What To Do - What To Do.....

  • jimslate71

    Posts: 6

    Feb 19, 2010 2:45 PM GMT
    I like this guy a lot but have sadly come to accept that he isn't seiously interested in me. We fooled around, but I have very few partners, so I guess that means more to me. I don't live near him anymore anyway, but next month I am going to visit his area and have the potential to meet with him. The problem is that I regrettably realize that emotionally it is hard for me to get over him, although in my heart I know he doesn't really care for me. So what should I do?

    When I am in his town don't even contact him?
    Stay at his place but sleep on the couch?
    Stay at his place and just hit it anyway?
    Stay at a hotel and just meet him for coffee?
  • Kyboy270

    Posts: 30

    Feb 19, 2010 2:52 PM GMT
    I wouldn't even contact him. Just putting yourself through more pain.

    You're worth more than that, and you deserve someone who really cares about you.
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    Feb 19, 2010 2:57 PM GMT
    Hit it anyway.

    He may change his mind.
  • jimslate71

    Posts: 6

    Feb 19, 2010 3:37 PM GMT
    Caslon13000 saidHit it anyway.

    He may change his mind.


    icon_lol.gif Sadly enough, I actually thought about this scenario. Then my logic kicked in and told me it's not likely.
  • BarettaB80

    Posts: 141

    Feb 20, 2010 8:16 PM GMT
    I think you'd better just forget him.

    Or icon_twisted.gif him and then walk out and leave right at that moment in the middle of the night. just kidding. (maybe)
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    Feb 20, 2010 8:21 PM GMT
    Remove yourself from the situation. If you hit it and its good you just have to leave him anyways especially if he isnt seriously interested in you, and if its bad you just had bad sex with a man that still doesn't want to be with you...
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    Feb 23, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    Suggestion....send him a friendly e-mail just to say hello and ask how he is doing, and mention that you're going to be in town. No expectations, just acting out of friendship. Maybe he'll respond....but if he doesn't, it's probably best to just move on.