i wanna break up with my date

  • johnny9027

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    Feb 20, 2010 12:05 AM GMT
    it just doesn't feel right when i'm with him, but he's a really nice guy, so how can i open my mouth and say goodbye to him?
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    Feb 20, 2010 12:09 AM GMT
    "You're a really nice guy but I'm not feeling the chemistry. Good bye."

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    Feb 20, 2010 12:41 AM GMT
    "it's not you, it's me"
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    Feb 20, 2010 1:08 AM GMT
    u can do many things, jus dont (this i absolutely hate) ignore him, or people.
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    Feb 20, 2010 1:10 AM GMT
    (in a very shallow and dingy blond, "valley girl" voice)...."OK...so like...you are a great guy and stuff and I really like you and want to be friends and stuff, but like I saw this really hot guy on campus who winked at me and I think we want to get married and move to Spain or something.....so like, can you still be my friend but, can we date others?".......Hmmmm? .maybe that doesn't work either......nope...I guess you need to "COMMUNICATE" directly........ and deal with the emotions of telling him you are breaking up with him...and DON'T be a gutless pussy that sends a text or a facebook or twitter post! Those are the guys that should understand that they aren't mature enough to be in a relationship....icon_cool.gif
  • johnny9027

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    Feb 20, 2010 3:14 AM GMT
    i've just broken up with him.......he seemed really really sad
  • johnny9027

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    Feb 20, 2010 3:15 AM GMT
    djdorchester said"You're a really nice guy but I'm not feeling the chemistry. Good bye."


    he said "this is just bullshit!"
    ugh, sometimes truth really hurts

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    Feb 20, 2010 3:21 AM GMT
    Gosh, I'd have said "friends?" after that instead of "goodbye".


    -Doug
  • johnny9027

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    Feb 20, 2010 3:25 AM GMT
    i didn't say good bye, but the chemistry thing does make ppl feel bad.
    i didn't feel the chemistry = i break up with u for no reason
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    Feb 20, 2010 3:28 AM GMT
    Oh that's too bad. He's missing out on a friendship, and those are so important.

  • johnny9027

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    Feb 20, 2010 3:32 AM GMT
    yeah, i said i'd like to be friend of urs, but he kinda act rejected about this
  • DrewbieDoo

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    Feb 20, 2010 3:40 AM GMT
    if we're allowed to know, why did you want to break up if he is a really nice guy
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    Feb 20, 2010 4:09 AM GMT
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    Feb 20, 2010 4:15 AM GMT
    I'm really into my career right now...
  • 8Always_Hard8

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    Feb 20, 2010 4:18 AM GMT
    "i'm actually a woman"
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    Feb 20, 2010 4:18 AM GMT
    johnny9027 saidyeah, i said i'd like to be friend of urs, but he kinda act rejected about this


    Maybe just maybe you should have made it look like you were doing him a favor in breaking up by saying he deserves someone he is more compatible with and you are not that guy. I want you to find that perfect match just for you.

    By the way no matter how you present the situation he was going to feel hurt. The way I suggested you are giving him an eventual emotional out to play on his mind to think maybe you weren't good enough for him.
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    Feb 20, 2010 4:23 AM GMT
    8Always_Hard8 said"i'm actually a woman"


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    Feb 20, 2010 4:26 AM GMT
    There is always:

    "I have some things I need to work on, and I wouldn't want to punish you by waiting for me."
  • johnny9027

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    Feb 20, 2010 4:38 AM GMT
    kaicho saidThere is always:

    "I have some things I need to work on, and I wouldn't want to punish you by waiting for me."


    i've heard this before, actually i think this words r really caring
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    Feb 20, 2010 5:06 AM GMT
    How many times have you dated him?
  • jgymnast733

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    Feb 20, 2010 5:35 AM GMT
    Same thing happened to me,
    I loved the fact that he's smart and RICH and a world travler, we always had so much fun together but i just didnt love him[the way he loved me].. .I know some guys would love to string him along to get what they could out of him but i cant do that to him...
    I told him how i felt about him and of course he was angry considering how much fun we always have, but we're still buddies...
    The guy called me just before the snow hit the east coast to tell me to pack a bag, he was on his way to DUBAI to get away from the snow.....icon_exclaim.gif
    He'll be a great catch for someone...