Break up

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    Feb 22, 2010 8:18 PM GMT
    My boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me, and I feel like a pile of shit right now.

    I just needed to write it down to make it real.
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    Feb 22, 2010 8:40 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear that. You should go out and treat yourself. Hope you feel better soon.
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    Feb 22, 2010 9:01 PM GMT
    Ouch! We've both been there. You'll have some of those 3amses feelings for awhile.

    While you get past it, you can always pop in to RJ and hang with all of us.

    a hug - us guys.
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    Feb 22, 2010 9:02 PM GMT
    Fitkid saidMy boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me, and I feel like a pile of shit right now.

    awww....that's crap. Sorry
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    Feb 22, 2010 11:17 PM GMT
    awww, man. That sucks...


    we here at RJ support you! If you need a new bf, I'm sure many guys here will volunteer.

  • somedaytoo

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    Feb 22, 2010 11:31 PM GMT
    His loss
  • JohnG16775

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    Feb 22, 2010 11:50 PM GMT
    Yes His loss,you got us baby
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    Feb 22, 2010 11:55 PM GMT
    wutd u do dood?
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    Feb 23, 2010 12:08 AM GMT
    joshnyc saidwutd u do dood?


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    Feb 23, 2010 12:14 AM GMT
    my relationship of 14 months just blew up in my face too, honestly Im happier without him... and he's happier with out me, so win-win!! haha, find the positive, keep your chin up kiddo, and brush that dirt of your shoulder haha
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    Feb 23, 2010 12:51 AM GMT
    The best revenge is to have a great life. So do things you enjoy, do stuff you couldn't do while in the relationship, do come here often to converse with like-minded people.

    Also, if you feel wronged by the break-up, exorcize him from your life. Don't contact him, block his phone, texts and emails and unfriend him on Facebook

    We've all been there, suffered, ranted and recovered. So will you.
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    Feb 23, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    It always sucks when things like that happen. icon_sad.gif

    Anyway, you are a nice guy. Go on with your life. Hit the gym, meet up with friends, and enjoy life. You might also be able to devote time to a hobby or activity that you did not have time for before! All the best!
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    Feb 23, 2010 1:16 AM GMT
    Yeah, just got out of my 11 year relationship but life goes on. Honestly I didn't think it would but there's a silver lining to everything. If he's not right it's better to know now than after a long and unhappy relationship, right? Sorry you're going through a rough time though.
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    Feb 23, 2010 1:18 AM GMT
    Fitkid saidMy boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me, and I feel like a pile of shit right now.

    I just needed to write it down to make it real.


    Awe *hug* hope you feel better soon, sucks when bad things like that happen, and only time will make things better.
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    Feb 23, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    Don't worry there is someone for everyone, take it as a learning life lesson
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    Feb 23, 2010 1:26 AM GMT
    you'll be ok mate.

    you're beautiful icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 23, 2010 1:29 AM GMT
    Sorry to hear what happened. Buck up. If you could know now just how many good men will come into your life. Stay tuned.
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    Feb 23, 2010 1:30 AM GMT
    Fitkid saidMy boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me, and I feel like a pile of shit right now.

    I just needed to write it down to make it real.

    Accept that you will go on feeling like a POS for awhile no matter what you do.
    That said, is there anyplace you've been wanting to go? Take a long weekend and go there. A change of scene will help.
    My personal suggestion: 3 days in New Orleans. It won't cure what ails you, but while you're there the sensory overload won't let you brood too much.
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    Feb 23, 2010 1:57 AM GMT
    Ahhhh shit... that totally sucks... I'm so sorry.
    We have all been there and it's frequently the painful cost of doing business.
    It's totally his loss. Keep your chin up and don't let his actions determine your self worth.
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    Feb 23, 2010 3:45 AM GMT
    I just had to break up with my guy.. on and off over 5 years but this feels like the big one. I get what you mean by feeling like it's not real. And boy does it flat out suck.

    Might be moving into the Atlanta area after another couple months. If you're still feeling cruddy I'll take you out for a drink. We can get shit faced, slur at innocent passer-byers about how good they have it, and then after a good man-cry we'll both feel better.

    Sound alright? icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 23, 2010 3:48 AM GMT
    adam81 saidyou'll be ok mate.

    you're beautiful icon_biggrin.gif



    Does this mean that if he were ugly he wouldn't be ok?
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    Feb 23, 2010 4:53 AM GMT
    Sorry to hear.icon_cry.gif Embrace the feelings you have right now, let them pass in their own time.


    And remember to have lots and lots of ice cream!
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    Feb 23, 2010 5:04 AM GMT
    Im sorry bud, things will get better! My ex broke up with me last May. At first, I was crushed...looking back at at him and where I was at that time, I would not change anything now. I am much happier without him and have had lots of fun meeting new and more exciting guys! Hang in thereicon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 23, 2010 6:30 AM GMT

    Fitkid, we suggest taking up KentuckyTuss on his offer.

    " I just had to break up with my guy.. on and off over 5 years but this feels like the big one. I get what you mean by feeling like it's not real. And boy does it flat out suck.

    Might be moving into the Atlanta area after another couple months. If you're still feeling cruddy I'll take you out for a drink. We can get shit faced, slur at innocent passer-byers about how good they have it, and then after a good man-cry we'll both feel better.

    Sound alright? "

    -you're a good man, KentuckyTuss!
  • zenny

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    Feb 23, 2010 6:53 AM GMT
    It's still better than datig someone you thought was a keeper but turns out to be a big undercover drag man-slut (whom hooked up with your "friend") lemme know when you're in town so I we can go out for Some drinks lol.