Suicide

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    Feb 17, 2010 9:24 PM GMT
    When you realize that no one cares not your family, your friends and the only guy who cared about doent any more. Why should you keep on trying living everyday?
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    Feb 17, 2010 9:35 PM GMT
    So the question is, is it wort it do commit it?
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    Feb 17, 2010 9:46 PM GMT
    Confusis saidWhen you realize that no one cares not your family, your friends and the only guy who cared about doent any more. Why should you keep on trying living everyday?


    You should keep on trying to live everyday because YOU are still capable of caring for others.
  • Mohannned

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    Feb 17, 2010 11:03 PM GMT
    not really
    u should always fight
    I tought about it a lot
    but still life is worth living no matter what
    it's a test of strength

    for me it is never easy but I live as I can
    my parents won't eccept me
    my country won't , and I haven't meet someone for a long time now
    I fear of getting killed or jailed for who i am every second

    but still I love life
    suicide is not a choice
    won't help u at all
    the only to help ur self is to stand up after every fall
    upload ur strength again .. and try harder

    Moe
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    Feb 17, 2010 11:08 PM GMT
    Yes.

    Because even if your assessment is true, it's not a permanent situation. So why would you try fix it by committing a permanent solution? Your life will change, especially if you take positive actions that move you forward. And one day you will realize just how worth it it was to keep living.
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    Feb 17, 2010 11:20 PM GMT
    suicide not only hurts yourself, but everyone that loves or even just barely knows you, and between. It's not worth it, ever.
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    Feb 18, 2010 6:43 AM GMT
    I was always taught that if you committed suicide you were going straight to Hell, and that God holds the key to life and death. It is not my decision to make.
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    Feb 18, 2010 6:45 AM GMT
    djohn767 saidI was always taught that if you committed suicide you were going straight to Hell and tht God holds the key to life and death it is not my decision to make.


    I always thought I am living in Hell so therefore committing suicide isn't going to make a difference.
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    Feb 18, 2010 6:46 AM GMT
    If there's any chance you're thinking about it seriously, go talk to a counselor ASAP.

    Yes, your problems are real. Most are temporary, some are permanent, but not as permanent as death. Fix it now, and enjoy a full, long life.
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    Feb 18, 2010 6:48 AM GMT
    It's a permanent solution to a temporary situation.

    Learn to love yourself.

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    Feb 18, 2010 6:49 AM GMT
    JakeBenson said
    djohn767 saidI was always taught that if you committed suicide you were going straight to Hell and tht God holds the key to life and death it is not my decision to make.


    I always thought I am living in Hell so therefore committing suicide isn't going to make a difference.



    Shut upicon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif

    I have to go back to my job in a few weeks. I work with a bunch of damn women. If that ain't Hell, then what isicon_sad.gif
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    Feb 18, 2010 6:53 AM GMT
    Every second is a chance to turn your life around.

    A little less than a year ago, I was 100 pounds heavier and miserable. No guy would care to look at me because I was a mess. I graduated from college and the only job that would take me was in retail. However, one day I looked in the mirror and said, "I can change this and be the person who I want to become". Now, I'm looking at 3 interviews coming up that would pay me nearly double what I'm getting now, not including over time and health benefits. If I can make my life worth living, you can as well. I believe in you icon_smile.gif


    The only person who can put limitations on your life is yourself
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    Feb 18, 2010 7:03 AM GMT
    you're here for a reason... keep living and find out what that reason is...
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    Feb 18, 2010 7:12 AM GMT
    Your situation will pass. Your mood will improve. You may want the hurt to stop, but suicide is something you cannot undo.
    You WILL move on to old age, and look back on this current period as a time of growth.
    Keep pushing. Take it moment by moment. If things seem too overwhelming, call someone.
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    Feb 18, 2010 7:34 AM GMT
    No man is worth dying over, and unhappy families are a dime a dozen.

    It's time for you to call Lifeline.

    "This too shall pass."
  • barriehomeboy

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    Feb 18, 2010 7:45 AM GMT
    Graveyards are full of people who wished they had stayed alive. Why knock it if it's so popular? As a chronic suicidal, my advice is to hold on. There are very many better days than days when you feel as bad as you do now. It's like the flu. It goes away quickly. Just hang in there.
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    Feb 18, 2010 8:10 AM GMT
    Interesting question, naturally i'd side with everyone, but very rarely do people even begin to imagine the shit others have to Fucking endure, The Pain, the Ostracizing, the Complete & Total Loneliness; it can very well suffocate some of us.
    I use to believe that their was someone for everyone, but with all the Bullshit i've seen I don't see that anymore. The vast majority of guys don't fucking even grasp the concept of fidelity much less know how to even follow it without some slippage from it's path. And excuses aren't even good while in a relationship. It denotes the whole concept of what a relationship is.
    I believe total analysis of your life from your birth til now is in order during one of these times of uncertainty. Does life get better? It can, but it doesn't always; who you Fucking kidding. Some people never have a moments peace from the cruelty of this world. Others never seen a "cloudy day" in their entire fucking lives, never know what it means to live on the streets not knowing where your next meal will come from, or where you'll sleep next.
    I'd certainly never want any person to go through not even a quarter of the shit i've had to endure.
    It's exceptionally hard when you have no one their besides you, and all you have to resort to is yourself for comfort, a losing battle when you've had to do so for so long.
    As much as i'd like to say we've come so far from any era you could possibly pick out. We've yet to move at all in tons of instances.

    .....
    Maybe none of what I wrote makes sense since this touches home.
    When suicide has been on ones mind for so long it consumes someone. They see failure in everything, nothing rights itself. They get better, life seems grand... than *bop* back to where it all started only this time you lost more.
    icon_cry.gifI know i'm losing this battle alone...

    Some things in Life are Worth Fighting for, others are Worth Seeing, Feeling, Knowing. But as a friend told me we must find ourselves, become whole, accept ourselves, love ourselves, be happy with ourselves. Before we can start working with/on those around us. No one should ever complete "US"...
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    Feb 18, 2010 9:20 AM GMT
    Killing yourself is easy. Living is much harder and a better challenge because who really knows what happens afterward and it's nice to stick around and see what happens. I've attempted and almost succeeded, but some divine intervention came to my rescue in my time of despair. Seek help if you're contemplating suicide.
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    Feb 18, 2010 10:25 AM GMT
    There is another thread that was recently penned by another whom has these feelings of dread as well. I can only offer to you what I said to him, and hope that you see that your life matters.......

    Just the fact that you have penned this post should tell you that you actually want to live and want help. Other than the wonderful advice that others have offered here, it is up to you and you only to reach out to someone near you. Be it an oranisation or acquaintance, they will help.

    But remember YOU started this dialog, YOU reached out. So somewhere in that head of yours you know that YOU matter!

    Best of luck to you. I wish you well on your journey no matter the path you take. The destination lies solely in your hands. No one else's.

    Cheers,
    Keith
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  • GQjock

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    Feb 18, 2010 11:11 AM GMT
    The previous poster is right
    When you get down to it it's You who matters
    What You enjoy
    Who You love
    Not the other way round

    Everyone gets into a rut where we feel defeated .... everyone does
    If you're to the point where you cannot function you need to make a call
    to someone you can trust
    you are not alone in this
    if you're just feeling down then take sometime and do whatever YOU enjoy
    give yourself some guilty pleasure
    Life is here for us and you can do with it anything you want
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    Feb 18, 2010 11:18 AM GMT
    You're also assuming you can/will successfully kill yourself, which isn't always a guarantee.

    Too many of my friends have tried to take their own lives and been unsuccessful, and many of them are living like vegetables now. The ones who aren't have either gotten help and found a reason to live, or they tried again until they either ended up like those aforementioned folks or were put away for good... and most times it was in the locked ward of a hospital rather than the ground. Make no mistake, that's worse than living with and growing through the pain.

    Moral of the story? Suicide is a final solution to temporary problems.... and sometimes even that doesn't work the first time around.

    DON'T DO IT!


  • Koaa2

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    Feb 18, 2010 12:25 PM GMT
    I think suicide is an option for people at some point in their lives.

    Hard to say when that is, as everyone is different.

    For me, when I lose my independence, can't feed myself, can't remember how to suck a cock, I think it will be a good option for me.
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    Feb 18, 2010 6:15 PM GMT

    Confusis, you are one of the people we decided to stay on Realjock for.

    Yes, you are that powerful, and worth that much.

    For you, this song:



    A smiling face is an earth like star
    A frown can't bring out the beauty that you are
    Love within and you'll begin smiling...
    There're brighter days ahead

    Don't mess your face up with bitter tears
    'Cause life is gonna be what it is
    It's okay, please don't delay from smiling...
    There're brighter days ahead


    A smiling face you don't have to see
    'Cause it's as joyful as a Christmas tree
    Love within and you'll begin smiling...
    There're brighter days ahead

    Love's not competing it's on your side
    You're in life picture so why must you cry
    So for a friend please begin to smile - Please
    There're brighter days ahead



    Please smile for me


    Please smile for me


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    Feb 18, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
    Life is always worth living. There's people who are born into horrible, horrible lives and they prevail because they believe.
    Fighting for the glass to be half-full is really fucking hard sometimes and maybe it's a total mind fuck but you have to choose to either look up for a way out of the hole or look down into the abyss. Believe there's a way out, even if you don't see it right now. Don't give up.
  • DrewT

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    Feb 18, 2010 6:47 PM GMT
    Please call 1-800-784-2433 or 1-800-Help-1-NM

    The first is a suicide hotline, the other is Agora Crisis center, and both can help.

    Since I know more about Agora, they will listen to anything you want to talk about and help you in anyway they can. These people are wonderful volunteers and if you need to talk, they will listen.