What do you look for in a guy that you date?

  • sportsjockla

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    Feb 19, 2010 5:21 PM GMT
    Is there something that you require? Is there something that is a deal breaker?

    I don't like smokers and I do want someone that is psychically active. They don't have to be super muscular or anything, just take care of themselves.
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    Feb 19, 2010 6:00 PM GMT
    Open minded. Be able to try new things or make small compromises.
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    Feb 19, 2010 8:43 PM GMT
    Intelligence, a guy who can be a chameleon fitting in at a 5-star hotel or just slumming it, someone NOT glued to his cellphone, someone you'd be proud to meet your family.
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    Feb 19, 2010 8:48 PM GMT
    Caring
    Intelligent
    Non-judgemental
    Open-minded
    Respectful, both of himself and others
    and my friends need to like him too
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    Feb 19, 2010 8:52 PM GMT
    Not an asshole.
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    Feb 19, 2010 9:34 PM GMT
    date? what is this thing you speak of?
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    Feb 19, 2010 9:35 PM GMT
    Sedative saidNot an asshole.



    Just to clarify, you mean that in the emotional way, and not the anatomical way.


    right?


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    Feb 19, 2010 9:47 PM GMT
    An upbeat demeanor
    Stability: Emotional and financial
    A kind and generous heart
    A sense of humor and a contagious laugh
    Intelligence
    A fit body
    An appreciation for sensuality. The orgasm isn’t everything.
    A healthy libido

    I cannot stand rotten teeth and bad breath.
    I dislike men who smoke, drink and drug. Slow motion suicide ain’t hot.
    If he cuts people down behind their back for fun…g’bye!
  • sportsjockla

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    Feb 19, 2010 9:48 PM GMT
    Sedative saidNot an asshole.


    Haha! Can't have that!
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    Feb 19, 2010 9:49 PM GMT
    EasilyDistracted saiddate? what is this thing you speak of?


    They look like this, J:

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    Feb 19, 2010 9:50 PM GMT
    a pulse....





    ....a visual impairment, inability to speak, deaf, independently wealthy and owns a liquor store... but can still drive everywhere, I like to be driven around. I'm going to think about what I need to add to that simple list... give me time.
  • masculumpedes

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    Feb 19, 2010 9:51 PM GMT
    ....nice feet 34.gif
  • DrewbieDoo

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    Feb 19, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    please no ego - sense of humor, open-minded, has manners, and a good family... I have a soft spot for a guy who's nice and respectful to his parents...
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    Feb 19, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    malefeet said....nice feet 34.gif


    So ticklish is no longer a requirement?
  • somedaytoo

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    Feb 19, 2010 10:14 PM GMT
    Eyes only for me.
  • FriscoJansen

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    Feb 19, 2010 10:23 PM GMT
    It would be great if he doesn't smoke! haha. but I prefer to love a guy for who he is, I wouldn't attempt to change him. You have to compromise. The hot bodies are only gonna be hot for so long.
  • dhinkansas

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    Feb 19, 2010 10:27 PM GMT
    A pulse.
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    Feb 19, 2010 10:29 PM GMT
    Honest, funny, smart, masculine, can hold a conversation, they don't mind that deep down I'm a huge nerd... dark hair and good body don't hurt either
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    Feb 20, 2010 12:05 AM GMT
    He must have a set of functioning ovaries.
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    Feb 20, 2010 12:09 AM GMT
    BlkMuscleGent saidHe must have a set of functioning ovaries.


    bitch daz how u roll?....lolz
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  • bchbum

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    Feb 20, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    Intelligence is something I always look for. After that comes a sense of adventure. Of course looks and a decent body are always a consideration. However, those things fade with time, so the other two items are more important.
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    Feb 20, 2010 12:20 AM GMT
    He must be a loyal guy. This is a MUST
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    Feb 20, 2010 1:33 AM GMT
    djdorchester said
    Sedative saidNot an asshole.



    Just to clarify, you mean that in the emotional way, and not the anatomical way.


    right?




    Ach. The peculiarities of being gay. Would it be better understood if I said... Dick? Jerk?

    I'm confused... icon_confused.gif
  • Kyboy270

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    Feb 20, 2010 1:59 AM GMT
    One thing that REALLY grabs my attention is when a guy listens to me and shows a real interest in what I'm saying.

    An expressive face is always attractive.

    And the kicker, can he make me laugh? This is the real test of a winner.
  • bryjeepguy

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    Feb 20, 2010 2:16 AM GMT
    Its a combination of qualities that I like that come together for me either being really interested or no interest at all. Someone who is good person, honest, open minded, accepting of others for who they are and not try and change them, not arrogant, possess some level of empathy with their actions not just what they say (tired of egomaniac sociopaths who pretend to be good person but only far enough to get their goals which apparently are limited to getting me into bed on the first meeting lol :-P). But umm, Intelligence and desire to learn. Impulsive but yet still has goals and ambition, willing to try new things. But that confluence of qualities it sounds like a checklist which it isn't, but rather just a feeling if I connect with someone or not.