straight men hitting on you

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    Jan 16, 2008 7:06 PM GMT
    Alot of you guys on here are very good looking masculine men.Tell me,do you have it happen sometimes that when "straight" men find out your gay they become,swell not o straight.I had a friend a few years ago who was a competitive bodybuilder with a handsome face to match and he was always amazed at the number of so-called straight men who would become flirty with him when they found out he was gay. Has this happened to you?icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 17, 2008 4:48 AM GMT
    It happened in high school...once this Down low type found out I was gay and suddenly wanted me to study with him a lot...which was really awkward and i bet if I had done it he would have propositioned me.
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    Jan 17, 2008 5:17 AM GMT
    I would think this type of thing happens quite often actuallyicon_wink.gif
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    Jan 17, 2008 5:17 AM GMT
    I would think this type of thing happens quite often actuallyicon_wink.gif
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    Jan 17, 2008 8:41 AM GMT
    In the spirit of banter, yes... you should see my wall post on facebook! LOL
    Sadly, (straight) men who flirt with gay guys who are "out" like me are the ones I am most attracted to. It speaks volumes of their confidence and security from within themselves, which is quite admirable and endearing. IMFlirtyO. lol x
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    Jan 17, 2008 1:11 PM GMT
    I think they stop being straight at the point where they start flirting with men. icon_wink.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jan 17, 2008 1:32 PM GMT
    Well you are making the assumption that the straight guy would know I'm gay and then react. There are only a few times that I'm aware that a straight dude knows or suspects I'm gay... thats usually when I'm a part of a group, not alone and never have been hit on.. that I can remember.
  • cdnclub

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    Jan 17, 2008 4:35 PM GMT
    There was this guy in high school who befriended me when it was pretty common knowledge that I was gay. He was a very macho, 1st nations guy with a natural muscular build that would get him major praise on a site like this. He would take me to porno shops to look at all the straight porn and ogle naked women. Then he would invite me over to his place to sleep over, and he would spend most of his time in his underwear! Anyway, I always wondered about that guy and then a year or two later I saw him at a gay bar with his girlfriend necking by the dance floor. Still don't know what to make of him..lol
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    Mar 31, 2010 2:22 PM GMT
    I think they do it to get attention from women. At least that's my experience.