Sexual tastes changing

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    Feb 21, 2010 7:16 AM GMT
    Hey

    Was just wondering about something with me to see if this happened to anyone else.

    When I first started dating my ex (my first LTR) I thought that I was a bottom and that was pretty much how things were going to work out. I even thought about being dominated at times. etc. etc.

    Then after dating him for about 3 months and realizing he was somewhat of a power bottom, I got really into dominating him, rimming, etc. Things I was never into before. Now I rarely have any interest in bottoming.

    Has this happened to anyone else?
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    Feb 21, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    Yes. It happens. Sometimes it happens more than once.
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    Feb 21, 2010 3:04 PM GMT
    It's not unusual. I've gone back and forth with my preferences over time. Though, I think my amateur proctologist years might have just been a phase.
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    Feb 21, 2010 3:07 PM GMT
    Happens ALL of the time.
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    Feb 21, 2010 5:25 PM GMT
    Ah life goes on!
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    Feb 21, 2010 5:45 PM GMT
    Tastes really do change. I'm quite versatile most of the time, but I have periods of time where I flip back and forth.

    GuerrillaSodomite saidIt's not unusual. I've gone back and forth with my preferences over time. Though, I think my amateur proctologist years might have just been a phase.


    You can practice on me any time ;)
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    Feb 21, 2010 5:46 PM GMT
    No not to me. I've always been a top and have no interest in being a bottom
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    Feb 21, 2010 5:48 PM GMT
    Although I have my (somehwhat strong) preferences, the context (aka the person) really does affect what it is I want to do exactly, so it doesn't seem strange at all. You might again become interested in bottoming with another person.
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    Feb 22, 2010 2:55 PM GMT
    GwgTrunks saidTastes really do change. I'm quite versatile most of the time, but I have periods of time where I flip back and forth.

    GuerrillaSodomite saidIt's not unusual. I've gone back and forth with my preferences over time. Though, I think my amateur proctologist years might have just been a phase.


    You can practice on me any time ;)


    *snaps latex glove and while laughing maniacally*icon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 22, 2010 3:22 PM GMT
    Yeah, it's not abnormal... it happens to us all. People change.
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    Feb 22, 2010 9:13 PM GMT
    Haha, thanks for the responses folks.
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    Feb 23, 2010 9:19 PM GMT
    MadeNUSA saidNo not to me. I've always been a top and have no interest in being a bottom

    same here
  • helium

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    Feb 23, 2010 9:42 PM GMT
    I can say I have had that happen to me a few times here. I went from being full top to full bottom to vers to now where I'm 90% top/10% bottom.
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    Feb 23, 2010 9:46 PM GMT
    I only cuddle...





    ...with penetration.
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    Feb 25, 2010 5:38 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    EasilyDistracted saidI only cuddle...





    ...with penetration.

    ....and I only penetrate those that I cuddle....icon_eek.gif

    icon_twisted.gif

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    Feb 25, 2010 5:43 AM GMT
    Yea I go back in forth so I label myself Vers and change so i meet the preference of the other person but if i bottom for them often i usually have feelings of wanting to stick it in them and rock their world and vice vers if they are a bottom i think its a competition thing for me
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    Feb 25, 2010 5:47 AM GMT
    Dated a guy for two years, the first year I was 100% top and the 2nd year he was 100% top...No idea, it just happened but obviously humans change, and i'd think it's normal. i now will agree i'm 50/50 and would love to be like that with another guy, but sometimes people are firm on their stances.
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    Feb 25, 2010 6:01 AM GMT
    haha...I was thinking about the same thing last night. Lately, I have been a bottom, where as before I had always preferred being a top.