Dating? .. Confusion

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    Feb 18, 2010 9:27 AM GMT
    Hey, first post and it's from my phone so sorry for any errors.

    So I met a guy online, we spoke for about two weeks almost everyday which he initiated and finally we met up. We decided to keep it casual and meet k. Town one afternoon to grab a drink for an hour. The hour passed and we got on well, the hour turned into 3 before we had to leave. He text me about 15 mins after I got home to ask if it was ok ect and if I wanted to do something again.
    A week later we went to the cinema and again had an awsome time, spoke everyday via text (I dread my phone bill).
    Last night he text me and asked if I wanted to go for a drive, I said yeah and we ended up driving around talking for 3 and a half hours.
    We are going out tonight for a meal and I'm really excited.

    The problem is, nothing has happened yet. I mean he hasn't even attempted to kiss me. He ends his messages with an x and always talks about going places ect ...
    I don't know if I'm Reading to much into this and he just wants to be friends?
    Now I'm ermm .. Not the most experienced guy in anything really.. It's all new to me and I'm generally nervous and a little self concious and so wouldn't make the first move.

    Also, I've kinda been a litle worried regarding if things did progress further in that area, I'm not the most athletic guy there is lol
    I'm not fat or anything but I have a little bit of a stomach I'm trying to loose (joined a gym a few weeks ago) but I know he is an athletic guy so don't wanna get that far for it to just go sour but I don't know if this may be my issue.

    So yeah, in all I'm just kinda confused all round icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 18, 2010 3:39 PM GMT
    what do you expect? He tried to get to know you so do you expect kiss or one night stand. Did you ask him if he wants relationship? Be patient
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    Feb 18, 2010 3:47 PM GMT
    What's the rush? Maybe he's really into you and just wants to take it slowly. Enjoy the moment and don't worry about what might or might not be.