Interesting question, naturally i'd side with everyone, but very rarely do people even begin to imagine the shit others have to Fucking endure, The Pain, the Ostracizing, the Complete & Total Loneliness; it can very well suffocate some of us.
I use to believe that their was someone for everyone, but with all the Bullshit i've seen I don't see that anymore. The vast majority of guys don't fucking even grasp the concept of fidelity much less know how to even follow it without some slippage from it's path. And excuses aren't even good while in a relationship. It denotes the whole concept of what a relationship is.
I believe total analysis of your life from your birth til now is in order during one of these times of uncertainty. Does life get better? It can, but it doesn't always; who you Fucking kidding. Some people never have a moments peace from the cruelty of this world. Others never seen a "cloudy day" in their entire fucking lives, never know what it means to live on the streets not knowing where your next meal will come from, or where you'll sleep next.
I'd certainly never want any person to go through not even a quarter of the shit i've had to endure.
It's exceptionally hard when you have no one their besides you, and all you have to resort to is yourself for comfort, a losing battle when you've had to do so for so long.
As much as i'd like to say we've come so far from any era you could possibly pick out. We've yet to move at all in tons of instances.
Maybe none of what I wrote makes sense since this touches home.
When suicide has been on ones mind for so long it consumes someone. They see failure in everything, nothing rights itself. They get better, life seems grand... than *bop* back to where it all started only this time you lost more.
I know i'm losing this battle alone...
Some things in Life are Worth Fighting for, others are Worth Seeing, Feeling, Knowing. But as a friend told me we must find ourselves, become whole, accept ourselves, love ourselves, be happy with ourselves. Before we can start working with/on those around us. No one should ever complete "US"...