Real Jock

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    Feb 21, 2010 7:35 PM GMT
    I am relatively new here on RJ and the whole online chatting community. Yes, I'm a little late but it's okay. I've chatted with a few blokes, hot listed a few more and have a buddy here and there. The forums are never dull, however this one might break the trend. icon_neutral.gif

    How important is RJ to you?
    What do you use the site for?

  • myklet1

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    Feb 21, 2010 7:50 PM GMT
    Not all that important to me, but I did meet someone that has become a friend that introduced me to a more productive site. The men are also much friendlier and you are not judged because you don't have a picture posted.

    I mainly use RJ for the forums. I am not really in to watching someone masturbate on the web. I'm not into cyber sex.......... I like it in my own hands in front of my own eyes. Though I do applaud cyber sex to a point because it is definitely safe sex, and I work in HIV Prevention for the State.

    It is moderately fun, and I have seen the profiles of some very handsome men. My favorite.......Diddler. The man is "the boy next door" and very hot in a nice guy kind of way.
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    Feb 21, 2010 7:55 PM GMT
    During my cancer therapy and recovery, it was my life line being stuck in the house for 3 years. But now, it is much less interesting. I can hardly get motivated to post an LOLcat. ... icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 21, 2010 8:09 PM GMT
    I agree. I always return for the forums, they can get mightily interesting. As for the extra visual activity icon_wink.gif While I don't partake, it would be wrong for me to condemn it. And yes, there are some very nice men here too.
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Feb 21, 2010 8:19 PM GMT
    I joined this site at a recommendation of a friend who, like me is an actual gay athlete/Jock that plays competitive sports....in his case Basketball in my case Volleyball.

    When I joined there were quite a few real athletes here but then it skewed into a worship site for body builders with big muscles and those that like them as opposed to Real Jocks. Not that BBs are not jocks, it is just that sports players took a back seat. I loved the forums at first but extreme prejudice, (racially, age and against non giant, stereoided muscle queens,) religious fanatics and gay republicans have been major turnoffs.

    I have met a handful of nice men and some Vball players joined our team for a couple of tournaments but overall this site is not for me anymore.
    It seems to be about just big muscle guys now.
    If that is your thing, then this is your site.
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    Feb 21, 2010 8:22 PM GMT
    Since you are a seasoned member. (No insult intended) How has this changed? Is the environment and it's members less mature, is there less tolerance for other points of view?
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    Feb 21, 2010 11:16 PM GMT
    Caslon13000 saidDuring my cancer therapy and recovery, it was my life line being stuck in the house for 3 years. But now, it is much less interesting. I can hardly get motivated to post an LOLcat. ... icon_eek.gif


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    Feb 21, 2010 11:22 PM GMT
    CA_DREAMER saidSince you are a seasoned member. (No insult intended) How has this changed? Is the environment and it's members less mature, is there less tolerance for other points of view?

    Well, when it started every topic was new, of course. After 3+ years, it's like I dont think I take another "personal problem with your bf that you know so much better than I so why are you asking me" thread. OMFG...leave him....stay with him....dont ask me .... icon_lol.gif

    Also there was a lot more witty banter between guys that has all gone now.

  • trl_

    Posts: 994

    Feb 21, 2010 11:29 PM GMT
    What great questions

    i basically just use this site to look at hot guys. (kidding)
    I mostly enjoy the forums because it's an all gay outlet that isn't really found in most places, and it's not like Denver or most cities for that matter have some sort of caucus of fitness oriented gay men so I think it a sort of resource I guess to get answers for my questions or just express myself
  • swimbikerun

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    Feb 21, 2010 11:30 PM GMT
    Oh, definitely naked and masturbating on the street corner during the day. Wait...what was the question? icon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 22, 2010 9:30 AM GMT
    hot list is great for motivation & the forums are a good option to television
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    Feb 22, 2010 11:12 AM GMT
    Hullo and welcome to SPARTA!!!!

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    I joined it seemingly ages ago now, when I decided to bulk up. Have since kinda... gotten waylaid given that it's still impossible to find a gym nearby. *sigh* I'm currently trying to find somewhere to buy my own equipment and get back on track.

    Other than that, my work which virtually involves me sitting in front of the computer the whole friggin day means that I browse the forums more often. The forums here are a great deal more interesting (and I can relate to it far more than in the other 'mixed' forums which have far more heterosexuals in them, or even from forums where all they discuss is whether the latest matinee idol is hung or not). It's also one of the few gay forums not completely taken over by camsexers. Haha

    A very good source of latest LGBT-related news and stuff as well.