is someone still gay if they dont like dick?

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    Feb 17, 2010 6:13 PM GMT
    I've seen a lot people here talking about how a guy cant be gay if he doesnt like dick, well i have 2 friends that dont like dick at all and the thought of even touching another guys dick makes them want to puke. So i guess since they still like pounding ass and getting sucked off would still qualify them as gay right?
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    Feb 17, 2010 6:28 PM GMT
    It isn't a specific sex act that determines if you're gay, nor interest in a particular body part. It's the gender of the persons to whom you're attracted, and of the persons to whom you are not attracted. To be gay, this means being sexually attracted to males, and not to females. Bisexual is when you're attracted to both.

    But an essential part of male sexuality is his equipment, and I really haven't known any gay guys who had no interest in it at all. Or even puke at it? Do these 2 friends have any involvement or interest regarding women?

    But some straight guys like BJs enough that the gender of the mouth giving one doesn't matter to them. And likewise, they can fuck any hole of opportunity.

    So what makes you think your friends are gay? What gay behavior do they demonstrate, other than getting blown by gays and being tops? Do they like to ogle guys, and like any other male body parts besides dicks? Have they any straight sexual behavior & traits? Such as being interested in women, having straight men's adult reading material, and wanting to puke at the thought of touching another man's penis?
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    Feb 17, 2010 8:27 PM GMT
    Sexual behavior does not denote sexual orientation.

    ...I think that's right. Heh
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    Feb 17, 2010 9:48 PM GMT
    The thought of dick make them want to puke, really? I don't know any straight guys who puke at the thought of dick. In fact, they jerk off at least once a day with... you guessed it... a dick!

    Wish them luck in finding a boyfriend that will let them use their mouth and ass without anything in return.
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    Feb 25, 2010 3:00 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]KeepsGettingBetter saidSo i guess since they still like pounding ass and getting sucked off would still qualify them as gay right?[/quote]

    It qualifies them as selfish and probably boring (not having much sklls) in bed. Nothing wrong in doing that and doing what you like sexually. Nothing wrong with finding a willing partner to do that with. but if its only/always about "scratching that itch" with no intimacy or further sexual exploration then the hell with that shit.

    The whole thing also smells of being a control freak with little room for sponteneity and fun. Guys like that are a dime a dozen.
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    Feb 25, 2010 8:55 PM GMT
    Ditto to what Zombie and KissingPro said. I met a few of those guys when I first came out. Their aversion to "dick" is often either a) internalized homophobia and they should see a shrink, or b) an excuse to let themselves be serviced without having to give back.

    Either way, not the kind of person you want to hook up with.
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    Feb 26, 2010 7:47 AM GMT
    If you like men, you're gay duh.

    If you like men sucking your dick. If you like fucking them, you're gay.

    Regardless of if you like dick or not...

    duh...