someone in the chat room called me out on the guys in my hot list. That really made me think about how I represent myself. A guy can have the body of a spartan and can be a complete asswipe; looks are just the surface of a person.
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    Feb 16, 2010 6:17 PM GMT
    Steel231 said
    djdorchester said
    Steel231 saidI stopped hot listing on here altogether. A hot list, in many cases, shows everyone that views your profile what catches your attention. Many guys out there don't compare the guys that are on one's the hot list. So instead of saying hello to you, they stay quiet because they're under the impression that you like nothing but those buff dudes. I don't want anyone to think that I'm that picky with the men I talk to. You're judged by the company that you keep, but you're also judged by the majority of people that you seem to be socializing with.


    Seriously, that's a brilliant reply! I like this guy.



    Thanks man. But it's the truth. When I had my first account on here, someone in the chat room called me out on the guys in my hot list. That really made me think about how I represent myself. A guy can have the body of a spartan and can be a complete asswipe; looks are just the surface of a person.



    I would rather buddy list than hot list. There's only one person on my hotlist, anyway, and it's going to stay that way. Doesn't mean there aren't other hot guys out there, they're just not going to make my short list.

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    Feb 16, 2010 6:31 PM GMT
    djdorchester said
    Steel231 said
    djdorchester said
    Steel231 saidI stopped hot listing on here altogether. A hot list, in many cases, shows everyone that views your profile what catches your attention. Many guys out there don't compare the guys that are on one's the hot list. So instead of saying hello to you, they stay quiet because they're under the impression that you like nothing but those buff dudes. I don't want anyone to think that I'm that picky with the men I talk to. You're judged by the company that you keep, but you're also judged by the majority of people that you seem to be socializing with.


    Seriously, that's a brilliant reply! I like this guy.



    Thanks man. But it's the truth. When I had my first account on here, someone in the chat room called me out on the guys in my hot list. That really made me think about how I represent myself. A guy can have the body of a spartan and can be a complete asswipe; looks are just the surface of a person.



    I would rather buddy list than hot list. There's only one person on my hotlist, anyway, and it's going to stay that way. Doesn't mean there aren't other hot guys out there, they're just not going to make my short list.



    The ones with the looks and great personality are truly hot.
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    Feb 16, 2010 6:32 PM GMT
    Personality + connection + looks = Hotlist. Nuff said.
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    Feb 16, 2010 6:33 PM GMT
    Yea I agree with luckydog icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 16, 2010 6:36 PM GMT
    I wish they had a "hotlist all" button here. Beyond that, a way to sort the hotlist by body dimensions, age, color, bi/homsexuality, profession and income would be very useful in deleting from my hotlist those undesirables who don't meet the McGay standard.
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    Feb 16, 2010 6:39 PM GMT
    What about someone who only hotlists himself? ... icon_eek.gif ... I guess nobody else in the world rates?
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    Feb 16, 2010 6:40 PM GMT
    Should it really matter what the world sees as your definition of hot? We all know there are plenty of men out there that give a damn about what everyone thinks about their looks and such. If you need everyone to tell you that you're hot just to get through a day in life, you're headed for a deep ditch called depression....
  • Iluros

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    Feb 16, 2010 10:13 PM GMT
    I haven't hotlisted anyone yet. I've been tempted several times, but feel a wee bit uncomfortable with blatantly sexually objectifying a guy. icon_redface.gif

    But I always appreciate being hotlisted myself. Double standard, I guess. icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 16, 2010 10:21 PM GMT
    I only hotlisted almost 20 people...I just want to tell them that their hawt without sending them an awkward message saying hey ur hot lol
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    Feb 16, 2010 10:25 PM GMT
    whats wrong with objectifying a man? I don't think I've ever met a guy who didn't like a little objectification every now and then.

    Every man enjoys feeling like a piece of meat, it's when you try to make him feel like a cheap, useless, classless piece of meat that you should be smacked!
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    Feb 16, 2010 10:43 PM GMT
    bleh...it's just a hot list. icon_rolleyes.gif

    sheesh...
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    Feb 16, 2010 10:59 PM GMT
    McGay saidI wish they had a "hotlist all" button here. Beyond that, a way to sort the hotlist by body dimensions, age, color, bi/homsexuality, profession and income would be very useful in deleting from my hotlist those undesirables who don't meet the McGay standard.


    No offense McGay but, bi/homosexuality, profession, and income influence how hot you think some stranger is online? Different strokes for different folks but that sounds pretty ridiculous to me.icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 16, 2010 11:02 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidwhats wrong with objectifying a man? I don't think I've ever met a guy who didn't like a little objectification every now and then.

    Every man enjoys feeling like a piece of meat, it's when you try to make him feel like a cheap, useless, classless piece of meat that you should be smacked!


    i feel like everyone likes to get checked out, but when you reduce that person to just how they look that's just shallow and annoying. i appreciate the person as a whole, not just their body. well, of course a smokin' hot body doesn't hurt haha.
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    Feb 16, 2010 11:03 PM GMT
    McGay saidI wish they had a "hotlist all" button here. Beyond that, a way to sort the hotlist by body dimensions, age, color, bi/homsexuality, profession and income would be very useful in deleting from my hotlist those undesirables who don't meet the McGay standard.


    You have a problem with bi guys? ...sounds pretty closed minded for a gay dude who I'm sure gets offended by people who have a problem with his sexuality.icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 16, 2010 11:04 PM GMT
    Boy_Vegas saidNo offense McGay but, bi/homosexuality, profession, and income influence how hot you think some stranger is online? Different strokes for different folks but that sounds pretty ridiculous to me.icon_redface.gif

    McGay is god mmkay, he can choose people as he sees fit mmkay... you don't question him mmkay


    oooers I'll either get browny points or turned into a toad... knowing him it'll be a toad
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    Feb 16, 2010 11:06 PM GMT
    heckyeah09 said
    lilTanker saidwhats wrong with objectifying a man? I don't think I've ever met a guy who didn't like a little objectification every now and then.

    Every man enjoys feeling like a piece of meat, it's when you try to make him feel like a cheap, useless, classless piece of meat that you should be smacked!


    i feel like everyone likes to get checked out, but when you reduce that person to just how they look that's just shallow and annoying. i appreciate the person as a whole, not just their body. well, of course a smokin' hot body doesn't hurt haha.

    and at no point would I ever encourage anyone to not take someone as a whole.. someone whos hot is a package not a wrapping, however, you can still objectify a man based on all his qualities that make him hot ;)
  • ohioguy12

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    Feb 16, 2010 11:07 PM GMT
    I hotlist way too much, but I try to limit myself to less than 200 guys, if I reach 200, I try to make cuts
  • Iluros

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    Feb 16, 2010 11:11 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidwhats wrong with objectifying a man? I don't think I've ever met a guy who didn't like a little objectification every now and then.

    Every man enjoys feeling like a piece of meat, it's when you try to make him feel like a cheap, useless, classless piece of meat that you should be smacked!


    I'm sure you're right. But I still feel awkward about it. icon_redface.gif